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"Is there such a thing as a dick that’s too big for anal? I don’t mean from a pain point of view, I mean it literally can’t fit in?
Any tips for getting a big one in? "
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"Is there such a thing as a dick that’s too big for anal? I don’t mean from a pain point of view, I mean it literally can’t fit in?
Any tips for getting a big one in? "
Yeap I've never been allowed to do it spoken about it when it came to it and got down to it she was like no way |
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Face down for the he Woman is the best way, with some lube.
Very deep breathing at the start till you become accustomed to the initial shock, then nice and steady in and out,. I like to breathe in time with each thrust. Done well, it makes me feel debased and filthy and I love it.
I had a Kurdish man who used to spare me nothing whilst he did it. He wouldn't let me use lube, sometimes he just spat on my ass xxx
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"Face down for the he Woman is the best way, with some lube.
Very deep breathing at the start till you become accustomed to the initial shock, then nice and steady in and out,. I like to breathe in time with each thrust. Done well, it makes me feel debased and filthy and I love it.
I had a Kurdish man who used to spare me nothing whilst he did it. He wouldn't let me use lube, sometimes he just spat on my ass xxx
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OMG!! He is using plenty of lube!
Thanks for the advice, hope I can get it in  |
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"Is there such a thing as a dick that’s too big for anal? I don’t mean from a pain point of view, I mean it literally can’t fit in?
Any tips for getting a big one in? "
Don't ask me - not a problem I've ever faced!  |
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"Is there such a thing as a dick that’s too big for anal? I don’t mean from a pain point of view, I mean it literally can’t fit in?
Any tips for getting a big one in?
Yeap I've never been allowed to do it spoken about it when it came to it and got down to it she was like no way "
Really? Hubby is bigger than you and i love anal with him. |
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"Is there such a thing as a dick that’s too big for anal? I don’t mean from a pain point of view, I mean it literally can’t fit in?
Any tips for getting a big one in?
Don't ask me - not a problem I've ever faced! "
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"Face down for the he Woman is the best way, with some lube.
Very deep breathing at the start till you become accustomed to the initial shock, then nice and steady in and out,. I like to breathe in time with each thrust. Done well, it makes me feel debased and filthy and I love it.
I had a Kurdish man who used to spare me nothing whilst he did it. He wouldn't let me use lube, sometimes he just spat on my ass xxx
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oh .my word , that's the Brazilian way ! |
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"Time, patience, lube, communication, a bit more lube, and you push back on him when you are ready for the next inch, not him pushing in...
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Yes, I don’t want him ramming it all in! He’s quite good though, he knows it’s huge so he’s careful with it |
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"Time, patience, lube, communication, a bit more lube, and you push back on him when you are ready for the next inch, not him pushing in...
Yes, I don’t want him ramming it all in! He’s quite good though, he knows it’s huge so he’s careful with it "
Very lucky guy ?? |
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"Time, patience, lube, communication, a bit more lube, and you push back on him when you are ready for the next inch, not him pushing in...
Yes, I don’t want him ramming it all in! He’s quite good though, he knows it’s huge so he’s careful with it
Very lucky guy ??"
He’s lovely, got a lovely cock and a genuinely nice guy |
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"Time, patience, lube, communication, a bit more lube, and you push back on him when you are ready for the next inch, not him pushing in...
Yes, I don’t want him ramming it all in! He’s quite good though, he knows it’s huge so he’s careful with it "
Just make sure you are always in control! Enjoy... we adore anal |
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"Time, patience, lube, communication, a bit more lube, and you push back on him when you are ready for the next inch, not him pushing in...
Yes, I don’t want him ramming it all in! He’s quite good though, he knows it’s huge so he’s careful with it
Just make sure you are always in control! Enjoy... we adore anal "
I will. I’d like to like it but I far it just hurts 
I’ll try again |
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"Time, patience, lube, communication, a bit more lube, and you push back on him when you are ready for the next inch, not him pushing in...
Yes, I don’t want him ramming it all in! He’s quite good though, he knows it’s huge so he’s careful with it
Very lucky guy ??
