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By *ackndiane OP Couple
over a year ago
New bridge |
A situation has arisen where I am going to be in Manchester next weekend alone and thinking of trying to meet a single female fabber(with Diane's consent),question do they exist or actually meet up, or should I just go to the pub alone and drown my sorrows and forget the idea,regards Jack |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"A situation has arisen where I am going to be in Manchester next weekend alone and thinking of trying to meet a single female fabber(with Diane's consent),question do they exist or actually meet up, or should I just go to the pub alone and drown my sorrows and forget the idea,regards Jack "
Of course we exist and meet up. |
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over a year ago
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"A situation has arisen where I am going to be in Manchester next weekend alone and thinking of trying to meet a single female fabber(with Diane's consent),question do they exist or actually meet up, or should I just go to the pub alone and drown my sorrows and forget the idea,regards Jack
Of course we exist and meet up."
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You may have some success if you have more recent verifications of you both and recent pics, again of you both. Veris over 2 years old could mean that this was a couple profile but now only the man is playing. Alternatively set up a single male profile for the time you are in manchester. Good luck. |
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By *ackndiane OP Couple
over a year ago
New bridge |
"You may have some success if you have more recent verifications of you both and recent pics, again of you both. Veris over 2 years old could mean that this was a couple profile but now only the man is playing. Alternatively set up a single male profile for the time you are in manchester. Good luck."
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"A situation has arisen where I am going to be in Manchester next weekend alone and thinking of trying to meet a single female fabber(with Diane's consent),question do they exist or actually meet up, or should I just go to the pub alone and drown my sorrows and forget the idea,regards Jack "
Hahaha I was one before I met hubby and in the queue at the club Friday there must of been about 5 or more single ladies in front of us, all lovely and looking for fun! So yes they do exist! |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Oh God I am going to get beaten up on here lol, yes I see many ladies on here who are genuine but they seem to meet up within their own social circle and not take a chance in meeting someone new."
Or, we have our own wants and needs, some of which might not involve a married man, with or without his partners consent. |
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By *ackndiane OP Couple
over a year ago
New bridge |
A big thank you to those who gave advice and witty observations to my question, to those who gave me a lecture, well life is to short, I believe I was clear and honest in my question and I did place it in the advice section not the judgemental section as I am aware of my status regarding my relationship, was merely posing the question do ladies actually meet someone not within their closed community of friends or acquaintances,I guess I should go to the pub and do some reflection whilst in Manchester, |
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By *ackndiane OP Couple
over a year ago
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Well thank you very much Mr Corbyn for the lecture on socialism and the classless society, and also the forensic analysis of my profile and use of the English language, how patronising,you reminded me of the character played by Robie Coltrane in Blackadder, Mr Johnson I think.I am not masquerading as a single Male (albeit I am this weekend),or indeed as a couple I am being upfront and honest about my status, as for my profile I could have equally said I am a 50 year old man with a dad bod ,but I feel professional was a better sales pitch lol.I merely sought advice in my post and as it's the advice section I expected assistance rather than criticism, I now realise how difficult it is for a single guys on here, I think to say you are a single guy seeking to meet a female is tantamount to saying you have Ebola or the dreaded lurghi lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A situation has arisen where I am going to be in Manchester next weekend alone and thinking of trying to meet a single female fabber(with Diane's consent),question do they exist or actually meet up, or should I just go to the pub alone and drown my sorrows and forget the idea,regards Jack "
To be honest if I'm invited to meet the male half only from a couples profile - I wouldn't consider it. Single males profile with reference to a verified couples profile would be acceptable if ticked the rest of my boxes. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Well thank you very much Mr Corbyn for the lecture on socialism and the classless society, and also the forensic analysis of my profile and use of the English language, how patronising,you reminded me of the character played by Robie Coltrane in Blackadder, Mr Johnson I think.I am not masquerading as a single Male (albeit I am this weekend),or indeed as a couple I am being upfront and honest about my status, as for my profile I could have equally said I am a 50 year old man with a dad bod ,but I feel professional was a better sales pitch lol.I merely sought advice in my post and as it's the advice section I expected assistance rather than criticism, I now realise how difficult it is for a single guys on here, I think to say you are a single guy seeking to meet a female is tantamount to saying you have Ebola or the dreaded lurghi lol "
Have we all missed something here?! Perhaps if you use the reply and quote we will know who you are talking to?!
