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I’ve been part of fab for 7 months now as a single guy and all I seem to get is exactly what I don’t want, to be more specific: attention from single males or men dressed as women. I’ve blocked being able to be contacted by either but they still can, how and why is this?
Secondly I can easily get 30/40 views in a day and no messages. People seem to assume I’m very popular on this site but I’m extremely close to leaving because my sex life isn’t too different since joining this..
If you’ve taken the time to read this thanks, if you’ve replied, legend x |
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To be honest.. i would delete your message before even reading it purely down to the cock profile pic...and 32 pictures of your cock in public album. We really dont need that, its faaaaar to many. If your really need a cock shot 1 or 2 at most.
I'm also assuming your lady friend has consented to you using those pictures? |
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Any guys who messaged you before you set your filters, will still be able to message you. Just block their profiles if you’re not interested 
Transfer all your cock pics to your friends gallery, and just leave that face pic as your profile pic and only public pic. There’s an awful lot of reference to your cock in your profile text, so anyone interested in seeing it (or playing with it), will contact you
Post up a couple of clothed pics; women like pics with clothes in, men like pics with cocks in
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve been part of fab for 7 months now as a single guy and all I seem to get is exactly what I don’t want, to be more specific: attention from single males or men dressed as women. I’ve blocked being able to be contacted by either but they still can, how and why is this?
Secondly I can easily get 30/40 views in a day and no messages. People seem to assume I’m very popular on this site but I’m extremely close to leaving because my sex life isn’t too different since joining this..
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Firstly, who is assuming you are popular on this site, and what are the using to come to this conclusion if you have never had a meet, and secondly, going on your final sentence, this site isn't Instashag.com. You have only been here 7 months, which for one of many tens of thousands of single blokes is nothing (2 years and counting for me).
Singld guys who can't accomodate makes people suspicious straight away, and finally, being black doesn't automatically make the ladies cum into their gussets. First job is to lose the 37 knob pics, and as mentioned above, change the name, steer well clear of tribal references and stating that you work for the BBC. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am going to repeat what others have said - way too many cock pics, and the cum shot pics are not actually that attractive.
Also, if I wasn't already put off by the tons of cock pics, the bareback one would put me off for sure.
I have no idea what you've expected from this site when you joined, but it is not instashag.
I must say I haven't even looked at your profile text, as just the pics are enough for me to make up my mind. |
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By *offee with MilkCouple
over a year ago
Over the roundabout and then turn right. |
I always smile when someone enters the forum and asks "What am I doing wrong?" A quick forum search would throw up all the answers.
Then, after asking they disappear (3 days to date) even though they set a new status 17 hours ago and are "online now".
Despite the good advice offered they have done nothing to improve their profile, and still wonder why they don't get meets.
Amazing.
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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago
Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire |
"I’ve been part of fab for 7 months now as a single guy and all I seem to get is exactly what I don’t want, to be more specific: attention from single males or men dressed as women. I’ve blocked being able to be contacted by either but they still can, how and why is this?
Secondly I can easily get 30/40 views in a day and no messages. People seem to assume I’m very popular on this site but I’m extremely close to leaving because my sex life isn’t too different since joining this..
If you’ve taken the time to read this thanks, if you’ve replied, legend x"
Fab requires patience, perseverance and some common sense.
Porn is not real. So women do not turn into drooling morons when they see a dick pic.
Be original, use common sense and focus more on who you are and what you bring to the table.
Best of luck
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From years of experience on here we have found that the guys who are obsessed with their own cock are usually exactly that, a cock.
That may or may not be the case with the OP. But we really wouldn't risk wasting the time to find out.
So, based on your profile and pics, it would be a big no from us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Secondly I can easily get 30/40 views in a day and no messages. People seem to assume I’m very popular on this site but I’m extremely close to leaving because my sex life isn’t too different since joining this..
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see this as a shop. sometimes you walk by look in the shop window and think, shall i go in and you look an it isnt for you.
i get views on my profile and some message me some dont, but it doesn't bother me as i see it as a shop and its a buyers prerogative.
enjoy your day x |
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