He’s lovely, got a lovely cock and a genuinely nice guy "
You hope he's a nice gentle guy too  I've been denied it a few times so now I don't ever suggest it gonna wait till a woman tells me she wants to do it |
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"Time, patience, lube, communication, a bit more lube, and you push back on him when you are ready for the next inch, not him pushing in...
Yes, I don’t want him ramming it all in! He’s quite good though, he knows it’s huge so he’s careful with it
Just make sure you are always in control! Enjoy... we adore anal
I will. I’d like to like it but I far it just hurts
I’ll try again "
If it’s not for you then it’s not for you... personally we love it, but don’t feel pressured into it |
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"Time, patience, lube, communication, a bit more lube, and you push back on him when you are ready for the next inch, not him pushing in...
Yes, I don’t want him ramming it all in! He’s quite good though, he knows it’s huge so he’s careful with it
Just make sure you are always in control! Enjoy... we adore anal
I will. I’d like to like it but I far it just hurts
I’ll try again
If it’s not for you then it’s not for you... personally we love it, but don’t feel pressured into it "
I do want to do it, I think it’s been attempted badly before now which makes me associate it with pain. It’d be so hot if I can get it in! |
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"Time, patience, lube, communication, a bit more lube, and you push back on him when you are ready for the next inch, not him pushing in...
Yes, I don’t want him ramming it all in! He’s quite good though, he knows it’s huge so he’s careful with it
Very lucky guy ??
He’s lovely, got a lovely cock and a genuinely nice guy
You hope he's a nice gentle guy too I've been denied it a few times so now I don't ever suggest it gonna wait till a woman tells me she wants to do it "
He’s very gentle  |
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"Time, patience, lube, communication, a bit more lube, and you push back on him when you are ready for the next inch, not him pushing in...
Yes, I don’t want him ramming it all in! He’s quite good though, he knows it’s huge so he’s careful with it
Very lucky guy ??
He’s lovely, got a lovely cock and a genuinely nice guy
You hope he's a nice gentle guy too I've been denied it a few times so now I don't ever suggest it gonna wait till a woman tells me she wants to do it
He’s very gentle "
Shouldn't have any issue then unless he really is a horse  |
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"Time, patience, lube, communication, a bit more lube, and you push back on him when you are ready for the next inch, not him pushing in...
Yes, I don’t want him ramming it all in! He’s quite good though, he knows it’s huge so he’s careful with it
Very lucky guy ??
He’s lovely, got a lovely cock and a genuinely nice guy
You hope he's a nice gentle guy too I've been denied it a few times so now I don't ever suggest it gonna wait till a woman tells me she wants to do it
He’s very gentle
Shouldn't have any issue then unless he really is a horse "
It is massive but I’m going to give it a go  |
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"I find the bigger cocks easier, little cocks are like being stabbed and if it comes out and don't go back in right way as he's thrusting, it kills , bigger cocks make my ass cum a lot easier too "
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"Is there such a thing as a dick that’s too big for anal? I don’t mean from a pain point of view, I mean it literally can’t fit in?
Any tips for getting a big one in? "
my tip would be just start with the tip  |
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"Is there such a thing as a dick that’s too big for anal? I don’t mean from a pain point of view, I mean it literally can’t fit in?
Any tips for getting a big one in?
my tip would be just start with the tip "
Haha that is definitely what I’m going to do |
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Sit on him and pleasure yourself at the same time so you’re ready, sit on him so you feel in control and you decide how fast you take it, excuse the pun. Toys first is a good idea and no I don’t think there is too big if you really want it and are ready enough, 9 was my biggest though, heard someone say 13”...jesssus! |
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"Sit on him and pleasure yourself at the same time so you’re ready, sit on him so you feel in control and you decide how fast you take it, excuse the pun. Toys first is a good idea and no I don’t think there is too big if you really want it and are ready enough, 9 was my biggest though, heard someone say 13”...jesssus!"