And just to comment on you initial post, there are some women who may be willing to meet you, however I suspect the majority won't as they will be looking for single guys with no wives or kids to work around. That's my reason for not meeting male halves of couples. It's never going to go anywhere as they already have partners. Good luck in your search OP. |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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Effort in..=..reward out.
There are loads of threads from single guys saying they have no luck meeting ladies.. what makes you stand out from the crowd, figure that out and use that u.s.p. 
Have fun...
I wwent to the pub last night and started talking to a couple of big bouncers...
Then rhe barmaid said
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"oi my eyes are up here!!"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh God I am going to get beaten up on here lol, yes I see many ladies on here who are genuine but they seem to meet up within their own social circle and not take a chance in meeting someone new.
Or, we have our own wants and needs, some of which might not involve a married man, with or without his partners consent. "
Lets be real, uk is very territorial based when it comes to meets aside from the odd clubs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well thank you very much Mr Corbyn for the lecture on socialism and the classless society, and also the forensic analysis of my profile and use of the English language, how patronising,you reminded me of the character played by Robie Coltrane in Blackadder, Mr Johnson I think.I am not masquerading as a single Male (albeit I am this weekend),or indeed as a couple I am being upfront and honest about my status, as for my profile I could have equally said I am a 50 year old man with a dad bod ,but I feel professional was a better sales pitch lol.I merely sought advice in my post and as it's the advice section I expected assistance rather than criticism, I now realise how difficult it is for a single guys on here, I think to say you are a single guy seeking to meet a female is tantamount to saying you have Ebola or the dreaded lurghi lol
Have we all missed something here?! Perhaps if you use the reply and quote we will know who you are talking to?!
And just to comment on you initial post, there are some women who may be willing to meet you, however I suspect the majority won't as they will be looking for single guys with no wives or kids to work around. That's my reason for not meeting male halves of couples. It's never going to go anywhere as they already have partners. Good luck in your search OP. "
Trying to get my head around this! Also trying to get around the reply “it’s never going to go anywhere....” paragraph
Isn’t swinging about having naughty fun with people that isn’t going to go anywhere? Isn’t that the point of swinging? |
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
Cheshire/Staffs |
"Well thank you very much Mr Corbyn for the lecture on socialism and the classless society, and also the forensic analysis of my profile and use of the English language, how patronising,you reminded me of the character played by Robie Coltrane in Blackadder, Mr Johnson I think.I am not masquerading as a single Male (albeit I am this weekend),or indeed as a couple I am being upfront and honest about my status, as for my profile I could have equally said I am a 50 year old man with a dad bod ,but I feel professional was a better sales pitch lol.I merely sought advice in my post and as it's the advice section I expected assistance rather than criticism, I now realise how difficult it is for a single guys on here, I think to say you are a single guy seeking to meet a female is tantamount to saying you have Ebola or the dreaded lurghi lol
Have we all missed something here?! Perhaps if you use the reply and quote we will know who you are talking to?!
And just to comment on you initial post, there are some women who may be willing to meet you, however I suspect the majority won't as they will be looking for single guys with no wives or kids to work around. That's my reason for not meeting male halves of couples. It's never going to go anywhere as they already have partners. Good luck in your search OP. "
Where are you hoping it will go? |
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By *ackndiane OP Couple
over a year ago
New bridge |
Many helpful insights and suggestions from you all,valid points regarding us all sticking to the same clubs and people we tend to coalesce around on a regular basis,the where will it go suggestion related to attached or married people seems to miss the point of swinging ie meeting with new people and taking the opportunity to engage with them and then you never know what way it will go, the thrill is it's entirely open to yourself as to what direction it takes, |
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By *ackndiane OP Couple
over a year ago
New bridge |
Absolutely agree with you on your perspective you are entitled to choose exactly what you want to do, but it is intrinsic in swinging that you meet and see people whom you may not normally meet in day to day life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People can only speak for themselves. All the advice is subjective so take it with a pinch of salt. What some women hate others will love... Even with respect and other givens don't really apply on here as some women love being talked down too...
