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"So as always I have a read of the profile and then think of what to message and always try to leave a compliment... yet 3/4 times since I’ve been on here I’ve been blocked straight away! To me that doesn’t make any sense at all... I know you ladies probably get inundated with messages but is it that difficult to send a quick “No thanks” or just delete the message? I’m not one to send a million messages but if someone did then you can feel free to block them! I’m so confused" I used to always say a no thanks. However a percentage then think that’s an opening in to a conversation and when you then delete they become abusive. Sadly I think the genuine men get labelled the same as the abusive ones and people find it easier to block if they’re not interested in the senders profile or photos | |||
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"I usually just delete. No thanks is too hard, because a significant minority will abuse you or argue about it. I block immediately where the message is what I consider inappropriate or over the line (or disgusting, abusive, etc). Some people use it as a filtering tool where they're just not interested. If you're being blocked that much, review the messages you're sending. " It’s not that much, just a small amount of times but like I said it’s just a polite message and a compliment nothing rude | |||
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"I usually just delete. No thanks is too hard, because a significant minority will abuse you or argue about it. I block immediately where the message is what I consider inappropriate or over the line (or disgusting, abusive, etc). Some people use it as a filtering tool where they're just not interested. If you're being blocked that much, review the messages you're sending. It’s not that much, just a small amount of times but like I said it’s just a polite message and a compliment nothing rude " Just take it that they have no interest in talking to you at all ... saves a lot of issues tbh | |||
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"So as always I have a read of the profile and then think of what to message and always try to leave a compliment... yet 3/4 times since I’ve been on here I’ve been blocked straight away! To me that doesn’t make any sense at all... I know you ladies probably get inundated with messages but is it that difficult to send a quick “No thanks” or just delete the message? I’m not one to send a million messages but if someone did then you can feel free to block them! I’m so confused I used to always say a no thanks. However a percentage then think that’s an opening in to a conversation and when you then delete they become abusive. Sadly I think the genuine men get labelled the same as the abusive ones and people find it easier to block if they’re not interested in the senders profile or photos " That’s just the way of this site I guess.. each to their own | |||
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"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day "Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block. | |||
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"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day
Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block. "Loool so salty  amazing!
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"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day
Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.
Loool so salty amazing!
Their loss OP have a good day!" bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,
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"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day
Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.
Loool so salty amazing!
Their loss OP have a good day!
bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,
Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade "Haha I know mate, I'm in the 'Single male scumbag club' . God help me.
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"So as always I have a read of the profile and then think of what to message and always try to leave a compliment... yet 3/4 times since I’ve been on here I’ve been blocked straight away! To me that doesn’t make any sense at all... I know you ladies probably get inundated with messages but is it that difficult to send a quick “No thanks” or just delete the message? I’m not one to send a million messages but if someone did then you can feel free to block them! I’m so confused I used to always say a no thanks. However a percentage then think that’s an opening in to a conversation and when you then delete they become abusive. Sadly I think the genuine men get labelled the same as the abusive ones and people find it easier to block if they’re not interested in the senders profile or photos " Agreed.  | |||
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"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day
Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.
Loool so salty amazing!
Their loss OP have a good day!
bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,
Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade "Imo, no respect for rules + no respect for profile preferences = no respect when meeting. | |||
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"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day
Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.
Loool so salty amazing!
Their loss OP have a good day!
bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,
Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade
Imo, no respect for rules + no respect for profile preferences = no respect when meeting. "Quite. | |||
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"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day
Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.
Loool so salty amazing!
Their loss OP have a good day!
bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,
Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade "Women rarely get propositioned 100s of times a day, in normal life, though eh? And why should I thank someone for a message when they clearly haven't read my profile? Or at all?! Most men would take no for an answer in real life too but on here... Rarely | |||
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"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day
Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.
Loool so salty amazing!
Their loss OP have a good day!
bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,
Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade
Women rarely get propositioned 100s of times a day, in normal life, though eh? And why should I thank someone for a message when they clearly haven't read my profile? Or at all?! Most men would take no for an answer in real life too but on here... Rarely"Absolutely. However, we have noticed an increase in the number of ‘couples’ sending abusive messages. Hubby says that it is most probably the guys doing it, though. Hence why we both read/reply to messages. | |||
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"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day
Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.
Loool so salty amazing!
Their loss OP have a good day!
bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,
Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade
Women rarely get propositioned 100s of times a day, in normal life, though eh? And why should I thank someone for a message when they clearly haven't read my profile? Or at all?! Most men would take no for an answer in real life too but on here... Rarely
Absolutely. However, we have noticed an increase in the number of ‘couples’ sending abusive messages. Hubby says that it is most probably the guys doing it, though. Hence why we both read/reply to messages."Oh it's definitely not limited to the single chaps, for sure... Plenty of couples and females not practicing what their profiles preach... And getting blocked for it | |||
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"So as always I have a read of the profile and then think of what to message and always try to leave a compliment... yet 3/4 times since I’ve been on here I’ve been blocked straight away! To me that doesn’t make any sense at all... I know you ladies probably get inundated with messages but is it that difficult to send a quick “No thanks” or just delete the message? I’m not one to send a million messages but if someone did then you can feel free to block them! I’m so confused" Are you sure this has not been answered before? People block if they are not interested. How many methods of letting you know this do you want them to use? | |||
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"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day
Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.