I’ve tried quite a few times with a toy and can only get the first couple of inches in and it just comes to a stop! I’ve used loads of lube but it’s just not going in |
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Ability to relax is the only real limitation, as many have said 'lube, lube, lube' but actually a lot of it comes down to your partner, trust, patience etc go a long way x |
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"Ability to relax is the only real limitation, as many have said 'lube, lube, lube' but actually a lot of it comes down to your partner, trust, patience etc go a long way x"
I’m worried it’s not going to work because if I can’t do it myself with a toy of a similar size then I don’t know how he’s going to fit in  |
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"Is there such a thing as a dick that’s too big for anal? I don’t mean from a pain point of view, I mean it literally can’t fit in?
Any tips for getting a big one in? "
Plenty of lube and ease it in slowly you'll be amazed how much you can stretch |
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You could try in the bath if you have a good enough tub, some herbal things can “relax” you too but you’d have to google that. Loads of vajayjay and magic button fun first too, you have to be really really turned on and into it or it just won’t work, starting slow until it feels comfortable. Maybe you are right though, if you can’t get a toy to fit yourself he might genuinely not fit. Atleast you have tried I’m sure there’s other ways you can spice things up. Or just keep trying. If some went in abit more might next time and more each time...I never used lube as I found it abit stingy but the bath, swimming pool if you have that option works a treat. |
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"You could try in the bath if you have a good enough tub, some herbal things can “relax” you too but you’d have to google that. Loads of vajayjay and magic button fun first too, you have to be really really turned on and into it or it just won’t work, starting slow until it feels comfortable. Maybe you are right though, if you can’t get a toy to fit yourself he might genuinely not fit. Atleast you have tried I’m sure there’s other ways you can spice things up. Or just keep trying. If some went in abit more might next time and more each time...I never used lube as I found it abit stingy but the bath, swimming pool if you have that option works a treat."
Oh that’s a good idea! I’ll try that, thanks |
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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago
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"My fb has the biggest dick I’ve ever seen and really wants to do anal. I’ve agreed to it but I’m worried because I’ve got a toy that’s smaller than him and I can’t get it in!"
Get a smaller toy...and build yrself up to it...plenty of lube... |
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"Ability to relax is the only real limitation, as many have said 'lube, lube, lube' but actually a lot of it comes down to your partner, trust, patience etc go a long way x
I’m worried it’s not going to work because if I can’t do it myself with a toy of a similar size then I don’t know how he’s going to fit in "
In honesty I've had a horse cock Strapon, Willys in pairs, fists, smaller ladies forearms up there without any pain or issue, however I've also pushed away idiot guys with 5" willys who where just completely unaware of what they where doing and where causing mayhem.
Its all about relaxation, wait for a point where you are in the mood and just want to do it, perhaps at the end of a session etc... And dont worry about tapping out and trying again another day.
For the record... No, food doesn't just fall out the other end when I eat it, im as tight as Liverpools back 4. The body has ridiculous limits but its about learning to feel comfortable with the physical emotion of such acts... Take time, choose a patient partner, dont set deadlines x
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The spooning position is best for us. We have tried numerous positions with plenty of water based and silicone based lubes but she still finds it too uncomfortable to continue.
Sometimes after sex we have a nice spoon. When I’m hard again it goes straight in, most of the time without any lube. Guessing this is because she is feeling very relaxed at that point. |
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"Is there such a thing as a dick that’s too big for anal? I don’t mean from a pain point of view, I mean it literally can’t fit in?
Any tips for getting a big one in? "
of course their is but everyones sphincter muscle will react differently I know a woman who can get a 3 L bottle of Pepsi max up there let's hope that muscle never fails in later life lol  |
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"Ability to relax is the only real limitation, as many have said 'lube, lube, lube' but actually a lot of it comes down to your partner, trust, patience etc go a long way x
I’m worried it’s not going to work because if I can’t do it myself with a toy of a similar size then I don’t know how he’s going to fit in
In honesty I've had a horse cock Strapon, Willys in pairs, fists, smaller ladies forearms up there without any pain or issue, however I've also pushed away idiot guys with 5" willys who where just completely unaware of what they where doing and where causing mayhem.
Its all about relaxation, wait for a point where you are in the mood and just want to do it, perhaps at the end of a session etc... And dont worry about tapping out and trying again another day.
