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Unicorn Searching - Profile advice please and thanks
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You look like a great couple and I like your profile.
If I was bring nitpicky I might add a little about what you both enjoy sexually but that can always be established in the messaging stage so not strictly necessary.
Hope you find your unicorn soon x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i very much like your profile! 
as above, maybe a little something about what you both enjoy, and what you're hoping to enjoy with your Unicorn, so we could see off the bat.
really hope you find someone to fit your bill. if we were closer, id most definitely offer myself  |
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"Any suggestions on how to improve our search for a unicorn ( very very rare )
Any and all tips appreciated
Thank you "
Something about your pics tells us that you’d really enjoy a club visit. Seriously. It’s not that scary. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Any suggestions on how to improve our search for a unicorn ( very very rare )
Any and all tips appreciated
Thank you
Something about your pics tells us that you’d really enjoy a club visit. Seriously. It’s not that scary. "
It's something on our list it's a bit daunting all the same. So we are going to one of the socials in the summer if we can make it off the reserve list. Thanks for the input |
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"Any suggestions on how to improve our search for a unicorn ( very very rare )
Any and all tips appreciated
Thank you "
I'm not a unicorn but if I was I'd want people to say what was in it for me too. You ask for someone to join you for the first time and also someone to introduce you to a club, what do they get out of it? I suggest you write a little about that |
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Stop labelling them as rare... Seriously, around here you can't turn around without tripping over one lol.
People find it hard to meet them because they try too hard, without giving thought to how someone might feel about being chased in that way.
We have never played with a " single bi female "...but we have played with loads of our friends who just happen to be bi, female, and single.
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By *ottie 13Woman
over a year ago
Happy go lucky |
My suggestion would be to visit a club get chatting to people and you'll probably find one who may not seem to be a unicorn through their profile on fab but it's a completely different thing to meet people face to face. I would never search fab for a couple but in a club once you get chatting I can be persuaded through great personalities. Club visits are great and I imagine even more enjoyable as a couple after your visit I guarantee you'll wonder why you were apprehensive everyone is very friendly and non judgemental |
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks |
I guess i could be classed as a unicorn but i wouldnt meet someone looking for one as id feel pressured into being a performing monkey. That terminology is really offputting.
We are not rare, or to be revered, we are just ordinary humans like everyone else and should be treated as such.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I guess i could be classed as a unicorn but i wouldnt meet someone looking for one as id feel pressured into being a performing monkey. That terminology is really offputting.
We are not rare, or to be revered, we are just ordinary humans like everyone else and should be treated as such.
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We didn't mean to cause any offence it is a term we have seen commonly used and went with it
Have a happy one |
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
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"I guess i could be classed as a unicorn but i wouldnt meet someone looking for one as id feel pressured into being a performing monkey. That terminology is really offputting.
We are not rare, or to be revered, we are just ordinary humans like everyone else and should be treated as such.
We didn't mean to cause any offence it is a term we have seen commonly used and went with it
Have a happy one "
No offence caused, just my personal opinion.
Most of my ffm experiences have been at a club bi night and then developed from there...have you considered attending one? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I guess i could be classed as a unicorn but i wouldnt meet someone looking for one as id feel pressured into being a performing monkey. That terminology is really offputting.
We are not rare, or to be revered, we are just ordinary humans like everyone else and should be treated as such.
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This!!!!! Is so true!!!!!
I’m a single female - and nothing puts me off more than being hunted and used for the following:
1. Their first experience - ugh nothing worse than the hype and pressure of this on a single fem
2. Being their entertainment for the night/evening or what ever! (I’ve a couple who hunt me regularly and they list - that the female half of a couple won’t do fem oral and the male half of the couple won’t have sex with the single fem. so basically they want a single fem to lick and suck them and get fuck all in return!
3. As soon as someone says they are hunting a unicorn.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I'm honest, I hated being referred to as a "unicorn" when I was a single bi woman.
It's very easy to feel like a sec toy when meeting couples as a single lady.
Just my personal feelings of course.
Hope you find what you're looking for though guys  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Again no offence meant we saw the term used 35 times on these forums and didn't read into it
I can't edit this thread so take this as an apology"
No need! I'm not offended by the term...and I'm not single these days so doesn't apply to me anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I guess i could be classed as a unicorn but i wouldnt meet someone looking for one as id feel pressured into being a performing monkey. That terminology is really offputting.
We are not rare, or to be revered, we are just ordinary humans like everyone else and should be treated as such.
This!!!!! Is so true!!!!!
I’m a single female - and nothing puts me off more than being hunted and used for the following:
1. Their first experience - ugh nothing worse than the hype and pressure of this on a single fem
2. Being their entertainment for the night/evening or what ever! (I’ve a couple who hunt me regularly and they list - that the female half of a couple won’t do fem oral and the male half of the couple won’t have sex with the single fem. so basically they want a single fem to lick and suck them and get fuck all in return!
3. As soon as someone says they are hunting a unicorn.
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Agreed can’t see why any single lady would be motivated to meet a couple if any of 1,2 or 3 came into the equation, we’ve always insisted on equal way dynamics |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Great pics, you look so happy! Suggest picking up MontyandCoco’s point and making it clear it’s an equal three way dynamic you’re looking for and detailing a couple of key boundaries to show you’ve thought it through. Or paint a brief picture of how you’d like a meet to progress. Then put that much further up the profile. There are many many couples looking for a girl-girl interaction while the guy watches, or a loosely conceived bi side ‘exploration’ without having put any thought into how it might work, how they’ll feel, what the single woman gets out of it. The more you can do to signpost your not THAT couple the better.
Good luck! |
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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago
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For what it’s worth, I never play with women who describe themselves as “bi-curious.”
I don’t want to turn up, get naked, and the woman goes “actually, I’ve decided I’m not curious about women any more.” It’s a waste of my time.
Either you like women and you want to have sex with them... or you don’t. I don’t want people who sit on the fence. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any suggestions on how to improve our search for a unicorn ( very very rare )
Any and all tips appreciated
Thank you "
This site is full of Unicorns, they aren't rare at all! They are even on kids lunch boxes these days, ridiculous! |
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