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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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You're a very young man who can't accommodate with a one line profile. What did you expect?
Come on....is it that difficult to put together a decent profile?
Plenty of generic profile advice in the forums OP, do a search. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Keep it as it is, the worse your profile is might give the rest of us a chance
But then again I doubt it, seriously though it does not matter how good your profile is on this site. Just accept your very unlikely to get anywhere here. Go to a club I say. Good luck though. |
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"Keep it as it is, the worse your profile is might give the rest of us a chance
But then again I doubt it, seriously though it does not matter how good your profile is on this site. Just accept your very unlikely to get anywhere here. Go to a club I say. Good luck though. "
I did laugh at the first bit.... but the rest is rubbish imo.
Effort and manners will go along way with the ladies, take no thanks as that - don’t sulk as it’s not attractive at all. If you do get a response don’t blow it. |
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Hello OP
Firstly, you will need to accept some facts. Some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret. Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age, distance etc.
Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet. If it says they are looking for a bi guy, or a chubby guy, that's not you so don't waste your time or theirs.
Now, providing you have sent a message that will entice them to look further they will 99% of the time look at your profile before responding. So now you have to sell yourself. Quite frankly the 12 words you have managed to write on your profile won't impress anyone.
Your profile couldn't sell a Big Mac to a starving man, so it's not going to sell you to prospective meets. Write something about you, what you have to offer, what your limits are etc. Basically - make people interested in you. Do some research and have a look at some other profiles to give you ideas.
Put on some more pics. Face pics are best, cock pics are generally not required in your public profile. Anything in between is great.
However your profile is not everything. Get involved with the forums, get involved in the chatroom too. Then get off the site and meet people socially or try a club.
Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Keep it as it is, the worse your profile is might give the rest of us a chance
But then again I doubt it, seriously though it does not matter how good your profile is on this site. Just accept your very unlikely to get anywhere here. Go to a club I say. Good luck though.
I did laugh at the first bit.... but the rest is rubbish imo.
Effort and manners will go along way with the ladies, take no thanks as that - don’t sulk as it’s not attractive at all. If you do get a response don’t blow it. "
This.
Only message those who you match aswell, that should help.
Patience is ever vital x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/8538
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/868684
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/877648
Have a good read through those, there is plenty of advice for single guys.
As others have said, you are very young, and not that many people on here want to meet very young guys as a) they are not experienced enough,
b) the potential meets may have kids about your age,
c) from experience, the potential meets might know young guys get their sexual education from porn, which is nowhere near real life.
Anyway, good luck. |
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Not read other replies, so some of this may have been covered.
It's worthwhile having reasonable expectations, so that you don't get despondent and also will be happy, when things improve. As a single man, you're amongst tons of competition, so it does take a lot of effort and patience, before things pay off: assume months, not days.
Those people who manage to sell themselves well will generally do better than those who don't - so check out topics in the forum that could help you to do that. Good profiles, including a range of photos that let others know how much they find you attractive, are things that I look for from a guy: it suggests that he's thought about what I'd need, in order to spend my time with him.
Let your personality and interests stand out.
Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im new to all this and im finding that no body is really interested in me, is it my profile or just me?
Any advice would help
Thanks"
Have you taken any of the advice on board? |
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"Im new to all this and im finding that no body is really interested in me, is it my profile or just me?
Any advice would help
Thanks
Have you taken any of the advice on board?"
I’m sure the advice is under active consideration  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have to think at the moment with the pandemic this website isn’t what is used to be, as you can imagine.
Then you’re very young so that puts a lot of people off. I like young guys but I know I’m a minority.
You need more photos. The more the better, and a variety. Not just cock pics.
A face photo will make a huge difference although I understand why some can’t post one.
And you need to work on your profile. Tell people about you: why are you here, what are you like, what are you looking for.
I’m very open minded but no text or a generic one liner that has no thought behind would put me off.
I hope you’re not offended, I just want to give my honest opinion so you know what to work on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im new to all this and im finding that no body is really interested in me, is it my profile or just me?
Any advice would help
Thanks
Have you taken any of the advice on board?
I’m sure the advice is under active consideration "
Yes
Perhaps the OP has been super busy |
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"Im new to all this and im finding that no body is really interested in me, is it my profile or just me?
Any advice would help
Thanks
Have you taken any of the advice on board?"
Considering the advice was given over a year ago and the profile is still the same...it doesn't look it
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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago
The South |
"Im new to all this and im finding that no body is really interested in me, is it my profile or just me?
Any advice would help
Thanks
Have you taken any of the advice on board?
Considering the advice was given over a year ago and the profile is still the same...it doesn't look it
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He did ask for advice again 32 weeks ago.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sorry just come back to this site after a while off, going to put some time and effort into my profile??
Feel free to drop me a message if anyone id interested |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Sorry just come back to this site after a while off, going to put some time and effort into my profile??
Feel free to drop me a message if anyone id interested"
Welcome back! There's advice on my profile should you wish to use it. Good luck! |
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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago
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"Sorry just come back to this site after a while off, going to put some time and effort into my profile??
Feel free to drop me a message if anyone id interested
Welcome back! There's advice on my profile should you wish to use it. Good luck! "
This advice is good advice, read and digest.....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry just come back to this site after a while off, going to put some time and effort into my profile??
Feel free to drop me a message if anyone id interested"
Is your profile the new version?? |
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"Sorry just come back to this site after a while off, going to put some time and effort into my profile??
Feel free to drop me a message if anyone id interested
Is your profile the new version??"
It’s different to what it was this morning, yes |
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