For the record... No, food doesn't just fall out the other end when I eat it, im as tight as Liverpools back 4. The body has ridiculous limits but its about learning to feel comfortable with the physical emotion of such acts... Take time, choose a patient partner, dont set deadlines x
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Thankyou, that’s good to know,
You should give lessons! |
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"Is there such a thing as a dick that’s too big for anal? I don’t mean from a pain point of view, I mean it literally can’t fit in?
Any tips for getting a big one in? "
Done anal before, some wouldn’t try with me cos of my girth but very few have managed well, I think your man needs to be also experienced with anal, cos it isn’t about putting it all in, there’s a process for a first timer, and if not done right, you will hate anal?? |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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I struggle with toys or cocks that aren't rock hard. I have a couple of solid plastic dildos that I use just for anal play, they are pretty damn large, they are easier to play with and go in than my smaller softer toys.
Not sure if it's just me but that's my advice. Make sure the toy (and him) is rock hard.
On a silicone lube. Pjur do some great ones specifically for anal (including one that slightly desensitizes you which might help get over that first time fear) |
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"I struggle with toys or cocks that aren't rock hard. I have a couple of solid plastic dildos that I use just for anal play, they are pretty damn large, they are easier to play with and go in than my smaller softer toys.
Not sure if it's just me but that's my advice. Make sure the toy (and him) is rock hard.
On a silicone lube. Pjur do some great ones specifically for anal (including one that slightly desensitizes you which might help get over that first time fear)"
That might be good because I’m scared it’s going to hurt.
I was using a rabbit which is fairly hard and he’s always hard. I think it’s my mind stopping it going in but I’m determined to do it! |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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Just to add, a decent lube like liquid silk is good, one that doesn't get tacky over long periods. Really you should spend as much time warming an arse up as you would a pussy. Whilst people may think great, if you're bigger for the most, if a woman's not wet you're not going anywhere. Anal's great but ideally to really have a woman off, you've got to have a good 20-40mins of play to relax and tease before getting any lube around you.
There's two ways you can go at it - anal first night or pussy then anal where you'll be more relaxed but there may be less warm up/attention on your arse. |
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"Just to add, a decent lube like liquid silk is good, one that doesn't get tacky over long periods. Really you should spend as much time warming an arse up as you would a pussy. Whilst people may think great, if you're bigger for the most, if a woman's not wet you're not going anywhere. Anal's great but ideally to really have a woman off, you've got to have a good 20-40mins of play to relax and tease before getting any lube around you.
There's two ways you can go at it - anal first night or pussy then anal where you'll be more relaxed but there may be less warm up/attention on your arse."
I’ll get some of that, thanks.
I took a long time last night trying to get it to relax and slip in but it wasn’t happening. Very frustrating. Particularly annoying that I know other people can take it and I can’t!
I’m going to have another go tonight |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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I’ll get some of that, thanks.
I took a long time last night trying to get it to relax and slip in but it wasn’t happening. Very frustrating. Particularly annoying that I know other people can take it and I can’t!
I’m going to have another go tonight "
It really is good, you don't need much in comparison so it lasts for ages.
As far as toying .. when you think of oral, when you think about it a bloke doesn't just lick you then fucks - or at least possibly. There will be other areas played with, it won't just be pussy, pussy, pussy, so if all you are doing is trying to stick something in it'll no doubt feel different to someone doing what they would do in the spur of the moment. |
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I’ll get some of that, thanks.
I took a long time last night trying to get it to relax and slip in but it wasn’t happening. Very frustrating. Particularly annoying that I know other people can take it and I can’t!
I’m going to have another go tonight
It really is good, you don't need much in comparison so it lasts for ages.
As far as toying .. when you think of oral, when you think about it a bloke doesn't just lick you then fucks - or at least possibly. There will be other areas played with, it won't just be pussy, pussy, pussy, so if all you are doing is trying to stick something in it'll no doubt feel different to someone doing what they would do in the spur of the moment."
