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over a year ago
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Happened once and it wasn't a great experience. Think it majorly depends who with and how comfortable with those people you are.
Pushing a little bit in the interest of curiosity I think is a good thing, but if its has been clearly stated no, then I would cut a session at that point and walk away.
One of my boundaries is currently no play with guys. I know for a fact I will never be that way inclined. It does however make me hesitatant to try couples. I have a FWB who is willing to go on a couples meet with me and she is bi. Just not sure of the dynamics of it all yet.
Godsake I'm too much of a virgin to swinging... Haha |
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I have on my other account (couples acc)
Was a straight mmf. I stayed straight away that I wasn’t into anal and he went for it anyway.
Long story short, I meet him alone now and he’s taught me how to love it!
So boundary pushing went well this time  |
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"I have on my other account (couples acc)
Was a straight mmf. I stayed straight away that I wasn’t into anal and he went for it anyway.
Long story short, I meet him alone now and he’s taught me how to love it!
So boundary pushing went well this time "
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
It has happened occasionally when meeting other couples but we have always been quite clear that our boundaries are not up for discussion on the night.
Sometimes it is good to push boundaries but it should always be done with respect and only when everybody is ready and feels comfortable. |
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I rather like having mine pushed all be it gently, trying new things is never a bad thing (is it ?) Although I have never had the issue of anyone trying to push too hard; maybe it happens more with ladies and couples; I don't know ! |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
Near Marlborough |
I also enjoy having my boundaries pushed by a person a trust implicitly and only when I feel like I want to.
Pushing me to somewhere I don’t want to go is never going to end well for the other person. I’m not easy to push around
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Happened once and it wasn't a great experience. Think it majorly depends who with and how comfortable with those people you are.
Pushing a little bit in the interest of curiosity I think is a good thing, but if its has been clearly stated no, then I would cut a session at that point and walk away.
One of my boundaries is currently no play with guys. I know for a fact I will never be that way inclined. It does however make me hesitatant to try couples. I have a FWB who is willing to go on a couples meet with me and she is bi. Just not sure of the dynamics of it all yet.
Godsake I'm too much of a virgin to swinging... Haha"
Bro totally agree lad I'll be keen for a mmf meet but no I wouldn't touch another man haha. Not for me... |
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"Id try most things once and if i don't like it wont do it again
Dont knock it if youve not done it
But there are still boundaries "
There are some things people don't want to try, and they're allowed to not try or like it. |
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