There are definitely single women on here and some will meet... I can testify to that from someone in the forum... Hey Keeley!
Unfortunately you have a LOT of competition. So you're more playing with luck. Right person at the right time and all that.
Good luck! And I can think of worse places to drown your sorrows, Manchester is ace!! |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"People can only speak for themselves. All the advice is subjective so take it with a pinch of salt. What some women hate others will love... Even with respect and other givens don't really apply on here as some women love being talked down too...
There are definitely single women on here and some will meet... I can testify to that from someone in the forum... Hey Keeley!
Unfortunately you have a LOT of competition. So you're more playing with luck. Right person at the right time and all that.
Good luck! And I can think of worse places to drown your sorrows, Manchester is ace!!"
Hey hey! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People can only speak for themselves. All the advice is subjective so take it with a pinch of salt. What some women hate others will love... Even with respect and other givens don't really apply on here as some women love being talked down too...
There are definitely single women on here and some will meet... I can testify to that from someone in the forum... Hey Keeley!
Unfortunately you have a LOT of competition. So you're more playing with luck. Right person at the right time and all that.
Good luck! And I can think of worse places to drown your sorrows, Manchester is ace!!
Hey hey! "
Oi oi  |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Well thank you very much Mr Corbyn for the lecture on socialism and the classless society, and also the forensic analysis of my profile and use of the English language, how patronising,you reminded me of the character played by Robie Coltrane in Blackadder, Mr Johnson I think.I am not masquerading as a single Male (albeit I am this weekend),or indeed as a couple I am being upfront and honest about my status, as for my profile I could have equally said I am a 50 year old man with a dad bod ,but I feel professional was a better sales pitch lol.I merely sought advice in my post and as it's the advice section I expected assistance rather than criticism, I now realise how difficult it is for a single guys on here, I think to say you are a single guy seeking to meet a female is tantamount to saying you have Ebola or the dreaded lurghi lol
Have we all missed something here?! Perhaps if you use the reply and quote we will know who you are talking to?!
And just to comment on you initial post, there are some women who may be willing to meet you, however I suspect the majority won't as they will be looking for single guys with no wives or kids to work around. That's my reason for not meeting male halves of couples. It's never going to go anywhere as they already have partners. Good luck in your search OP.
Trying to get my head around this! Also trying to get around the reply “it’s never going to go anywhere....” paragraph
Isn’t swinging about having naughty fun with people that isn’t going to go anywhere? Isn’t that the point of swinging? "
I'm not looking for couples or one half of a couple. I'm looking for a swinging partner who is single with a view to playing as a couple. Does that make sense? I don't want to have to work around the husband, wife or their kids as my time is precious too. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Well thank you very much Mr Corbyn for the lecture on socialism and the classless society, and also the forensic analysis of my profile and use of the English language, how patronising,you reminded me of the character played by Robie Coltrane in Blackadder, Mr Johnson I think.I am not masquerading as a single Male (albeit I am this weekend),or indeed as a couple I am being upfront and honest about my status, as for my profile I could have equally said I am a 50 year old man with a dad bod ,but I feel professional was a better sales pitch lol.I merely sought advice in my post and as it's the advice section I expected assistance rather than criticism, I now realise how difficult it is for a single guys on here, I think to say you are a single guy seeking to meet a female is tantamount to saying you have Ebola or the dreaded lurghi lol
Have we all missed something here?! Perhaps if you use the reply and quote we will know who you are talking to?!
And just to comment on you initial post, there are some women who may be willing to meet you, however I suspect the majority won't as they will be looking for single guys with no wives or kids to work around. That's my reason for not meeting male halves of couples. It's never going to go anywhere as they already have partners. Good luck in your search OP.
Where are you hoping it will go? "
See above. ^^^^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well thank you very much Mr Corbyn for the lecture on socialism and the classless society, and also the forensic analysis of my profile and use of the English language, how patronising,you reminded me of the character played by Robie Coltrane in Blackadder, Mr Johnson I think.I am not masquerading as a single Male (albeit I am this weekend),or indeed as a couple I am being upfront and honest about my status, as for my profile I could have equally said I am a 50 year old man with a dad bod ,but I feel professional was a better sales pitch lol.I merely sought advice in my post and as it's the advice section I expected assistance rather than criticism, I now realise how difficult it is for a single guys on here, I think to say you are a single guy seeking to meet a female is tantamount to saying you have Ebola or the dreaded lurghi lol
Have we all missed something here?! Perhaps if you use the reply and quote we will know who you are talking to?!
