Seen a phrase on here recently that seems to be becoming more and more relevant on fab "not here to fuck the whole site", we appreciate what Fab is but nothing puts us off more than an instant friend request and a message asking if we're free tonight... Get to know us! I'm sure most people on here would prefer a connection to someone before playtime starts but what is it with people assuming that y because we're on fab we must want to play with them! Any advice or other experiences? |
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"Chill...
If Fab is getting frustrating, maybe you need a break.
You need to be able to ignore the random friend requests and laugh at the crap messages."
Wise words of wisdom, from the lovely lady... |
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As a single woman I get several ‘you free now?’ messages a day. I generally respond that I am indeed free all day, then block them. It’s a certain kind of fab man - thinks they’re owed a shag cos they’re here. Ignore and block because you’ll get a lot of similar messages. |
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"Chill...
If Fab is getting frustrating, maybe you need a break.
You need to be able to ignore the random friend requests and laugh at the crap messages."
We love fab and maybe that's the problem, we're happy to chat but can't tell if we expect to much of the social aspect or if other expect too much of the sexual
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Never had a problem over receiving “are you free now?” Etc messages
It’s a swinging site for swinging, don’t get why anyone gets offended by these type of messages unless they are rude or gross. Some people are looking to play and have fun, no harm in politely asking, doesn’t mean they have a sense of entitlement. People advertise on here and then moan about the responses x |
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Don't mind the are we free now messages now and again we are looking for quick meet hate the out of blue friend requests though especially when they have no pictures in profile how stupid do they think we are |
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"Seen a phrase on here recently that seems to be becoming more and more relevant on fab "not here to fuck the whole site", we appreciate what Fab is but nothing puts us off more than an instant friend request and a message asking if we're free tonight... Get to know us! I'm sure most people on here would prefer a connection to someone before playtime starts but what is it with people assuming that y because we're on fab we must want to play with them! Any advice or other experiences? "
We are the same....those messages are an instant turn off to us. I often wonder if we are into the social side as much as the playing side and maybe it's not quite right for us....the last few weeks, I haven't wanted to play at all really and like you say, it seems to assumed you want to all the time, at the drop of a hat.....  frustrating place as "the planets have to align" for all concerned 
We'll keep on keeping on for now & see how we feel...good luck
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I was browsing google the other day and found a survey about the ratio of men to women on here
60% men
40% women
the survey was done this year
I am sure men get the same kind of message from us women.
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"Never had a problem over receiving “are you free now?” Etc messages
It’s a swinging site for swinging, don’t get why anyone gets offended by these type of messages unless they are rude or gross. Some people are looking to play and have fun, no harm in politely asking, doesn’t mean they have a sense of entitlement. People advertise on here and then moan about the responses x"
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