Loool so salty amazing!
Their loss OP have a good day!
bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,
Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade "Is it not? | |||
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"Had abuse from single women and couples on here but I point blank let them win by tarring all the single women and couples on here with the same brush, I’m bigger and better than that. It’s not written in my contract at work that I have to walk in and say hello to my colleagues every morning, but you know what, being the nice guy that I am, I do it "If I tarred all men with the same brush I'd block them all or leave. Nice isn't appropriate in every environment. | |||
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"Had abuse from single women and couples on here but I point blank let them win by tarring all the single women and couples on here with the same brush, I’m bigger and better than that. It’s not written in my contract at work that I have to walk in and say hello to my colleagues every morning, but you know what, being the nice guy that I am, I do it
If I tarred all men with the same brush I'd block them all or leave.
Nice isn't appropriate in every environment. "It Is in mine, can’t think of when it isn’t, maybe not when dealing with traffic wardens | |||
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"Had abuse from single women and couples on here but I point blank let them win by tarring all the single women and couples on here with the same brush, I’m bigger and better than that. It’s not written in my contract at work that I have to walk in and say hello to my colleagues every morning, but you know what, being the nice guy that I am, I do it
If I tarred all men with the same brush I'd block them all or leave.
Nice isn't appropriate in every environment.
It Is in mine, can’t think of when it isn’t, maybe not when dealing with traffic wardens "If I were nice to everyone here I'd be overrun with obnoxious and stupid, and be unable to find those who were worthy of my time. It's a win/win. I spend my time on the people who make me happy, and the people who are respectful etc are more likely to be rewarded for it. | |||
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"It's rude and arrogant to message someone on Fab and EXPECT a reply. " How is it rude at all? I know people get overwhelmed with messages, the idiots who constantly message and the ones who become abusive but in my opinion I'd say a polite no thanks and then if they start down the route of idiot then block | |||
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"Had abuse from single women and couples on here but I point blank let them win by tarring all the single women and couples on here with the same brush, I’m bigger and better than that. It’s not written in my contract at work that I have to walk in and say hello to my colleagues every morning, but you know what, being the nice guy that I am, I do it
If I tarred all men with the same brush I'd block them all or leave.
Nice isn't appropriate in every environment.
It Is in mine, can’t think of when it isn’t, maybe not when dealing with traffic wardens
If I were nice to everyone here I'd be overrun with obnoxious and stupid, and be unable to find those who were worthy of my time.
It's a win/win. I spend my time on the people who make me happy, and the people who are respectful etc are more likely to be rewarded for it. "Worthy... that seems so superior.  | |||
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"It's rude and arrogant to message someone on Fab and EXPECT a reply. How is it rude at all? I know people get overwhelmed with messages, the idiots who constantly message and the ones who become abusive but in my opinion I'd say a polite no thanks and then if they start down the route of idiot then block" Because you don't understand the volume of messages, the large numbers who'll abuse, or the horrifying nature the abuse can take. Or that many will take any civility at all as an invitation to keep trying. If a large minority see an inch given and try to take a mile, you quickly learn to give not even a millimetre. | |||
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"It's rude and arrogant to message someone on Fab and EXPECT a reply. How is it rude at all? I know people get overwhelmed with messages, the idiots who constantly message and the ones who become abusive but in my opinion I'd say a polite no thanks and then if they start down the route of idiot then block" Site FAQ. They did not ask you to message. They have decided you are not for them. They expect you to be a decent person and not to pursue the matter, but they do not want to message you by mistake in the future. How many "no thanks" do you want in your inbox? | |||
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"Had abuse from single women and couples on here but I point blank let them win by tarring all the single women and couples on here with the same brush, I’m bigger and better than that. It’s not written in my contract at work that I have to walk in and say hello to my colleagues every morning, but you know what, being the nice guy that I am, I do it
If I tarred all men with the same brush I'd block them all or leave.
Nice isn't appropriate in every environment.
It Is in mine, can’t think of when it isn’t, maybe not when dealing with traffic wardens
If I were nice to everyone here I'd be overrun with obnoxious and stupid, and be unable to find those who were worthy of my time.
It's a win/win. I spend my time on the people who make me happy, and the people who are respectful etc are more likely to be rewarded for it.
Worthy... that seems so superior. "I'm sorry, but hey bb drain my balls yo... Is a waste of my time. | |||
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"Had abuse from single women and couples on here but I point blank let them win by tarring all the single women and couples on here with the same brush, I’m bigger and better than that. It’s not written in my contract at work that I have to walk in and say hello to my colleagues every morning, but you know what, being the nice guy that I am, I do it
If I tarred all men with the same brush I'd block them all or leave.
Nice isn't appropriate in every environment.
It Is in mine, can’t think of when it isn’t, maybe not when dealing with traffic wardens
If I were nice to everyone here I'd be overrun with obnoxious and stupid, and be unable to find those who were worthy of my time.
