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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We are new to this arranged a meet for tonight with a cpl in wood so dogging I guess but would not supply us with any pics then others cpls wanted to join us I
So asked it ok they said no and pulled out is this something we should expect xxx
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"We are new to this arranged a meet for tonight with a cpl in wood so dogging I guess but would not supply us with any pics then others cpls wanted to join us I
So asked it ok they said no and pulled out is this something we should expect xxx
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If you arrange a meet it's best not to guess what's involved, better to ask.
I would pull out of a meet if you asked if you could bring other people or they did I'm not sure which from your post.
People do meet without seeing photos. We never would, how would you recognise them for a start and how would you know you found them attractive? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had something similar, a few years back.
Organised a ‘dogging’ meet, knew make/model/colour/reg of their car. Saw it, went over to chat....7 seater filled with guys. When asked where ‘wife’ was, he laughed, and said it was his trick for getting women for him and mates.
We returned to our car, drive off. |
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Not sure how it came about that other couples wanted to join but I suspect it made the other couple nervous.
Not sure whether their profile is verified or not or the reasoning behind no photo swap but it could just be a guy pretending to be a couple or a couple who are extremely private.
At least you have the other couples to fall back on! Have fun!  |
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"Had something similar, a few years back.
Organised a ‘dogging’ meet, knew make/model/colour/reg of their car. Saw it, went over to chat....7 seater filled with guys. When asked where ‘wife’ was, he laughed, and said it was his trick for getting women for him and mates.
We returned to our car, drive off. "
Jesus - that's scary! Could've easily turned nasty!  |
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Are you crazy?. Meeting folk with no pics in the woods can be very dangerous. Maybe it sounds exciting but always remember safety comes first. There could be a gang of nutters there to rob and attack you in those woods tonight. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We would never arrange a meet with anyone who refused to send us pictures or provide some proof that they were genuine.
OP you were taking a huge risk with your safety. You had no clue of who was going to be waiting for you
As for your other question, it’s probably not a common thing to try and include more people on an already agreed meet. Maybe it’s different if it’s dogging but it would be a red flag for us. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I just thought because there picked a dogging site and it’s very public there must be into that as surely a hotel if they want private and we didn’t arrange the meets I asked them what there thought of overs joining us xx x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Had something similar, a few years back.
Organised a ‘dogging’ meet, knew make/model/colour/reg of their car. Saw it, went over to chat....7 seater filled with guys. When asked where ‘wife’ was, he laughed, and said it was his trick for getting women for him and mates.
We returned to our car, drive off. "
OMG that must have been awfull xx |
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"Are you crazy?. Meeting folk with no pics in the woods can be very dangerous. Maybe it sounds exciting but always remember safety comes first. There could be a gang of nutters there to rob and attack you in those woods tonight."
Can’t emphasise this enough! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To not take precautions and at least know who you are meeting is damn silly, maybe take a step back, put aside your excitement for the meet and think about it sensibly |
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"I just thought because there picked a dogging site and it’s very public there must be into that as surely a hotel if they want private and we didn’t arrange the meets I asked them what there thought of overs joining us xx x"
Within this lifestyle, when people talk about a public first meet it means meeting somewhere like a coffee shop or a bar for a social and then you can take it somewhere more private if everyone is happy! |
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By *ipmannMan
over a year ago
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"Are you crazy?. Meeting folk with no pics in the woods can be very dangerous. Maybe it sounds exciting but always remember safety comes first. There could be a gang of nutters there to rob and attack you in those woods tonight.
Can’t emphasise this enough!"
Agree with both ... safety first.. without pic or some info I would say dont show... politely decline |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For ‘dogging’ meets, we have only had that one problem...seriously, it is usually fun, and, ‘regular’ guys often look out for couples...otherwise, it ruins it for them.
We did choose a very popular area, and, we had told our regular guys we would be at that spot....after all, if the other ‘couple’ backed off, at least V@mp had other options. |
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"I just thought because there picked a dogging site and it’s very public there must be into that as surely a hotel if they want private and we didn’t arrange the meets I asked them what there thought of overs joining us xx x"
Oh I thought when you said they pulled out this morning that you'd got something arranged. In that case you can expect people to not take things further if during discussions it becomes clear that you're not compatible |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We arranged a meet in the woods with a couple and yes no photos. Turned out to be a total twat most likely not married and we were greated by about 20 polish guys who were told they could all fuck me.real scary. We fucked off smartish. Never again a couple with no photos at all or no photos of HER then it's a giant NO |
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"We arranged a meet in the woods with a couple and yes no photos. Turned out to be a total twat most likely not married and we were greated by about 20 polish guys who were told they could all fuck me.real scary. We fucked off smartish. Never again a couple with no photos at all or no photos of HER then it's a giant NO"
Jesus Christ that’s terrifying and could have ended horrifically |
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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago
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There are horror stories from lots of sides where meeting strangers in public goes badly.
It's not wrong to ask for a face pic, it's not wrong to be selective in who you send one too either.
However let's go to the woods with someone we have never met.... Its all fun and games until someone trips over a shovel |
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Something similar happened to me last night. Message after midnight asking for a late night meet. Obviously I want to make sure I fancy the girl so I asked for a photo. She’s got a few veris on here.
