We were really active in our early 20s, swinging from dating to marriage, then of course children came.
So we have been on complete hiatus for the last 7-8 years, and now our availability is completely changed. No more spontaneously driving 30 miles, and no more clubs!
This is obviously a common set of life changes. Can others share advice on getting back into the game?
One major change we discussed is playing single, because both being available at the same time is just about impossible. We haven’t done this before but hadn’t ruled it out either. Taking it slow and don’t think we should encounter jealousy issues. |
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"We were really active in our early 20s, swinging from dating to marriage, then of course children came.
So we have been on complete hiatus for the last 7-8 years, and now our availability is completely changed. No more spontaneously driving 30 miles, and no more clubs!
This is obviously a common set of life changes. Can others share advice on getting back into the game?
One major change we discussed is playing single, because both being available at the same time is just about impossible. We haven’t done this before but hadn’t ruled it out either. Taking it slow and don’t think we should encounter jealousy issues."
We're in the same boat. Child free time is very very limited and at times when everyone else is working. Also even so we're a couple - we're also individuals and some of the preferences don't match. Meeting on my own to explore things my husband has no intetest in is a way forward for us so I have my own profile on here now. He chose not to have his own.
We're still looking to meet together whenever we can. If you feel secure in yourselves and your relationship - meeting separately can only add to it.
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