It's a win/win. I spend my time on the people who make me happy, and the people who are respectful etc are more likely to be rewarded for it.
Worthy... that seems so superior.
I'm sorry, but hey bb drain my balls yo... Is a waste of my time. "How ironic? Just deleted that exact same message, from a single guy! | |||
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"There sure are some strange people about! What a waste of time and effort! Surely that sort of stuff give Mr average single guy a bad name? After all this is only a hobby for us all? Bit like collecting stamps "Definitely! This is what I mean by worthy. I know I'm not a 10, maybe a 4 or 5, and I'm not up myself. But honestly trying to engage on mutually agreeable terms without being a creep... shouldn't be unusual. But it can be. | |||
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"There sure are some strange people about! What a waste of time and effort! Surely that sort of stuff give Mr average single guy a bad name? After all this is only a hobby for us all? Bit like collecting stamps
Definitely! This is what I mean by worthy. I know I'm not a 10, maybe a 4 or 5, and I'm not up myself. But honestly trying to engage on mutually agreeable terms without being a creep... shouldn't be unusual. But it can be. "Having perused your pics, my hubby concludes that you are WAY MORE than. ‘10’, in the hotness stakes....sorry...I digress | |||
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"I'm cool with people deleting and blocking, at least it saves me from the uncertainty of possibly mailing them again by mistake. "This | |||
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"There sure are some strange people about! What a waste of time and effort! Surely that sort of stuff give Mr average single guy a bad name? After all this is only a hobby for us all? Bit like collecting stamps
Definitely! This is what I mean by worthy. I know I'm not a 10, maybe a 4 or 5, and I'm not up myself. But honestly trying to engage on mutually agreeable terms without being a creep... shouldn't be unusual. But it can be.
Having perused your pics, my hubby concludes that you are WAY MORE than. ‘10’, in the hotness stakes....sorry...I digress" Thank you.
But it's like, I'm not arrogant, you know? I just want to be treated like a person, not a convenient maybe wet hole. And ffs my phone predicts that sentence at this point... | |||
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"Had abuse from single women and couples on here but I point blank let them win by tarring all the single women and couples on here with the same brush, I’m bigger and better than that. It’s not written in my contract at work that I have to walk in and say hello to my colleagues every morning, but you know what, being the nice guy that I am, I do it
If I tarred all men with the same brush I'd block them all or leave.
Nice isn't appropriate in every environment.
It Is in mine, can’t think of when it isn’t, maybe not when dealing with traffic wardens
If I were nice to everyone here I'd be overrun with obnoxious and stupid, and be unable to find those who were worthy of my time.
It's a win/win. I spend my time on the people who make me happy, and the people who are respectful etc are more likely to be rewarded for it.
Worthy... that seems so superior.
I'm sorry, but hey bb drain my balls yo... Is a waste of my time.
How ironic?
Just deleted that exact same message, from a single guy!
"Hmmm if you read your post its the folk you wish to communicate with you're deeming worthy of your time..
I get crap (and i've had abusive) messages ..its not gender specific.
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"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day
Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.
Loool so salty amazing!
Their loss OP have a good day!
bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,
Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade "It's not a "rule" as such. But it's definitely in the site FAQs. Spend a bit of time reading them, spend a bit of time thinking about what its like like receive dozens of messages every day from people who don't read your profile, who send pictures if their cock, who's opening gambit is "hi how's you" or "fancy a fuck" and maybe just maybe you wouldn't have such an attitude. Two pence spent. | |||
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"Had abuse from single women and couples on here but I point blank let them win by tarring all the single women and couples on here with the same brush, I’m bigger and better than that. It’s not written in my contract at work that I have to walk in and say hello to my colleagues every morning, but you know what, being the nice guy that I am, I do it
If I tarred all men with the same brush I'd block them all or leave.
Nice isn't appropriate in every environment.
It Is in mine, can’t think of when it isn’t, maybe not when dealing with traffic wardens
If I were nice to everyone here I'd be overrun with obnoxious and stupid, and be unable to find those who were worthy of my time.
It's a win/win. I spend my time on the people who make me happy, and the people who are respectful etc are more likely to be rewarded for it.
Worthy... that seems so superior.
I'm sorry, but hey bb drain my balls yo... Is a waste of my time.
How ironic?
Just deleted that exact same message, from a single guy!
Hmmm if you read your post its the folk you wish to communicate with you're deeming worthy of your time..
I get crap (and i've had abusive) messages ..its not gender specific.
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"Had abuse from single women and couples on here but I point blank let them win by tarring all the single women and couples on here with the same brush, I’m bigger and better than that. It’s not written in my contract at work that I have to walk in and say hello to my colleagues every morning, but you know what, being the nice guy that I am, I do it
If I tarred all men with the same brush I'd block them all or leave.
Nice isn't appropriate in every environment.
It Is in mine, can’t think of when it isn’t, maybe not when dealing with traffic wardens
If I were nice to everyone here I'd be overrun with obnoxious and stupid, and be unable to find those who were worthy of my time.
