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By *andm300 OP   Man  over a year ago

guildford

I (him) am concerned about wasting people’s time on here. My wife has a few really horny days a month we’re she is up for going to a club or party for indulging in some soft fun. The rest of the month she is not really interested in the lifestyle at all. I am not sure how I should communicate this on our profile.

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By *innie The MinxWoman  over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Make it clear on your profile you're only here for club/party meets.

Adjust all your filters so you don't get endless messages to meet, or hide your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I (him) am concerned about wasting people’s time on here. My wife has a few really horny days a month we’re she is up for going to a club or party for indulging in some soft fun. The rest of the month she is not really interested in the lifestyle at all. I am not sure how I should communicate this on our profile."

you run your profile how you both wish and you meet when you both wish too

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By *irl1234xxxWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool

This is refreshing! I could not be bothered at all with the exception of literally two days out of the month (mid cycle usually!). Thought it was just me!

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By *essons in LustCouple  over a year ago

huddersfield

Loads of people are like this as real life affects how you feel .

We’re def like this too and just say so if you want to as you don’t owe anyone anything .

Sometimes happens when you’re on your way to a club ....after telling people you’ll be there something happens at home to change your mood and you’re not feeling it

It’s tricky isn’t it ?

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

Just put something like "we're only available a couple of days a month" no need to explain why. Then arrange meets on those days.

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By *ilth500Man  over a year ago

Merseyside


"This is refreshing! I could not be bothered at all with the exception of literally two days out of the month (mid cycle usually!). Thought it was just me! "

those two days are....

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By *andm300 OP   Man  over a year ago

guildford

Thanks all for the help. Nice to get some feedback/ reassurance.

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By *ltcouple666Couple  over a year ago

cheshire


"I (him) am concerned about wasting people’s time on here. My wife has a few really horny days a month we’re she is up for going to a club or party for indulging in some soft fun. The rest of the month she is not really interested in the lifestyle at all. I am not sure how I should communicate this on our profile."

Oh wow yes....I also go through this....lots of days, I love this lifestyle but equally, lots of days, I can't think of anything worse I thought I was just a complicated sod though so thank God it's not just me

I guess when you chat to people just say you're not meeting all the time, the ones worth meeting will be fine with that

K x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I hide my profile when I don't have the time or the inclination sometimes for months lol

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