Hi all, it's my first time at a swingers club tomorrow !!
Ive been told to wear boxers and flip flops, it's the bbw at chams, is swimming shorts ok??
I am an introvert, not very outgoing at all, so a bit nervous but excited.
I havnt socialised for a long time so this is a big thing for me, so if you see a tall man trembling next to the bar, be kind!!!! |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"Hi all, it's my first time at a swingers club tomorrow !!
Ive been told to wear boxers and flip flops, it's the bbw at chams, is swimming shorts ok??
I am an introvert, not very outgoing at all, so a bit nervous but excited.
I havnt socialised for a long time so this is a big thing for me, so if you see a tall man trembling next to the bar, be kind!!!!"
I tend to wear swimming trunks or a towel. Others sometimes even go fully naked!
If you see myself or my partner in crime don't be shy, just say hi!  |
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I've (Mr A) always wondered about this too. I don't really fancy wandering around with my tackle flopping about (especially as it's not me who would actually be playing), but was never sure if it was bad etiquette to wear anything! |
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The key is to be brave and push your self to make friendly conversation with strangers. If your like me it's hard. But this is where you need to let logic override fear. You really have nothing to lose, what's the worse that can happen by chatting to people? And you'll probably find people are genrally very nice. Obvisoly not everyone will want to talk and you may not be everyones cup of tea, but you have to take the rough with the smooth. But the more you do it the better and more confident you'll get at it and maybe start to make a few freinds. Just be brave, socialise, don't be one of those guys that hangs around in the shadows not talking to anyone. |
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