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First post here and just wanting to guidance to a situation I occasionally find myself in.
I often go running in a local country park in the evenings and occasionally I come across a couple who are giving off vibes that they may be looking for an audience. However I'm clearly not going to whack my cock out and they aren't just going to start getting to it without some mutual understanding.
I know this is probably a stupid question but are there any signals or actions we could subtly take to show our intentions? Something that will not be taken the wrong way if I misjudged?
Any thoughts?
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"First post here and just wanting to guidance to a situation I occasionally find myself in.
I often go running in a local country park in the evenings and occasionally I come across a couple who are giving off vibes that they may be looking for an audience. However I'm clearly not going to whack my cock out and they aren't just going to start getting to it without some mutual understanding.
I know this is probably a stupid question but are there any signals or actions we could subtly take to show our intentions? Something that will not be taken the wrong way if I misjudged?
Any thoughts?
Thanks"
Well yes two fingers isn't a good sign and skirt hitched up past the thighs is  |
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"When you say "giving off vibes" what do you mean?
Yeah, I was wondering that. Maybe suspenders on the man and cock pics in the ladies hand ? "
I ask because sometimes it's quite easy to view other people's actions through the lens of your own fantasies or thoughts. Situations like this are fraught with the possibility of misinterpretation and cause for offence. I'd say wait for a clear sign rather than a vibe |
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"When you say "giving off vibes" what do you mean?
Yeah, I was wondering that. Maybe suspenders on the man and cock pics in the ladies hand ?
I ask because sometimes it's quite easy to view other people's actions through the lens of your own fantasies or thoughts. Situations like this are fraught with the possibility of misinterpretation and cause for offence. I'd say wait for a clear sign rather than a vibe"
Yeah I agree. You could get in horrendously wrong. |
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"When you say "giving off vibes" what do you mean?
Yeah, I was wondering that. Maybe suspenders on the man and cock pics in the ladies hand ?
I ask because sometimes it's quite easy to view other people's actions through the lens of your own fantasies or thoughts. Situations like this are fraught with the possibility of misinterpretation and cause for offence. I'd say wait for a clear sign rather than a vibe"
Exactly. Because of this massive probability of misinterpretation I'm not going to do anything without a clear sign, I was just wondering if I was missing that sign. Guess not 
Last time it was couple who turned up just after carpark gates closed, no dog, went short distance into park then hung around for while in same spot. Lady had skirt (nothing showy but still rare for the park), kept looking and smiling as I past. So nothing big really but unusual. Almost certainly nothing.
"Check on fabswingers "see who's near" and see if any pics/descriptions match  "
Haha yes . Maybe that's why the guy had his face stuck in his phone -lol |
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"When you say "giving off vibes" what do you mean?
Yeah, I was wondering that. Maybe suspenders on the man and cock pics in the ladies hand ? "
He was carrying a sky remote |
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"When you say "giving off vibes" what do you mean?
Yeah, I was wondering that. Maybe suspenders on the man and cock pics in the ladies hand ?
He was carrying a sky remote"
Ha ha ha ha |
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I have the same thoughts when in a lay by with lorries parked
Obviously in a short dress and heels it's all a bit risky
But the big question is how do you attract interest from the said truckers ? |
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"I have the same thoughts when in a lay by with lorries parked
Obviously in a short dress and heels it's all a bit risky
But the big question is how do you attract interest from the said truckers ? "
Hang a thong on your CB Ariel ?? |
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There is no universal swingers sign, secret handshake or plant in the front garden.....and sometimes a person you meet out and about may wish to smile, wink or even flirt without intending to go any further. A little mischievous eye contact can make someone's lunch break.
That said, you can try "who's near" and see if they are both near and browsing fab....and then if they are interested, perhaps they will do likewise and spot your profile. But even then it may just be a knowing wink.
On a couple of occasions I've been in a supermarket queue and seen someone browsing Fab. I also once recognised a lady in Aldi that I'd been chatting to, saw she was with a man and therefore didn't communicate with her in any way. She looked scared....and I later learned hubby didn't know she was on fab. You can often never be too careful....while I wouldn't choose to play with that lady due to her cheating, it is also not my place to cause a scene between her and hubby in the supermarket. |
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