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Should I try and fuck my mates bird?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Basically a good friend of mine who I've known for years has fucked me over when it comes to girls a few times over the years. One particular one really got to me. It was a girl I was chasing for years and I thought I had a chance. He knew I liked her and he started messaging her on a dating site. Either way it fucked things up for me and I had to cut that girl out of my life. Obviously bros come before hoes etc but that's not always the case with him. Either way I feel like I owe him one and I'd be satisfied by fucking his girl behind his back.
The funny thing is I think she might be up for it! Just subtle little hints and things have got me sniffing around.
The first time I met her was when they hadn't been going out for long. He had a house party to introduce her to everyone. She was pretty d*unk and somehow got into conversation something about turning me round and fucking me with a strap on! It was said as a threat but I get the feeling she might know something about me!
Another time I met her was out in town and we ended up at the bar together getting the drinks in. Either way she randomly brought into conversation about a fair where you hook a dildo instead of hooking a duck and again the way she said it seemed like she was testing my reaction.
There have been other slightly flirty looks and motions but those are the main two. I've not met her many times but I just get this feeling she wants to fuck me... Literally! Haha. What should I do to make that happen? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You two are not friends. "
Totally see where you are coming from but we kind of are good friends haha. It obviously doesn't sound like it from this post. But that's just the way my f'd up mind works. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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There's more to it than I can say. The big one with the girl I was after for years we talked it out and he admitted he was in the wrong. The way I see it is if a girl goes for my mate over me then she doesn't really want me.
A side note is that he cheated on this girl hes with now when they first started seeing eachother which is a bit awkward. Soni think me fucking her would just level everything out haha.
Sorry if this offends anyone by the way. My life isn't perfect but I'm just here to enjoy it the best way I can! Even if it means me being a horrible twat sometimes |
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By *oyRoy06Man
over a year ago
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Well whatever your reasons are to still be mates ... and your justifications ie him already cheating on her ... it seems you're already thinking that way and are just here for someone to validate it rather than to consider opinions as to why you shouldn't |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well whatever your reasons are to still be mates ... and your justifications ie him already cheating on her ... it seems you're already thinking that way and are just here for someone to validate it rather than to consider opinions as to why you shouldn't"
I think that's pretty spot on to be fair.  |
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She has twice now hinted that she wants to fuck your ass and you sound like your game for it. Just go the whole hog with your mate and her for a bi mmf session. I know you say in your profile your not looking for guys but I suspect you want the cock mate or something up yer arse  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"She has twice now hinted that she wants to fuck your ass and you sound like your game for it. Just go the whole hog with your mate and her for a bi mmf session. I know you say in your profile your not looking for guys but I suspect you want the cock mate or something up yer arse "
I am game for it but definitely just with her. I have no attraction to men. It's just not my thing. |
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By *ip73Man
over a year ago
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"She has twice now hinted that she wants to fuck your ass and you sound like your game for it. Just go the whole hog with your mate and her for a bi mmf session. I know you say in your profile your not looking for guys but I suspect you want the cock mate or something up yer arse
I am game for it but definitely just with her. I have no attraction to men. It's just not my thing."
Till she gets you there tied to the bed and your mate fucks you |
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I agree. You should all get pissed together round at theirs and see where it leads. You don't have to be gay to try getting fucked by a guy. Your face buried in her pussy whilst he fucks you. Think how turned on she'd be! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think she has Kik now as far as I know people only have kik if they want to fuck haha. I'm thinking of sending her a message on that see what she's got to say. I won't let on that it's me though |
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"I think she has Kik now as far as I know people only have kik if they want to fuck haha. I'm thinking of sending her a message on that see what she's got to say. I won't let on that it's me though"
Says who?? You are totally thinking with your dick. Shame Jeremy Kyle has stopped - classic. |
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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago
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"Basically a good friend of mine who I've known for years has fucked me over when it comes to girls a few times over the years. One particular one really got to me. It was a girl I was chasing for years and I thought I had a chance. He knew I liked her and he started messaging her on a dating site. Either way it fucked things up for me and I had to cut that girl out of my life. Obviously bros come before hoes etc but that's not always the case with him. Either way I feel like I owe him one and I'd be satisfied by fucking his girl behind his back.
The funny thing is I think she might be up for it! Just subtle little hints and things have got me sniffing around.
The first time I met her was when they hadn't been going out for long. He had a house party to introduce her to everyone. She was pretty d*unk and somehow got into conversation something about turning me round and fucking me with a strap on! It was said as a threat but I get the feeling she might know something about me!
Another time I met her was out in town and we ended up at the bar together getting the drinks in. Either way she randomly brought into conversation about a fair where you hook a dildo instead of hooking a duck and again the way she said it seemed like she was testing my reaction.
There have been other slightly flirty looks and motions but those are the main two. I've not met her many times but I just get this feeling she wants to fuck me... Literally! Haha. What should I do to make that happen?"
My 2 cents
1. What you claim to have is not a friendship
2. This story sounds made up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you say you have forgiven him for slyly taking the girl he knew you liked you can't take back the forgiveness you have already given.
His gf has showed you some attention and you are just wanting to fuck his girlfriend and are looking for a reason to justify it and using the past to ease your guilt lol.
