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over a year ago
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"I know I'm not verified, but it's getting verified that's the problem. Does no one chat to males that's not verified?"
Remember that before people chat they will always check out your profile to see how much effort you have put into presenting yourself well. |
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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago
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"I know I'm not verified, but it's getting verified that's the problem. Does no one chat to males that's not verified?"
Maybe they don't chat 
We don't, it's a waste of our time to chat online. We do our chatting in clubs and at socials; face to face |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know I'm not verified, but it's getting verified that's the problem. Does no one chat to males that's not verified?
Maybe they don't chat
We don't, it's a waste of our time to chat online. We do our chatting in clubs and at socials; face to face"
True words.
We are very similar to you, we chat to people where we see some kind of mutual attraction or shared interest. |
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You'll be like most of the other single men here, where the level of competition means that it's tough to become established - probably for several months. A verification can make it easier but it's not the free pass to unlimited, easy meets.
First thing is to modify your expectations, so that you're not carrying disappointment or personal frustration. If you're more realistic, then you'll work hard at getting to know others - not everyone is for everyone and, due to levels of choice, most people are able to meet others who aren't too different from their ideal choices. It's partly a numbers and effort game - as long as the effort is invested wisely.
Check out other forum threads, that may contain tips that are useful for you. |
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By *aitinkCouple
over a year ago
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You have to make the running. Most of us lament the long list of single guys who don't even bother to say hello. But, take the time to see what's going on and then contribute. Do not be aggressive, always be polite and keep a sense of humour. Don't PM anyone, quickest way to make enemies, and don't come across as a smartarse. if you join the same room at the same time then folk will get used to you. Keep out of the directing rooms, not everyone in those is very nice. Pick the regional room that applies to you. Quite a few use the USA or Canada rooms because they have few inmates and you can hold a conversation without having to constantly scroll back.
Be there, be nice, be regular. Oh, and patient. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are newbies and we chat to fakes time wasters and wank bunnies if they can hold a conversation until we find out that they are fakes time wasters and wank bunnies then we let them move on to the next victim of which there are many.
Carol doesn’t want to meet smokers so she would be polite to you Freddie but that’s all as chatting to you would be a waste of your time and ours as we are here to meet not just chat.
I suggest that you always read a persons profile and always be respectful on here.
And best of luck to you as at times it’s hard being new!!!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know I'm not verified, but it's getting verified that's the problem. Does no one chat to males that's not verified?"
People do chat but often they look at profiles to see if someone is interesting and if not then don't feel its worth chatting in many instances as you can't chat to everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know I'm not verified, but it's getting verified that's the problem. Does no one chat to males that's not verified?"
To be fair "chatting" is time consuming and usually by the second message the talk is sex. So I do no chatting |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Fab is like life, more effort you put in the more you’ll get back. Definitely be patient tho. Don’t think lots of guys realise how the outnumber the women on Fab. Got to make your message stand out. Maybe look into the organised social events in your local area as well. Also try swingers clubs another great way of meeting people. Sure it will soon turn around for you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well we all prefer sex talk let's be honest. But it has to start somewhere. But I tried most things maybe I'm just a bland guy that fab ladys do not like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well we all prefer sex talk let's be honest. But it has to start somewhere. But I tried most things maybe I'm just a bland guy that fab ladys do not like. "
I don't actually do sex talk tbh find it boring  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well we all prefer sex talk let's be honest. But it has to start somewhere. But I tried most things maybe I'm just a bland guy that fab ladys do not like. "
I don’t get replies either, take no notice of it. Sex is overrated anyway. Pull out an Apple pie for America bro  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know I'm not verified, but it's getting verified that's the problem. Does no one chat to males that's not verified?"
of course they do just keep plugging away with the really polite and interesting messages based on target profile you'll be fine, veris really don't matter
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well we all prefer sex talk let's be honest. But it has to start somewhere. But I tried most things maybe I'm just a bland guy that fab ladys do not like. "
I really have no interest in talking about what sex I've had.
I absolutly scratch my head at the logic of the men asking to "wife chat" makes my skin crawl |
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"Well we all prefer sex talk let's be honest. But it has to start somewhere. But I tried most things maybe I'm just a bland guy that fab ladys do not like. "
I hate sex talk. I am familiar with most things people do when having sex, and "do you do X"-type conversations sound empty to me. If I have something I am averse to or cannot do, they will know soon enough, I.e. when it becomes relevant. |
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