It's a win/win. I spend my time on the people who make me happy, and the people who are respectful etc are more likely to be rewarded for it.
Worthy... that seems so superior.
I'm sorry, but hey bb drain my balls yo... Is a waste of my time.
How ironic?
Just deleted that exact same message, from a single guy!
Hmmm if you read your post its the folk you wish to communicate with you're deeming worthy of your time..
I get crap (and i've had abusive) messages ..its not gender specific.
Against site rules to mention contents of pm's.
Apologies if it offended anyone...however, I did not say who from."I'm not offended others may report you for mentioning it .. name or not dems da rules, break 'em and you may be on a naughty step for a period of time. Its normally pretty warm from the previous occupant | |||
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"The number of times we have received a message sayin,"I have read your profile",then follows some bullshit that shows they haven't read it at all. Yes we block. We didn't join fab to be bullshitted to I'm sure many others feel the same about their own fab experience. " Oh god yes. I've read your profile, come meet me in (outside Manchester) right now, here's my genitals, oh baby I want you. (not a real message) You've either read and don't respect my wishes, or you're a liar. I don't want either! | |||
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"Had abuse from single women and couples on here but I point blank let them win by tarring all the single women and couples on here with the same brush, I’m bigger and better than that. It’s not written in my contract at work that I have to walk in and say hello to my colleagues every morning, but you know what, being the nice guy that I am, I do it
If I tarred all men with the same brush I'd block them all or leave.
Nice isn't appropriate in every environment.
It Is in mine, can’t think of when it isn’t, maybe not when dealing with traffic wardens
If I were nice to everyone here I'd be overrun with obnoxious and stupid, and be unable to find those who were worthy of my time.
It's a win/win. I spend my time on the people who make me happy, and the people who are respectful etc are more likely to be rewarded for it.
Worthy... that seems so superior.
I'm sorry, but hey bb drain my balls yo... Is a waste of my time.
How ironic?
Just deleted that exact same message, from a single guy!
Hmmm if you read your post its the folk you wish to communicate with you're deeming worthy of your time..
I get crap (and i've had abusive) messages ..its not gender specific.
Against site rules to mention contents of pm's.
Apologies if it offended anyone...however, I did not say who from.
I'm not offended others may report you for mentioning it .. name or not dems da rules, break 'em and you may be on a naughty step for a period of time. Its normally pretty warm from the previous occupant "Who knows? I may fancy sitting on their lap?  | |||
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"The number of times we have received a message sayin,"I have read your profile",then follows some bullshit that shows they haven't read it at all. Yes we block. We didn't join fab to be bullshitted to I'm sure many others feel the same about their own fab experience. Oh god yes. I've read your profile, come meet me in (outside Manchester) right now, here's my genitals, oh baby I want you. (not a real message) You've either read and don't respect my wishes, or you're a liar. I don't want either! " Exactly | |||
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"The number of times we have received a message sayin,"I have read your profile",then follows some bullshit that shows they haven't read it at all. Yes we block. We didn't join fab to be bullshitted to I'm sure many others feel the same about their own fab experience. " We do exactly the same,we know straight away if they've read out profile as men wouldn't message as it says we aren't into males but we still get a shitload of messages asking to fuck the wife | |||
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"Blocking is a good way of removing folk you have no intention of interacting with in future. They can't message you, don't appear in searches and don't appear in your local updates. If someone interacts with you then "am I interested? Nope. Block" It doesn't mean you have done anything wrong or that they are being rude. " Perfect. | |||
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"Welcome to the club "what club is that depends on what people have put if it is a simple hi I do block if there photos are all cocks I do if I cannot see a face I do if it is rude I do I am sure you guys do exactly the same | |||
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"It's rude and arrogant to message someone on Fab and EXPECT a reply. How is it rude at all? I know people get overwhelmed with messages, the idiots who constantly message and the ones who become abusive but in my opinion I'd say a polite no thanks and then if they start down the route of idiot then block" By replying it breaks any future filters you may decide to set and why give them the chance to go down that route in the first place? | |||
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"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day
Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.
Loool so salty amazing!
Their loss OP have a good day!
bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,
Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade
It's not a "rule" as such.
But it's definitely in the site FAQs.
Spend a bit of time reading them, spend a bit of time thinking about what its like like receive dozens of messages every day from people who don't read your profile, who send pictures if their cock, who's opening gambit is "hi how's you" or "fancy a fuck" and maybe just maybe you wouldn't have such an attitude.
Two pence spent. "I’m good thanks, appreciate the advice, but if all those who think it’s not rude to ignore a well written considered message can all block me, that would be fantastic | |||
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"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day
Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.
Loool so salty amazing!
Their loss OP have a good day!
bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,
Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade
It's not a "rule" as such.
But it's definitely in the site FAQs.
Spend a bit of time reading them, spend a bit of time thinking about what its like like receive dozens of messages every day from people who don't read your profile, who send pictures if their cock, who's opening gambit is "hi how's you" or "fancy a fuck" and maybe just maybe you wouldn't have such an attitude.
