Had an unusual meeting a couple of weeks ago when the wife became very jealous because she thought I was giving her hubby more attention than her.
We started with the wife being pleasured by both of us until she came a few times then I started sucking her husband (while still fingering her) I wanted to make the husband cum so I was sucking him for a good few minutes, next thing I knew, she got up and put on her dressing gown and went downstairs without saying anything, her hubby went to see what's wrong and came back to tell me what was wrong, long story short, it resulted in my having to leave their home because apparently she was feeling neglected ???
Has anyone else experienced anything like this?
Thankfully I'm getting an opportunity to meet the hubby again in the week while she's at work to finish him off. |
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There are two aspects to this.
Firstly jealousy has no place in swinging. If a couple is insecure or does not enjoy seeing their partner with another person they shouldn't be in the lifestyle.
The second is that when three or more people play it's important that no one feels excluded. It's usually the other way around where the woman gets all the attention. Communication is very important in these situations.
You did the right thing OP. Couples need to define their boundaries and stick to them. |
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After a good session with another man taking turns fucking my wife, she feels relieved when he and I turn our attentions to ourselves, says it gives her a break and time to recover. |
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"After a good session with another man taking turns fucking my wife, she feels relieved when he and I turn our attentions to ourselves, says it gives her a break and time to recover."
To me that's the perfect scenario |
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"Had an unusual meeting a couple of weeks ago when the wife became very jealous because she thought I was giving her hubby more attention than her.
We started with the wife being pleasured by both of us until she came a few times then I started sucking her husband (while still fingering her) I wanted to make the husband cum so I was sucking him for a good few minutes, next thing I knew, she got up and put on her dressing gown and went downstairs without saying anything, her hubby went to see what's wrong and came back to tell me what was wrong, long story short, it resulted in my having to leave their home because apparently she was feeling neglected ???
Has anyone else experienced anything like this?
Thankfully I'm getting an opportunity to meet the hubby again in the week while she's at work to finish him off."
So, does she know you are meeting her husband or is that meeting without her knowledge? |
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So, does she know you are meeting her husband or is that meeting without her knowledge?
I shall leave that up to her husband if he chooses to tell her."
My husband was so called bi but is now living as a gay man, I really think this god a lot deeper, firstly if she does have the thought her husband is gay her emotional states not going to be good, she will be ultra sensitive to his actions and his desires, it sounded like you got on a bit too well to meet up privately, he is obviously after more to do that plus deceitful to his partner
Sounds like she has quite a problem, if you want to be a decent bloke keep out of it, anyone saying it’s jealousy or unfair doesn’t know what the woman is going though, and if it is like my experience she will be going though absolute hell |
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So, does she know you are meeting her husband or is that meeting without her knowledge?
I shall leave that up to her husband if he chooses to tell her."
Not really
You met them as a couple, respect them as a couple |
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Sounds like they had some issues to work out that shouldn't have come into the bedroom. Generally I've not experienced anything like this in a bi mmf scenario. |
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I'd say she's struggling with the reality of her guy's bi side rather than it being a case of you neglecting her.
You say you were still fingering her while giving him the bj so it's not as if she was twiddling her thumbs & being ignored.
To me, honesty, openess & communication between a couple is the basis of a good relationship. Even more necessary when swinging! Sounds like they have underlying issues going on which doesn't bode well if she then discovers you & he met seperately.
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"There are two aspects to this.
Firstly jealousy has no place in swinging. If a couple is insecure or does not enjoy seeing their partner with another person they shouldn't be in the lifestyle.
The second is that when three or more people play it's important that no one feels excluded. It's usually the other way around where the woman gets all the attention. Communication is very important in these situations.
You did the right thing OP. Couples need to define their boundaries and stick to them."
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"I'd say she's struggling with the reality of her guy's bi side rather than it being a case of you neglecting her.
You say you were still fingering her while giving him the bj so it's not as if she was twiddling her thumbs & being ignored.
To me, honesty, openess & communication between a couple is the basis of a good relationship. Even more necessary when swinging! Sounds like they have underlying issues going on which doesn't bode well if she then discovers you & he met seperately.
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I see your point with that, originally I had met the guy alone at a 2nd meeting but with his wife's knowledge after a none sexual social meet with them both together for the first meet, it was the 3rd meeting we had the 3 some, I will speak to him and say I would rather his wife knew if we where going to meet again |
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