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Anal ?? Can it cause damage?
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over a year ago
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Okay  Verr here,
Ann ABSOLUTELY LOVES anal, she would take it every single day if she could.
BUT!! She watches something on TV were the girl said that after having regular Anal with her partner
HER ARSE MUSCLES COLLAPSED hahaha
And now she can’t control her bowel movements ???
So now she’s scared of it it “just in case” hahaha
I say BULLSHIT but what would you say??
Any Experience like this?
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Yes anal can eventually cause your sphincter muscles to collapse therefore leaving you incontinent BUT it’s rare!
It’s usually when you have guys and gals having their anus stretched on the daily, whether through penetrative sex with multiple partners or the same partner several times a day, or due to sex work.
If she’s paranoid she probably doesn’t need to be but you can work the muscle to ensure it stays tight. Muscles are just like any others.
If she does kegel, she can sphincter |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes anal can eventually cause your sphincter muscles to collapse therefore leaving you incontinent BUT it’s rare!
It’s usually when you have guys and gals having their anus stretched on the daily, whether through penetrative sex with multiple partners or the same partner several times a day, or due to sex work.
This is my favourite answer thank you
If she’s paranoid she probably doesn’t need to be but you can work the muscle to ensure it stays tight. Muscles are just like any others.
If she does kegel, she can sphincter "
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"I've been getting big cock fucked up my ass for about 35 years , also been fisted a few times and took dp ass
There's nothing wrong with my sphincter and I'm still a tight fuck so I'm told lol "
YES!!!!!! Xxx |
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Yes, it can happen and no, it’s not as rare as you’d think.
A surgeon friend of mine said that if you think of the anal sphincter muscle as an elective waistband in your favourite pair of leggings. It can withstand the normal use that it was designed for but start sharing them with a friends who’s significantly larger, the waistband will start to become loose! |
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"Yes, it can happen and no, it’s not as rare as you’d think.
A surgeon friend of mine said that if you think of the anal sphincter muscle as an elective waistband in your favourite pair of leggings. It can withstand the normal use that it was designed for but start sharing them with a friends who’s significantly larger, the waistband will start to become loose! "
Yeah that’s a fair one x |
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"I've been getting big cock fucked up my ass for about 35 years , also been fisted a few times and took dp ass
There's nothing wrong with my sphincter and I'm still a tight fuck so I'm told lol "
I once fisted a very sexy, closet, TV. I always wanted to ask her if she could still poo normally but didn’t want to spoil the moment. Thank you for answering my question. |
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Having done human pathology as part of my degree I can say that it's totally correct. The anus is only a one oneway valve and when it's damaged that's it it is damaged unfortunately. What follows is incontinence... |
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"Yes, it can happen and no, it’s not as rare as you’d think.
A surgeon friend of mine said that if you think of the anal sphincter muscle as an elective waistband in your favourite pair of leggings. It can withstand the normal use that it was designed for but start sharing them with a friends who’s significantly larger, the waistband will start to become loose! "
A brilliant analogy!! So remembering this one!  |
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"I've been getting big cock fucked up my ass for about 35 years , also been fisted a few times and took dp ass
There's nothing wrong with my sphincter and I'm still a tight fuck so I'm told lol "
Everyone I’ve ever known who’s truly loved anal has always been that relaxed and turned on that it just slips up without any effort. You could hardly describe it as tight. |
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The sphincters are muscles, and like any muscles If they are exercised with care they will stretch and then go back to 'normal'. I've been occasionally receiving large toys over 22 years and have been fisted a few times... And my toilet functions are still normal.
To cause the muscles to tear you'd have to do something pretty brutal. |
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"The sphincters are muscles, and like any muscles If they are exercised with care they will stretch and then go back to 'normal'. I've been occasionally receiving large toys over 22 years and have been fisted a few times... And my toilet functions are still normal.
To cause the muscles to tear you'd have to do something pretty brutal. "
The heart is a muscle and this can actually, like any others, be over exercised and then doesn't work the same 
And muscles can be torn doing simple things unfortunately... think of any strain |
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The sphincter muscle might become stretched if you were doing anal a lot, or inserting large objects up there on a regular basis. Once that sphincter is too stretched to become tight again, the result would be faecal incontinence. So long as you don't overdo it, I wouldn't have though anal sex would be likely to cause that to happen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’ve just started to love anal ! This has scared me a bit to be honest. It makes sense though - at first I hated a finger , but now quite happy taking a cock, and that’s with training my ass ! |
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"The sphincter muscle might become stretched if you were doing anal a lot, or inserting large objects up there on a regular basis. Once that sphincter is too stretched to become tight again, the result would be faecal incontinence. So long as you don't overdo it, I wouldn't have though anal sex would be likely to cause that to happen."
it could be the natural process of ageing
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"The sphincter muscle might become stretched if you were doing anal a lot, or inserting large objects up there on a regular basis. Once that sphincter is too stretched to become tight again, the result would be faecal incontinence. So long as you don't overdo it, I wouldn't have though anal sex would be likely to cause that to happen.it could be the natural process of ageing "
Be an interesting research project!!  |
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"Yes, it can happen and no, it’s not as rare as you’d think.