Two pence spent.
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"The telling people how to use the site and superimposing normal rules onto a highly unusual situation never works well. " no it does not but love how ppl think they're the authority on this site and do this and when you look at their profile they aren't even verified lol | |||
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"Totally agreed..... I do understand there is lots of c**ts these days but there is lots of genuine guys too "Yep, and those lovely genuine guys will understand that there is a good chance that women will receive abuse if they simply just delete a message/reject the man sending it, and it’s easier to block to try and prevent this from happening | |||
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"Totally agreed..... I do understand there is lots of c**ts these days but there is lots of genuine guys too
Yep, and those lovely genuine guys will understand that there is a good chance that women will receive abuse if they simply just delete a message/reject the man sending it, and it’s easier to block to try and prevent this from happening "The lovely genuine guys will empathise with the shit women have to shovel rather than expect to be catered to. | |||
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"So as always I have a read of the profile and then think of what to message and always try to leave a compliment... yet 3/4 times since I’ve been on here I’ve been blocked straight away! To me that doesn’t make any sense at all... I know you ladies probably get inundated with messages but is it that difficult to send a quick “No thanks” or just delete the message? I’m not one to send a million messages but if someone did then you can feel free to block them! I’m so confused" Hi, wanna Fuck! No thanks But why? I just said no. Fear of rejection. It's been like it for years. Same in real life if you get told no it means no again fear of being rejected is not understood. Most people here think that a Hi is a meet. Some people need to study rejection. | |||
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"It's TRUE girls .... I do understand that .... but how would you find good genuine guy than .... " Easily
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"It's TRUE girls .... I do understand that .... but how would you find good genuine guy than .... " Someone who respects my wishes and interests me. | |||
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"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day
Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.
Loool so salty amazing!
Their loss OP have a good day!
bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,
Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade
It's not a "rule" as such.
But it's definitely in the site FAQs.
Spend a bit of time reading them, spend a bit of time thinking about what its like like receive dozens of messages every day from people who don't read your profile, who send pictures if their cock, who's opening gambit is "hi how's you" or "fancy a fuck" and maybe just maybe you wouldn't have such an attitude.
Two pence spent.
I’m good thanks, appreciate the advice, but if all those who think it’s not rude to ignore a well written considered message can all block me, that would be fantastic "Careful what you ask for. | |||
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"So as always I have a read of the profile and then think of what to message and always try to leave a compliment... yet 3/4 times since I’ve been on here I’ve been blocked straight away! To me that doesn’t make any sense at all... I know you ladies probably get inundated with messages but is it that difficult to send a quick “No thanks” or just delete the message? I’m not one to send a million messages but if someone did then you can feel free to block them! I’m so confused" kinda depends what you put in messages, what pics you send but your age username and status maybe play a part, you'll get there in the end | |||
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"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day
Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.
Loool so salty amazing!
Their loss OP have a good day!
bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,
Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade
It's not a "rule" as such.
But it's definitely in the site FAQs.
Spend a bit of time reading them, spend a bit of time thinking about what its like like receive dozens of messages every day from people who don't read your profile, who send pictures if their cock, who's opening gambit is "hi how's you" or "fancy a fuck" and maybe just maybe you wouldn't have such an attitude.
Two pence spent.
I’m good thanks, appreciate the advice, but if all those who think it’s not rude to ignore a well written considered message can all block me, that would be fantastic
Careful what you ask for. "Yeah, I'm in the habit of blocking anyone who insists I need to reply. | |||
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"So as always I have a read of the profile and then think of what to message and always try to leave a compliment... yet 3/4 times since I’ve been on here I’ve been blocked straight away! To me that doesn’t make any sense at all... I know you ladies probably get inundated with messages but is it that difficult to send a quick “No thanks” or just delete the message? I’m not one to send a million messages but if someone did then you can feel free to block them! I’m so confused" You state also Op you not fear rejection but ask us to always message back with no thanks. Take it like we all do. On the chin. Block and move on. | |||
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"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day
Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.
Loool so salty amazing!
Their loss OP have a good day!
bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,
Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade
It's not a "rule" as such.
But it's definitely in the site FAQs.
Spend a bit of time reading them, spend a bit of time thinking about what its like like receive dozens of messages every day from people who don't read your profile, who send pictures if their cock, who's opening gambit is "hi how's you" or "fancy a fuck" and maybe just maybe you wouldn't have such an attitude.
Two pence spent.
I’m good thanks, appreciate the advice, but if all those who think it’s not rude to ignore a well written considered message can all block me, that would be fantastic
Careful what you ask for. "Thanks for your concern, really very kind of you, but as I say, anyone who disagrees with me please feel free to block me if you so wish, no problem | |||
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"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day
Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.
Loool so salty amazing!
Their loss OP have a good day!
bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,
Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade
Imo, no respect for rules + no respect for profile preferences = no respect when meeting. "This. Think this is why this happens. Profiles state what's wanted and what's not. The 60th message in a row ignoring both just to bombard you with pics and rude chat, yeah, instant block. I'm new, but from my limited experience, maybe 1 out of 30 actually read the profile. So......blocked. | |||
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"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day
Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.