That’s very true. Although I’d already ad an orgasm so thought I was relaxed enough, I was just trying to stick it in |
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over a year ago
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I’ll get some of that, thanks.
I took a long time last night trying to get it to relax and slip in but it wasn’t happening. Very frustrating. Particularly annoying that I know other people can take it and I can’t!
I’m going to have another go tonight
It really is good, you don't need much in comparison so it lasts for ages.
As far as toying .. when you think of oral, when you think about it a bloke doesn't just lick you then fucks - or at least possibly. There will be other areas played with, it won't just be pussy, pussy, pussy, so if all you are doing is trying to stick something in it'll no doubt feel different to someone doing what they would do in the spur of the moment.
That’s very true. Although I’d already ad an orgasm so thought I was relaxed enough, I was just trying to stick it in "
Women will be along shortly |
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I’ll get some of that, thanks.
I took a long time last night trying to get it to relax and slip in but it wasn’t happening. Very frustrating. Particularly annoying that I know other people can take it and I can’t!
I’m going to have another go tonight
It really is good, you don't need much in comparison so it lasts for ages.
As far as toying .. when you think of oral, when you think about it a bloke doesn't just lick you then fucks - or at least possibly. There will be other areas played with, it won't just be pussy, pussy, pussy, so if all you are doing is trying to stick something in it'll no doubt feel different to someone doing what they would do in the spur of the moment.
That’s very true. Although I’d already ad an orgasm so thought I was relaxed enough, I was just trying to stick it in
Women will be along shortly "
Haha yes, I definitely need a bit of help here. I don’t seen my fb they often and I want this to work! |
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Like others have said, when I wanted my ex gf to be able to fuck me really hard with her 8in strap on, practice and lube where the important bits. Practicing to first get used to the size, a bit more each time until I could take the size on my own at my own pace, then being more vigorous in use. When we got to play she was very happy I was ready for her.
Then lube, find one that lasts for you. If it’s a long session many lubes can loose their effect. So either make sure he keeps applying it or one that lasts long enough and you enjoy the feel of.
Good luck |
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"Like others have said, when I wanted my ex gf to be able to fuck me really hard with her 8in strap on, practice and lube where the important bits. Practicing to first get used to the size, a bit more each time until I could take the size on my own at my own pace, then being more vigorous in use. When we got to play she was very happy I was ready for her.
Then lube, find one that lasts for you. If it’s a long session many lubes can loose their effect. So either make sure he keeps applying it or one that lasts long enough and you enjoy the feel of.
Good luck"
Thankyou
I will practice some more, hopefully I will relax enough now I know it’s not impossible |
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"well if I can fist a guy up to my elbow, then I'd say no! "
That’s the thing!! I have watched some anal porn and lots of people get massive stuff up there. I tried for at least an hour and just got an inch in!!! Very frustrating |
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"well if I can fist a guy up to my elbow, then I'd say no!
That’s the thing!! I have watched some anal porn and lots of people get massive stuff up there. I tried for at least an hour and just got an inch in!!! Very frustrating "
Actually you've got the science wrong... This isn't about 'the cavity' its about the sphincter and if you go crazy the 2nd sphincter.
As a lady said on this thread... Try a butt plug, you are effectively 'breaking the seal', gently push it in and then let is rest, thats how you can relax as it allows the sphincter to gently close again whilst the cavity is filled. You can then do something similar with your partner... Let them slide in until the point where they are inside and then let it rest, your muscles will, if you keep still, ease off and then build in a little movement.
Natalie Mars has posted a load of hints and tips online over the years re: lube, training and technique... She has an insane capacity yet a tiny, tight little butt hole... Perhaps worth a google x
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"well if I can fist a guy up to my elbow, then I'd say no!
That’s the thing!! I have watched some anal porn and lots of people get massive stuff up there. I tried for at least an hour and just got an inch in!!! Very frustrating
Actually you've got the science wrong... This isn't about 'the cavity' its about the sphincter and if you go crazy the 2nd sphincter.
