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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So you're arranging a weekend daytime social and have arranged for the kids to go to your mums, who has no idea you're on this scene (and you want to keep it that way!)
Of course she is curious, so where can you tell her you're going?
What are your best alibis to tell the babysitter?
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"So you're arranging a weekend daytime social and have arranged for the kids to go to your mums, who has no idea you're on this scene (and you want to keep it that way!)
Of course she is curious, so where can you tell her you're going?
What are your best alibis to tell the babysitter?
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Make a joke of it, tell her your sex life has got stale so you and hubby are meeting another couple with the hope of having sex with them.
If you say it in the right way she'll say yeah right of course you are.
Or say if you told her you'd have to kill her 
Or boringly you're meeting old friends you haven't seen for years to catch up. |
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I'd use meeting with an older close friend (s), as it gives an explanation for being visible in public, allows you flexibility as you all know each other so well that you could improvise and do something extra together, extending the duration. You'd also know each other well enough to cancel if something came up - useful if the social doesn't work or happen.
My real friends take us on mystery outings, so I never know where I'll be at. If yours did this, it also adds a flexibility with ignorance until later. |
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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago
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We have used all sorts of excuses! Going to a rave 5 hours away, going to a friend's wedding, going to a Halloween party in town(That's not actually a lie, it was a Halloween party, but at a swingers club), Just going for drinks to catch up with friends, weekend away with friends... |
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We say we are going to a Casino, normally a poker tournament. It justifies no mobile phones, days, late nights, alcohol, no alcohol, nice clothes, staying out a long time, driving to other City's, etc etc. The perfect excuse or alibi. |
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We always tell mother we are meeting up with friends coming down from Brum or we are having some time together. Shes great and never asks anymore about it
And she don't know we are on here at all or that the wife's even bi |
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""I'm in my forties, not 14"?"
Thats a tad defensive to say they're only querying where we're going. Its not like we're asking permission to go.
"We always tell mother we are meeting up with friends coming down from Brum"
Yeah we were going to say something like that but we're already using the same excuse in the same week.
"Make a joke of it, tell her your sex life has got stale so you and hubby are meeting another couple with the hope of having sex with them."
Haha yeah, I wouldnt DARE use that one !!
Lots of good ideas folks, and thanks. Some we can never use because its just not our lifestyle (poker/casino, raves etc), and they know it, but it encourages the old grey matter thinking 'out of the box'. By coincidence, we're actually going to use a variant of the truth, as suggested. But thats only because circumstances on THIS occasion allow it.  |
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Me and my partner normally put say we're off to the Spa when we're off to a club to freind and family watching our respective kids. The normal response is 'ah, that's nice, great your finding some time for each other alone'. Little do they know, at least the lie is half true. |
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