Loool so salty amazing!
Their loss OP have a good day!
bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,
Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade
Imo, no respect for rules + no respect for profile preferences = no respect when meeting.
This.
Think this is why this happens. Profiles state what's wanted and what's not. The 60th message in a row ignoring both just to bombard you with pics and rude chat, yeah, instant block.
I'm new, but from my limited experience, maybe 1 out of 30 actually read the profile. So......blocked."The OP clearly stated that he read the profile, sends | |||
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"Every woman knows a ‘nice guy’ the kind who think they deserve a blow job for being polite and don’t react well to not getting one." Yep | |||
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"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day
Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.
Loool so salty amazing!
Their loss OP have a good day!
bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,
Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade
Imo, no respect for rules + no respect for profile preferences = no respect when meeting.
This.
Think this is why this happens. Profiles state what's wanted and what's not. The 60th message in a row ignoring both just to bombard you with pics and rude chat, yeah, instant block.
I'm new, but from my limited experience, maybe 1 out of 30 actually read the profile. So......blocked."The OP clearly stated that he reads the profile, sends considered messages and will compliment, so clearly not like the fucktards you’re referring too. | |||
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"Every woman knows a ‘nice guy’ the kind who think they deserve a blow job for being polite and don’t react well to not getting one." You class them as nice guys? I wouldn’t. | |||
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"Every woman knows a ‘nice guy’ the kind who think they deserve a blow job for being polite and don’t react well to not getting one. You class them as nice guys? I wouldn’t." But they say they are nice guys... | |||
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"Every woman knows a ‘nice guy’ the kind who think they deserve a blow job for being polite and don’t react well to not getting one. You class them as nice guys? I wouldn’t. But they say they are nice guys..." Well I hope you know better ? | |||
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"Every woman knows a ‘nice guy’ the kind who think they deserve a blow job for being polite and don’t react well to not getting one. You class them as nice guys? I wouldn’t. But they say they are nice guys... Well I hope you know better ?" Very difficult to tell via messages on a website though, far safer to not take the risk, especially if not attracted to someone in he first place. | |||
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"So as always I have a read of the profile and then think of what to message and always try to leave a compliment... yet 3/4 times since I’ve been on here I’ve been blocked straight away! To me that doesn’t make any sense at all... I know you ladies probably get inundated with messages but is it that difficult to send a quick “No thanks” or just delete the message? I’m not one to send a million messages but if someone did then you can feel free to block them! I’m so confused" I afraid it's value not equality she see no value in talking to you as you don't hit her in the erogenous zones or any long term arm candy to her ego as unfortunately Tom Hardy is not available on Fab. It happens, just move on, try clubs and meet people face to face without the hurdle of a website Inbetween you and let the real you show though. | |||
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"Get used to it OP. The block button is a life saver. It’s easier and safer to block someone, than to potentially deal with the abuse you’ll receive for declining them, or for deleting their message. " Yeah it’s fine I understand that now... but like I said we move on | |||
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"Women block because they can - if the numbers were different on these sites, they wouldn’t be so quick to block. " Some people portray themselves as inferior to abstinence, and yes, I would still block. | |||
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"Women block because they can - if the numbers were different on these sites, they wouldn’t be so quick to block. Some people portray themselves as inferior to abstinence, and yes, I would still block. " One of the consequences of blocking is you’re not allowed to then contact via the forum. | |||
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"Women block because they can - if the numbers were different on these sites, they wouldn’t be so quick to block. Some people portray themselves as inferior to abstinence, and yes, I would still block. One of the consequences of blocking is you’re not allowed to then contact via the forum. " That’s not true. You can still communicate on the forum even if you’ve blocked the person. | |||
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"Women block because they can - if the numbers were different on these sites, they wouldn’t be so quick to block. Some people portray themselves as inferior to abstinence, and yes, I would still block. One of the consequences of blocking is you’re not allowed to then contact via the forum. That’s not true. You can still communicate on the forum even if you’ve blocked the person." Oh really? I’ll check that out I think | |||
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"Women block because they can - if the numbers were different on these sites, they wouldn’t be so quick to block. Some people portray themselves as inferior to abstinence, and yes, I would still block. One of the consequences of blocking is you’re not allowed to then contact via the forum. That’s not true. You can still communicate on the forum even if you’ve blocked the person. Oh really? I’ll check that out I think Well I’m speaking to you now and quoting you and I blocked you some time ago so...." I blocked you actually and I think it is wrong for you to be able to contact me now | |||