A surgeon friend of mine said that if you think of the anal sphincter muscle as an elective waistband in your favourite pair of leggings. It can withstand the normal use that it was designed for but start sharing them with a friends who’s significantly larger, the waistband will start to become loose! "
Both of us have regular anal sex and the waistbands on our clothes are fine. |
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"I've been getting big cock fucked up my ass for about 35 years , also been fisted a few times and took dp ass
There's nothing wrong with my sphincter and I'm still a tight fuck so I'm told lol
Everyone I’ve ever known who’s truly loved anal has always been that relaxed and turned on that it just slips up without any effort. You could hardly describe it as tight. "
depends how much girth you've got as to level of tightness |
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Nope it’s not bull it can happen to folk, prolapse of the sphincter muscles can happen from anal sex as well as pregnancy and other conditions, aggressive anal sex and not being relaxed during anal sex is the most likely cause of it to happen where muscles get damaged because they’re under extreme pressure, it can be reversible, folk who have bowel problems where there is already problems around the area are higher risk |
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Many years ago I had an Italian girlfriend who was really interested in anal. We never got round to it and in fact I’ve never done it.
She asked her doctor who told her that if it was something she wanted and was relaxed about it, plenty of lube and a patient considerate partner then there was no real risk.
He added however that there were many Italian women having corrective surgery where it had been demanded or forced by their husbands.
Twenty years ago!
I suspect there is more interest / demand due to porn? |
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"Yes, it can happen and no, it’s not as rare as you’d think.
A surgeon friend of mine said that if you think of the anal sphincter muscle as an elective waistband in your favourite pair of leggings. It can withstand the normal use that it was designed for but start sharing them with a friends who’s significantly larger, the waistband will start to become loose!
Both of us have regular anal sex and the waistbands on our clothes are fine."
Fucking hell, just spat coffee all over my nice new phone at that one! |
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"I’ve just read this whole thread whilst clenching my muscles tight! I liked anal until this thread
You and me both!...Exit only from now on!...lol.."
Ha ha, I’m not ruling it out completely |
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"I’ve just read this whole thread whilst clenching my muscles tight! I liked anal until this thread
You and me both!...Exit only from now on!...lol.."
Lol mine's a one valve and happy to stay that way! |
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Yes anal prolapse is a thing but it's far more likely for people that dont stretch and use an appropriate amount of lube. Dry, unprepared anal is a fools game.
Fyi you can also do exercises to keep you nice and tight back there, just like kegels |
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"I’ve just read this whole thread whilst clenching my muscles tight! I liked anal until this thread
You and me both!...Exit only from now on!...lol..
Lol mine's a one valve and happy to stay that way! "
One way* |
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"I've been getting big cock fucked up my ass for about 35 years , also been fisted a few times and took dp ass
There's nothing wrong with my sphincter and I'm still a tight fuck so I'm told lol "
They're talking about your wallet!! Lol. |
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Our body is a wonderful system that's repairing itself as well as adjusting to the the new stresses and environment that we're within - usually to good effect. Any part of us that is subject to excessive force/stress can be injured of course, including just tissue, or muscles/bone. Receiving anal sex we engage with muscles, as well as delicate areas of tissue - we may get small tears, bruises or damage that's slower to recover. It's not typical that anal recipients get prolapses though 
For the healthiest anal sex, both the giver and receiver is always sensitive to what's going - it's not like having some roadworker blasting a road with a jackhammer. As you're a couple op, I assume that most of your anal has been pretty sensitive and you would have modified your approach, should there ever have been problems. If you continue with the same approach, you'll likely to continue enjoying it.
TV lives off including extremes, whether it's Jeremy Kyle, sex or surgery-gone-wrong type shows. Often the people are not typical of the general population, or the show covers them in such a way that magnifies/distorts what's happened.
I'd speak with the staff at GUM clinic, to get further advice, is I was concerned. |
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"Okay Verr here,
Ann ABSOLUTELY LOVES anal, she would take it every single day if she could.
BUT!! She watches something on TV were the girl said that after having regular Anal with her partner
HER ARSE MUSCLES COLLAPSED hahaha
And now she can’t control her bowel movements ???
So now she’s scared of it it “just in case” hahaha
I say BULLSHIT but what would you say??
Any Experience like this?
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*bullshit* was probably not a good word to use about such things - *mouseshit* may have been better
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If it’s forced it will cause damage, it’s normally an anal tear or fistula normally not too damaging but if it’s a big tear it can put your life at risk
Anal sex with lube isn’t likely to do any more damage than making you slightly loose
But fisting and extreme toys are more likely to give you a prolapse and a chance of Faecal incontinence but some can do loads of extremely anal play with no troubles I’ve seen a man with what looks like a sausage hanging out his bum before yes still wanted to play. |
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"Okay Verr here,
Ann ABSOLUTELY LOVES anal, she would take it every single day if she could.
BUT!! She watches something on TV were the girl said that after having regular Anal with her partner
HER ARSE MUSCLES COLLAPSED hahaha
And now she can’t control her bowel movements ???
So now she’s scared of it it “just in case” hahaha
I say BULLSHIT but what would you say??
Any Experience like this?
*bullshit* was probably not a good word to use about such things - *mouseshit* may have been better
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or rocking horse poop |
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"The sphincter muscle might become stretched if you were doing anal a lot, or inserting large objects up there on a regular basis. Once that sphincter is too stretched to become tight again, the result would be faecal incontinence. So long as you don't overdo it, I wouldn't have though anal sex would be likely to cause that to happen.it could be the natural process of ageing
Be an interesting research project!! "
If you would like to be my research subject.........
Just saying |
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