She decided I’d asked too many questions so cancelled. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We arranged a meet in the woods with a couple and yes no photos. Turned out to be a total twat most likely not married and we were greated by about 20 polish guys who were told they could all fuck me.real scary. We fucked off smartish. Never again a couple with no photos at all or no photos of HER then it's a giant NO
Jesus Christ that’s terrifying and could have ended horrifically "
Yes for the polish as just missed running them down as we spend off |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We arranged a meet in the woods with a couple and yes no photos. Turned out to be a total twat most likely not married and we were greated by about 20 polish guys who were told they could all f+ck me.real scary. We fucked off smartish. Never again a couple with no photos at all or no photos of HER then it's a giant NO
Jesus Christ that’s terrifying and could have ended horrifically "
My God so glad you got out safe 20 guys could have easily took you and your guy down and then they could have done anything to you bot! There's similar MO cases worldwide where r4pe, kidnaqqing and even murd3r was the outcome.
I don't believe you should meet anyone without face pictures but definitely not in the woods, country, dogging etc
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That's why we never arrange to meet anyone dogging, it all seems a good idea to arrange something but unless you have met someone, you don't know who they are
Generally people at dogging spots are doggers who are there for the same reason we are. |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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If we agreed a meet on our couple profile,we wouldn't be happy if they then suggested others join us.
However we wouldn't expect anyone to meet without us all swapping pics .
Like others said,just be careful you don't know who you're meeting without pics,could be men as another poster said. |
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We each make our own interests and requirements for meets and activities.
Some reasons that people won't share photos !
It's not a couple, it's just a man
They've been caught out before, using other peoples photos
Nervousness about identification or new to swinging
They may not look like their stated physical description
Many could be deterred by increased numbers of others, if they'd wanted just you. Or if they're not genuine, could become more worried being found out.
A lot of us are in to dogging and outdoors fun - not everyone likes dogging or may see it as higher risk from police etc.
It's hard to know from the brief details but I'd encourage you to set some fixed rules that you ensure are met for meets. Many of us insist on pics, phone chat with all people in a profile, live video cam chat and clear discussions of what the sex interests or limits etc are, before agreeing a meet.
A lot of people report others being unreliable, failing to show up or not being like their advertised appearance, so being new you may more easily fall into some issues that you may not have expected.
Most people here are great but there are some that could limit your satisfaction - they may even target less experienced people.
I'd encourage you to get pics in advance and speak to the male and female beforehand, at least.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We each make our own interests and requirements for meets and activities.
Some reasons that people won't share photos !
It's not a couple, it's just a man
They've been caught out before, using other peoples photos
Nervousness about identification or new to swinging
They may not look like their stated physical description
Many could be deterred by increased numbers of others, if they'd wanted just you. Or if they're not genuine, could become more worried being found out.
A lot of us are in to dogging and outdoors fun - not everyone likes dogging or may see it as higher risk from police etc.
It's hard to know from the brief details but I'd encourage you to set some fixed rules that you ensure are met for meets. Many of us insist on pics, phone chat with all people in a profile, live video cam chat and clear discussions of what the sex interests or limits etc are, before agreeing a meet.
A lot of people report others being unreliable, failing to show up or not being like their advertised appearance, so being new you may more easily fall into some issues that you may not have expected.
Most people here are great but there are some that could limit your satisfaction - they may even target less experienced people.
I'd encourage you to get pics in advance and speak to the male and female beforehand, at least.
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And some won't share face pics because they don't want to. Doesn't mean they're not genuine, use someone else's pictures or don't look like the pictures they do show. Things aren't always dark and negative 
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If someone doesn’t trust me to send a face pic then I don’t trust them to stick their dick in me, same goes for women who pull the “I’m shy” card. If you’re shy, fine, but you’re talking to me about fucking so you’re either going to show me your face now or you don’t get to meet me. Zero exceptions.
I’m not here for numbers as I only fuck people I’m attracted to, you can’t judge that without photos and I’m not wasting my time making the effort for a social when I could risk them more than likely to look like the back end of a bus. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If someone doesn’t trust me to send a face pic then I don’t trust them to stick their dick in me, same goes for women who pull the “I’m shy” card. If you’re shy, fine, but you’re talking to me about fucking so you’re either going to show me your face now or you don’t get to meet me. Zero exceptions.
I’m not here for numbers as I only fuck people I’m attracted to, you can’t judge that without photos and I’m not wasting my time making the effort for a social when I could risk them more than likely to look like the back end of a bus."
I can never get why people think it's ok I'm not showing you what I look like but can we meet so I can stick my dick in your wife. It's cfrazy to me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If someone doesn’t trust me to send a face pic then I don’t trust them to stick their dick in me, same goes for women who pull the “I’m shy” card. If you’re shy, fine, but you’re talking to me about fucking so you’re either going to show me your face now or you don’t get to meet me. Zero exceptions.
I’m not here for numbers as I only fuck people I’m attracted to, you can’t judge that without photos and I’m not wasting my time making the effort for a social when I could risk them more than likely to look like the back end of a bus.
I can never get why people think it's ok I'm not showing you what I look like but can we meet so I can stick my dick in your wife. It's cfrazy to me x"
they'd be in the woods it's dark you know, they wouldn’t be able to see who it was anyway |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I just thought because there picked a dogging site and it’s very public there must be into that as surely a hotel if they want private and we didn’t arrange the meets I asked them what there thought of overs joining us xx x
Within this lifestyle, when people talk about a public first meet it means meeting somewhere like a coffee shop or a bar for a social and then you can take it somewhere more private if everyone is happy!"
no it was out door fun in a dogging wood xx |
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"Something similar happened to me last night. Message after midnight asking for a late night meet. Obviously I want to make sure I fancy the girl so I asked for a photo. She’s got a few veris on here.
She decided I’d asked too many questions so cancelled. "
But your a single male. You should be grateful for any attention.  |
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