And just to comment on you initial post, there are some women who may be willing to meet you, however I suspect the majority won't as they will be looking for single guys with no wives or kids to work around. That's my reason for not meeting male halves of couples. It's never going to go anywhere as they already have partners. Good luck in your search OP.
Trying to get my head around this! Also trying to get around the reply “it’s never going to go anywhere....” paragraph
Isn’t swinging about having naughty fun with people that isn’t going to go anywhere? Isn’t that the point of swinging?
I'm not looking for couples or one half of a couple. I'm looking for a swinging partner who is single with a view to playing as a couple. Does that make sense? I don't want to have to work around the husband, wife or their kids as my time is precious too. "
Totally get this. |
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"Absolutely agree with you on your perspective you are entitled to choose exactly what you want to do, but it is intrinsic in swinging that you meet and see people whom you may not normally meet in day to day life "
Sure. And I do that every day. But my preference on how to pick that stands, your views notwithstanding. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Many helpful insights and suggestions from you all,valid points regarding us all sticking to the same clubs and people we tend to coalesce around on a regular basis,the where will it go suggestion related to attached or married people seems to miss the point of swinging ie meeting with new people and taking the opportunity to engage with them and then you never know what way it will go, the thrill is it's entirely open to yourself as to what direction it takes, "
But the people they met were once new people and gave since become friends maybe? Are you implying that making new friends and enjoying sexual experiences with them goes against your definition of swinging? |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Well thank you very much Mr Corbyn for the lecture on socialism and the classless society, and also the forensic analysis of my profile and use of the English language, how patronising,you reminded me of the character played by Robie Coltrane in Blackadder, Mr Johnson I think.I am not masquerading as a single Male (albeit I am this weekend),or indeed as a couple I am being upfront and honest about my status, as for my profile I could have equally said I am a 50 year old man with a dad bod ,but I feel professional was a better sales pitch lol.I merely sought advice in my post and as it's the advice section I expected assistance rather than criticism, I now realise how difficult it is for a single guys on here, I think to say you are a single guy seeking to meet a female is tantamount to saying you have Ebola or the dreaded lurghi lol
Have we all missed something here?! Perhaps if you use the reply and quote we will know who you are talking to?!
And just to comment on you initial post, there are some women who may be willing to meet you, however I suspect the majority won't as they will be looking for single guys with no wives or kids to work around. That's my reason for not meeting male halves of couples. It's never going to go anywhere as they already have partners. Good luck in your search OP.
Trying to get my head around this! Also trying to get around the reply “it’s never going to go anywhere....” paragraph
Isn’t swinging about having naughty fun with people that isn’t going to go anywhere? Isn’t that the point of swinging?
I'm not looking for couples or one half of a couple. I'm looking for a swinging partner who is single with a view to playing as a couple. Does that make sense? I don't want to have to work around the husband, wife or their kids as my time is precious too.
Totally get this. "
Thankyou, I'm glad someone does.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A situation has arisen where I am going to be in Manchester next weekend alone and thinking of trying to meet a single female fabber(with Diane's consent),question do they exist or actually meet up, or should I just go to the pub alone and drown my sorrows and forget the idea,regards Jack "
Lol same trouble here while the boss is out of action for a few months. Was bad enough as a couple with the hordes of time wasters here, single guy part of a couple ?, not looking good so far. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If your single and your Mrs don't mind set yourself a single account up that way you don't need be judged and making it hard work for yourself with male only playing on a couples profile more chance of getting a meet |
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"A situation has arisen where I am going to be in Manchester next weekend alone and thinking of trying to meet a single female fabber(with Diane's consent),question do they exist or actually meet up, or should I just go to the pub alone and drown my sorrows and forget the idea,regards Jack "
Put yourself out there and try and make contact with some - whats the worst that could happen? They say 'no' or just delete the message. But if you dont try, you will never know and one lady might just say yes. |
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