As a lady said on this thread... Try a butt plug, you are effectively 'breaking the seal', gently push it in and then let is rest, thats how you can relax as it allows the sphincter to gently close again whilst the cavity is filled. You can then do something similar with your partner... Let them slide in until the point where they are inside and then let it rest, your muscles will, if you keep still, ease off and then build in a little movement.
Natalie Mars has posted a load of hints and tips online over the years re: lube, training and technique... She has an insane capacity yet a tiny, tight little butt hole... Perhaps worth a google x
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Great! Thanks for that. I’ll have a google now |
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"Is there such a thing as a dick that’s too big for anal? I don’t mean from a pain point of view, I mean it literally can’t fit in?
Any tips for getting a big one in?
Yeap I've never been allowed to do it spoken about it when it came to it and got down to it she was like no way
Really? Hubby is bigger than you and i love anal with him."
Yeah need to find someone that is up for it |
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Some people have bigger cocks than others some have tighter a-holes than others. Sometimes theres gonna be mismatch. Lube, relaxing and toy play can help, but without porn star dedication to stretching that hole over an extended period, it might just not be something you guys can achieve. Best of luck. |
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"Face down for the he Woman is the best way, with some lube.
Very deep breathing at the start till you become accustomed to the initial shock, then nice and steady in and out,. I like to breathe in time with each thrust. Done well, it makes me feel debased and filthy and I love it.
I had a Kurdish man who used to spare me nothing whilst he did it. He wouldn't let me use lube, sometimes he just spat on my ass xxx
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Someone may have their own actual or perceived limits - and preferences are important. Similarly to vaginal sex, you'll appreciate some things differently than others. I have a can do attitude to most things in life and assume no cock is too big - I've not found it yet.
There doesn't have to be any rush and stress/pressure could lower enjoyment or restrict you.
The other feedback is good - relaxation, breathing, lots and lots of lube, working up to it, starting with others, or manual, toys, rimming and having other sex first to ensure you are more horny.
Obviously trust os key and aiming to have the most control yourself can really help you to broaden your horizons, so to speak
Slowly is right, until you want to up the tempo, the force etc. If there's no pressure over whether it lasts seconds or whatever, you can progress. But be willing to stop the moment that it's wrong. If your imagination tells you that you could potentially have more fully taken him in another position, switch it up.
Once you have experimented, you'll find how it could work best for you - it may just be that a bit of several positions overall, gives you the most pleasure, if it's possible with a particular guy. |
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"Someone may have their own actual or perceived limits - and preferences are important. Similarly to vaginal sex, you'll appreciate some things differently than others. I have a can do attitude to most things in life and assume no cock is too big - I've not found it yet.
There doesn't have to be any rush and stress/pressure could lower enjoyment or restrict you.
The other feedback is good - relaxation, breathing, lots and lots of lube, working up to it, starting with others, or manual, toys, rimming and having other sex first to ensure you are more horny.
Obviously trust os key and aiming to have the most control yourself can really help you to broaden your horizons, so to speak
Slowly is right, until you want to up the tempo, the force etc. If there's no pressure over whether it lasts seconds or whatever, you can progress. But be willing to stop the moment that it's wrong. If your imagination tells you that you could potentially have more fully taken him in another position, switch it up.
Once you have experimented, you'll find how it could work best for you - it may just be that a bit of several positions overall, gives you the most pleasure, if it's possible with a particular guy. "
Thanks, that’s great advice.
I’ve been practicing with toys and I’m now able to take a toy that I believe is a similar size to his man meat 
I’ll keep practising |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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"Thanks, that’s great advice.
I’ve been practicing with toys and I’m now able to take a toy that I believe is a similar size to his man meat
I’ll keep practising "
Woohoo!
I managed anal with one of my partners tonight, missionary for the first time ever.
Doggy is by far the easiest position but god damn it was good, and hot as hell... Had to take it really really slowly with a couple of shifts in angle.
Happy sore now. |
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"magic room adours - available from your local sex shop! they may give you a fuzzy head but you will be totally amazed by how much they let you stretch.
I’ll have a look at that, thanks "
Mmm I can vouch for that fuzzy head and yes but your know you've been stretched next day or six lol
Patents and a lot of lube is other option relax and don't go tense which is very dependent on how partner is with you x obviously there is a pure physical limit but it's not a man's cock lol xxx have fun sugar xx |
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Is there a dick that's too big?