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"Women block because they can - if the numbers were different on these sites, they wouldn’t be so quick to block. Some people portray themselves as inferior to abstinence, and yes, I would still block. One of the consequences of blocking is you’re not allowed to then contact via the forum. That’s not true. You can still communicate on the forum even if you’ve blocked the person. Oh really? I’ll check that out I think Well I’m speaking to you now and quoting you and I blocked you some time ago so.... I blocked you actually and I think it is wrong for you to be able to contact me now " Haha whatever you say, all good then | |||
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"You can communicate as general discussion but not about the block. I was talking in general terms. " I don’t see why you should be able to communicate with me directly | |||
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"Women block because they can - if the numbers were different on these sites, they wouldn’t be so quick to block. Some people portray themselves as inferior to abstinence, and yes, I would still block. One of the consequences of blocking is you’re not allowed to then contact via the forum. That’s not true. You can still communicate on the forum even if you’ve blocked the person. Oh really? I’ll check that out I think Well I’m speaking to you now and quoting you and I blocked you some time ago so.... I blocked you actually and I think it is wrong for you to be able to contact me now Haha whatever you say, all good then "No, not all good - I don’t want you to communicate with me | |||
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"You can communicate as general discussion but not about the block. I was talking in general terms. I don’t see why you should be able to communicate with me directly " Why does it matter? It’s an open forum for people to comment as they see fit. | |||
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"Women block because they can - if the numbers were different on these sites, they wouldn’t be so quick to block. Some people portray themselves as inferior to abstinence, and yes, I would still block. One of the consequences of blocking is you’re not allowed to then contact via the forum. That’s not true. You can still communicate on the forum even if you’ve blocked the person. Oh really? I’ll check that out I think Well I’m speaking to you now and quoting you and I blocked you some time ago so.... I blocked you actually and I think it is wrong for you to be able to contact me now Haha whatever you say, all good then
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"If you have a problem, report. I was continuing discussion, which is within the forum rules. " Unless people are being abusive on the forums, there isn’t an issue | |||
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"You can communicate as general discussion but not about the block. I was talking in general terms. I don’t see why you should be able to communicate with me directly " If there's a block, you can't communicate directly, it's imposdible. Doesn't stop talking on the forums, but you can't use the forums to get around a block. | |||
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"If you have a problem, report. I was continuing discussion, which is within the forum rules. Unless people are being abusive on the forums, there isn’t an issue "Surely I’m the one to decide if there’s an issue | |||
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"If you have a problem, report. I was continuing discussion, which is within the forum rules. Unless people are being abusive on the forums, there isn’t an issue
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"You can communicate as general discussion but not about the block. I was talking in general terms. I don’t see why you should be able to communicate with me directly If there's a block, you can't communicate directly, it's imposdible. Doesn't stop talking on the forums, but you can't use the forums to get around a block." I’m not trying to get round a block - others are | |||
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"If you have a problem, report. I was continuing discussion, which is within the forum rules. Unless people are being abusive on the forums, there isn’t an issue "No, there isn't, but in this case it might need a mod to clarify the rules | |||
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I think I was in this club from the beginning bud "We should get jackets made Interesting how a block from a guy isn’t taken seriously though | |||
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"You can communicate as general discussion but not about the block. I was talking in general terms. I don’t see why you should be able to communicate with me directly If there's a block, you can't communicate directly, it's imposdible. Doesn't stop talking on the forums, but you can't use the forums to get around a block. I’m not trying to get round a block - others are " I didn't say you were...... | |||
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"You can communicate as general discussion but not about the block. I was talking in general terms. I don’t see why you should be able to communicate with me directly If there's a block, you can't communicate directly, it's imposdible. Doesn't stop talking on the forums, but you can't use the forums to get around a block. I’m not trying to get round a block - others are I didn't say you were...... "Sorry, you addressed it to me that’s all | |||
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"You can communicate as general discussion but not about the block. I was talking in general terms. I don’t see why you should be able to communicate with me directly If there's a block, you can't communicate directly, it's imposdible. Doesn't stop talking on the forums, but you can't use the forums to get around a block. I’m not trying to get round a block - others are I didn't say you were......