Yes. Its one that the person hasn't built up to yet.
You can find plenty of women on can sites inserting objects you'd have trouble fitting through your front door but unless you've learnt how to take a certain size you're only going to injure yourself.
Anal shouldn't be a 100m sprint. It's an endurance race for most people. |
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"Is there such a thing as a dick that’s too big for anal? I don’t mean from a pain point of view, I mean it literally can’t fit in?
Any tips for getting a big one in? "
Don’t think so. Either the woman’s giving in too easily, or she can’t be arsed, no pun intended! Telling the chap he’s too big makes him feel fabulous about himself for not getting what he wants; unless he’s an ex-jail bird who’s acutely aware that no one is too big for anal. |
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Is there such a thing as a dick that’s too big for anal?
No! As long as the person has trained themselves and practiced with butt plugs, and you use plenty of lube.
In fact, it's the other way around and a very large penis will fit more comfortably in there than a vagina. I saw a documentary on VVVWE penises where they complained about the lack of intimacy as they couldn't penetrate beyond the tip. With deep vaginal penetration, there's direct contact with the cervix which can be painful. Anal, on the other hand, the men enjoyed as they could plunge deeply. With an experienced partner, you can go beyond the second sphincter.
A tip on position - people tend to do it doggy from behind. But if you're not used to anal, spooning with your legs bent at the knees and brought up to your chest is more comfortable as it relaxes the anal muscles.
Once you're relaxed and used to the sensations, anal can be very enjoyable as the anus contains a high density of nerve endings. I've had ladies squirt from anal sex alone without any genital stimulation.
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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago
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work up to it dont just go for it as you could end up with tears, and a trip to the docs, lots of lube and try squirting lube inside as well, you can lube shooters to get it inside, get a set of but plugs in diferent sizes.
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"Is there such a thing as a dick that’s too big for anal? I don’t mean from a pain point of view, I mean it literally can’t fit in?
Any tips for getting a big one in? "
It has to be how comfortable the woman is? I’m wider than average or so I’m told. A few partners have said there’s no way I was going near her arse...but a couple really wanted it and took me without lube, just natural excitement.
Relax, don’t make it out as a big thing...no pun intended, if it happens it happens. xx |
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Yes there are men who are too big to do anal (at least with me). No matter how relaxed and comfortable I am, or how much lube we use, or how much prep I do with different dildos, it just doesn’t go in if it’s too big |
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You can take 8" and more if you really want it, some good advice on here, I also use p#ppers which ensures I can take the biggest cocks. It's amazing experience to master the biggest of cocks to the hilt |
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"Is there a dick that's too big?
Yes. Its one that the person hasn't built up to yet.
You can find plenty of women on can sites inserting objects you'd have trouble fitting through your front door but unless you've learnt how to take a certain size you're only going to injure yourself.
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This is the correct answer. An untrained anus will not accommodate a very wide cock and even with lots of lube trying to force it can cause physical damage. Those folks suggesting that with training any size can be accommodated are missing an important point. The stretching and training required may be painful, uncomfortable or just not pleasurable to the lady/man/T Girl so isn’t something that will be (or should be) undertaken. So for those folks there are cocks that will be too big for anal sex.
At the sex parties I run I’ve seen various fisting scenarios so know that the trained anus can take sizes much bigger than any penis but the question has to be do you want to undertake the training. My cock has a 7” girth which is very big and not suitable for anal with most ladies but I’ve been with a few ladies who have had lots of anal experiences and they haven’t had a problem.
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Getting the head in and just doing nothing for a minute or two helps
Then the girl pushes back
A bullet vibe on your clit is good too
Fortunately OP I would think first time anal with you guys aren’t going to last too long... |
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I’ve had a few experiences of anal being tricky.
My tips to you are:
Keep yourself relaxed.
Use plenty of lube.
To make it better for you to get used to it going in I would suggest you either lower yourself onto his cock or backwards onto it so your the one in control in case you wanted to stop and have the control on the first few thrusts.
I have seen on previous threads about anal some girls have suggested use of butt plugs to get used to it and increase the size when you feel like it.
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From personal experience, I would recommend he makes you orgasm first in whichever way works for you. I find after that I am so much more relaxed, of course plenty of lube... there is no such thing as too much lube. Start with fingers and work up to it. My partner isn’t small and if he pushes in and it starts to hurt, I just ask him to stop and stay still, let my body relax around him and then continue like that and it’s all the way in and feeling incredible before you know it.
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"From personal experience, I would recommend he makes you orgasm first in whichever way works for you. I find after that I am so much more relaxed, of course plenty of lube... there is no such thing as too much lube. Start with fingers and work up to it. My partner isn’t small and if he pushes in and it starts to hurt, I just ask him to stop and stay still, let my body relax around him and then continue like that and it’s all the way in and feeling incredible before you know it.
C xx"
Once I’ve cum, I’m done. I don’t want any more haha I’m like a man! So don’t think that would work
I’ll definitely take your advise about the stopping and relaxing though, thanks |
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over a year ago
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I find it best to get pretty aroused ( whichever way works best for you) and close to coming, but don’t actually come otherwise everything tightens up. A glass of wine or 3 definitely helps and when it starts to hurt, stop, stay still and concentrate on relaxing the sphincter. Trust me..... you will have the best orgasm ever!  |
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"I find it best to get pretty aroused ( whichever way works best for you) and close to coming, but don’t actually come otherwise everything tightens up. A glass of wine or 3 definitely helps and when it starts to hurt, stop, stay still and concentrate on relaxing the sphincter. Trust me..... you will have the best orgasm ever! "
Thank you!! I can’t wait |
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By *d4ugirlsMan
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"Ability to relax is the only real limitation, as many have said 'lube, lube, lube' but actually a lot of it comes down to your partner, trust, patience etc go a long way x
I’m worried it’s not going to work because if I can’t do it myself with a toy of a similar size then I don’t know how he’s going to fit in "
Start with smaller toy work up in size.
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"Face down for the he Woman is the best way, with some lube.
Very deep breathing at the start till you become accustomed to the initial shock, then nice and steady in and out,. I like to breathe in time with each thrust. Done well, it makes me feel debased and filthy and I love it.
I had a Kurdish man who used to spare me
nothing whilst he did it. He wouldn't let me use lube, sometimes he just spat on my ass xxx
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I used to do that to an ex or just pulled out her pussy and sent it home. |
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"Face down for the he Woman is the best way, with some lube.
Very deep breathing at the start till you become accustomed to the initial shock, then nice and steady in and out,. I like to breathe in time with each thrust. Done well, it makes me feel debased and filthy and I love it.
I had a Kurdish man who used to spare me
nothing whilst he did it. He wouldn't let me use lube, sometimes he just spat on my ass xxx
I used to do that to an ex or just pulled out her pussy and sent it home. "
I shudnt find all that horny shud I lol x |
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"Face down for the he Woman is the best way, with some lube.
Very deep breathing at the start till you become accustomed to the initial shock, then nice and steady in and out,. I like to breathe in time with each thrust. Done well, it makes me feel debased and filthy and I love it.
I had a Kurdish man who used to spare me
nothing whilst he did it. He wouldn't let me use lube, sometimes he just spat on my ass xxx
I used to do that to an ex or just pulled out her pussy and sent it home. I shudnt find all that horny shud I lol x"
Anal is amazing if done correct |
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"Face down for the he Woman is the best way, with some lube.
Very deep breathing at the start till you become accustomed to the initial shock, then nice and steady in and out,. I like to breathe in time with each thrust. Done well, it makes me feel debased and filthy and I love it.
I had a Kurdish man who used to spare me
nothing whilst he did it. He wouldn't let me use lube, sometimes he just spat on my ass xxx
I used to do that to an ex or just pulled out her pussy and sent it home. I shudnt find all that horny shud I lol x
Anal is amazing if done correct "
Oh hun I know I'm an anal whore lol |
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