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"You can communicate as general discussion but not about the block. I was talking in general terms. I don’t see why you should be able to communicate with me directly If there's a block, you can't communicate directly, it's imposdible. Doesn't stop talking on the forums, but you can't use the forums to get around a block. I’m not trying to get round a block - others are " There’s a difference between interacting with someone on the forums because it is part of a discussion, and using the forums to directly get around a block. For example, I have replied to many forum posts where the OP has blocked me. But I’m not asking ‘OP why have you blocked me? What have I done wrong?!’ And the same has happened the other way round. | |||
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"You can communicate as general discussion but not about the block. I was talking in general terms. I don’t see why you should be able to communicate with me directly Why does it matter? It’s an open forum for people to comment as they see fit." The man is asking you not to...please just ignore each other | |||
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"You can communicate as general discussion but not about the block. I was talking in general terms. I don’t see why you should be able to communicate with me directly Why does it matter? It’s an open forum for people to comment as they see fit. The man is asking you not to...please just ignore each other" Think the convo has moved on now, thanks for the concern though | |||
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"You can communicate as general discussion but not about the block. I was talking in general terms. I don’t see why you should be able to communicate with me directly Why does it matter? It’s an open forum for people to comment as they see fit. The man is asking you not to...please just ignore each other" Thanks - I appreciate that | |||
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"You can communicate as general discussion but not about the block. I was talking in general terms. I don’t see why you should be able to communicate with me directly Why does it matter? It’s an open forum for people to comment as they see fit. The man is asking you not to...please just ignore each other" Agree! | |||
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"I usually just delete. No thanks is too hard, because a significant minority will abuse you or argue about it. I block immediately where the message is what I consider inappropriate or over the line (or disgusting, abusive, etc). Some people use it as a filtering tool where they're just not interested. If you're being blocked that much, review the messages you're sending. " | |||
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"I think this has happened to just about everyone on here at some time. What i do find amusing is the people you exchange several messages with, all seems to be going really well and then when you try and message them like a day later they have blocked you lol. As they say there's nowt as queer as folks "I don’t believe people block you! You’ve got a very smooth bottom | |||
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"I think this has happened to just about everyone on here at some time. What i do find amusing is the people you exchange several messages with, all seems to be going really well and then when you try and message them like a day later they have blocked you lol. As they say there's nowt as queer as folks "I got blocked for first time the other day by an inebriated woman who mistakenly thought I'd made an innocuous comment referring to her but it was to a guy that was above me, she apologised but didn’t remove the block lol but in her case I actually don't mind lol  | |||
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"Best not to send any messages, wait for one getting sent to you, I don’t think you would get blocked then Yes, if you waited for messages as a guy, you’d be waiting for a long, long, long time! " Well why not? At least it saves unwanted messages deleted and you get someone that actually is interested in chatting to you and possibly meeting you too think about the saved time you can have to spend on doing something more fruitful | |||
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"Best not to send any messages, wait for one getting sent to you, I don’t think you would get blocked then Yes, if you waited for messages as a guy, you’d be waiting for a long, long, long time! Well why not? At least it saves unwanted messages deleted and you get someone that actually is interested in chatting to you and possibly meeting you too think about the saved time you can have to spend on doing something more fruitful " Because it would never happen for 99% of guys on here - they’d never get a message | |||
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"Vamp has written to guys she is interested in. Funny thing is, they all say they want to meet a couple like us, but, when we/she writes, we get refusals, no response, or blocked. Then, a while later, they write to us!" That sounds like the hunter instinct, worked for the cave men lol | |||
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"Vamp has written to guys she is interested in. Funny thing is, they all say they want to meet a couple like us, but, when we/she writes, we get refusals, no response, or blocked. Then, a while later, they write to us!" No pleasing some people ! | |||
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"Anyway, back to the OP’s question. I tend to reply mostly with a no thanks. I’ll only block if I receive abuse, or they are not taking no for an answer etc. Everyone uses their inbox differently I guess." Yeah each to their own but I just guess that’s me being polite and the women being pi**ed off with the idiots on here | |||
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"So as always I have a read of the profile and then think of what to message and always try to leave a compliment... yet 3/4 times since I’ve been on here I’ve been blocked straight away! To me that doesn’t make any sense at all... I know you ladies probably get inundated with messages but is it that difficult to send a quick “No thanks” or just delete the message? I’m not one to send a million messages but if someone did then you can feel free to block them! I’m so confused" Women on here get bored with compliments. They know it is a guys way of blowing smoke up their arse. They also know a lot of guys are not being sincere when they dish out compliments. They know a lot of guys wrongly think giving compliments = I get into your knickers. | |||
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"So as always I have a read of the profile and then think of what to message and always try to leave a compliment... yet 3/4 times since I’ve been on here I’ve been blocked straight away! To me that doesn’t make any sense at all... I know you ladies probably get inundated with messages but is it that difficult to send a quick “No thanks” or just delete the message? I’m not one to send a million messages but if someone did then you can feel free to block them! I’m so confused" Would it make you feel better to have an inbox full of messages saying no thanks? It would depress me. No reply = no thanks. No reply does not = the person you emailed is rude. | |||
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"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day "How is it their loss if they are not interested? I am sure the person receiving the email doesn't think it's their loss. If they did they would reply. | |||
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"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day
Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.
Loool so salty amazing!
Their loss OP have a good day!
bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,
Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade "If you were getting 30 - 100 emails a day would you want to spend hours reading them all and replying no thanks? | |||
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"Never worry geezer... It is their loss. Just crack on with your day
Not their loss at all. They arent interested in you. Easier to just delete and/or block.
Loool so salty amazing!
Their loss OP have a good day!
bang on mate, how would they know, rude as rude can get, sadly no surprise for on here though, wouldn’t be accepted as ‘normal’ in other walk of life,
Sits and waits for “its in the rules” brigade
Imo, no respect for rules + no respect for profile preferences = no respect when meeting. "I agree | |||
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"It's rude and arrogant to message someone on Fab and EXPECT a reply. How is it rude at all? I know people get overwhelmed with messages, the idiots who constantly message and the ones who become abusive but in my opinion I'd say a polite no thanks and then if they start down the route of idiot then block" no reply = no thanks | |||
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"I think this has happened to just about everyone on here at some time. What i do find amusing is the people you exchange several messages with, all seems to be going really well and then when you try and message them like a day later they have blocked you lol. As they say there's nowt as queer as folks "Then they must have blocked you for a reason. My guess would be something you said. | |||
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