This is just my take on it obviously, I don't know you. I actually was all for doing it in revenge until you said you and he were actually mates. Just because you forgave him, doesn't mean he will be as forgiving to you. From how you explain, that hat just a girl you wanted that he took, this is a girl he is in a relationship with, it's different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry to say a friend that knows you like certain ladies and then repeatidly and actively goes after her himself (or cock blocking as I learned from a Key and Peele sketch) really doesn't sound much of a friend. |
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"Opinion seems to be split in two! Thanks for the replies"
It only takes one person to split opinions.
Whether it's an even split is another matter.
Either way not sure opinions really matter that much here. |
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"There's more to it than I can say. The big one with the girl I was after for years we talked it out and he admitted he was in the wrong. The way I see it is if a girl goes for my mate over me then she doesn't really want me.
A side note is that he cheated on this girl hes with now when they first started seeing eachother which is a bit awkward. Soni think me fucking her would just level everything out haha.
Sorry if this offends anyone by the way. My life isn't perfect but I'm just here to enjoy it the best way I can! Even if it means me being a horrible twat sometimes"
Why would you being a douche bag friend offend anyone here? Do what you like, fuck who you like but don't try and pretty it up as you being the better person by evening out the cheating in the couple. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's funny to see people's replies, I thought more would be up for me doing it and encourage it. I am trying to justify it and fucking her is something I really want to do. I don't want him to ever find out though I just want to know in my mind I'm one up on him. It's good to see that most people are the classic boring be nice to everyone types. |
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"It's funny to see people's replies, I thought more would be up for me doing it and encourage it. I am trying to justify it and fucking her is something I really want to do. I don't want him to ever find out though I just want to know in my mind I'm one up on him. It's good to see that most people are the classic boring be nice to everyone types. "
Just cos we are swingers doesn't mean we lack morals. I'd rather be a boring swinger than a crap pseudo friend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You could have approached this subject in many ways.
Although I think the responses you received would pretty much have been the same, no matter what excuses you gave to justify it.
The thread title is enough to immediately get people's hackles up.
It sounds more like you're mate and you think it's just some game.
I wonder what the women in question would think, if they read this.
So you're either really good mates that probably find that behaviour amusing.
Or like in previous comments, with mates like you. Who indeed needs enemies
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"I think she has Kik now as far as I know people only have kik if they want to fuck haha. I'm thinking of sending her a message on that see what she's got to say. I won't let on that it's me though"
thats cobblers about KIK i use it to message my son often!!!!!!  |
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"It's funny to see people's replies, I thought more would be up for me doing it and encourage it. I am trying to justify it and fucking her is something I really want to do. I don't want him to ever find out though I just want to know in my mind I'm one up on him. It's good to see that most people are the classic boring be nice to everyone types. "
There's nothing boring about being nice. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I am being a bit of a wanker and I know it. I did originally post this in stories and fantasies but it got moved for some reason. I'm having fun with this and provoking responses. |
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"It's funny to see people's replies, I thought more would be up for me doing it and encourage it. I am trying to justify it and fucking her is something I really want to do. I don't want him to ever find out though I just want to know in my mind I'm one up on him. It's good to see that most people are the classic boring be nice to everyone types. "
Being nice is boring now? Shit, I’m boring as fuck then (and happy to be). |
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"It's funny to see people's replies, I thought more would be up for me doing it and encourage it. I am trying to justify it and fucking her is something I really want to do. I don't want him to ever find out though I just want to know in my mind I'm one up on him. It's good to see that most people are the classic boring be nice to everyone types.
Being nice is boring now? Shit, I’m boring as fuck then (and happy to be). "
your OK there are plenty more of us boring gits on here!!!!!    |
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"I am being a bit of a wanker and I know it. I did originally post this in stories and fantasies but it got moved for some reason. I'm having fun with this and provoking responses."
So, to be clear, your OP is a story/fantasy? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Being nice is boring now? Shit, I’m boring as fuck then (and happy to be).
your OK there are plenty more of us boring gits on here!!!!! "
 
You're*
I'm being obnoxious. Seriously though I appreciate the advice. I thought I'd have more support but I honestly think it's a good thing to see more people putting me in my place than encouraging me. I'll test the water but I'll more than likely keep that little idea in the wank bank |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am being a bit of a wanker and I know it. I did originally post this in stories and fantasies but it got moved for some reason. I'm having fun with this and provoking responses.
So, to be clear, your OP is a story/fantasy?"
It's a story about something that actually happened and a fantasy of me seeking some kind of revenge. I wasn't sure where about to post it. I think it fits into either category of the forum to be fair. |
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"It's funny to see people's replies, I thought more would be up for me doing it and encourage it. I am trying to justify it and fucking her is something I really want to do. I don't want him to ever find out though I just want to know in my mind I'm one up on him. It's good to see that most people are the classic boring be nice to everyone types.
Being nice is boring now? Shit, I’m boring as fuck then (and happy to be).
your OK there are plenty more of us boring gits on here!!!!! "
Ok so glad. It’s nice to be nice |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Revenge rarely works out well. The fallout sucks. "
I don't want him to find out. I just want it to be between me and her. It must be some kind of power thing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sure you're really mates?
Isn't something I'd do with any of mine. "
Ignore actually trying to do it. But if you're mat s bird is fit or has something about her do you not have the urge to fuck her? Or at least wank about her? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Surely I'm not the only one on here that wants to fuck a friend's missus? Am I really that bad of a person? Haha"
Well then you can forgive and be understanding to your mate for fucking the girl you wanted then and move on |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"It's funny to see people's replies, I thought more would be up for me doing it and encourage it. I am trying to justify it and fucking her is something I really want to do. I don't want him to ever find out though I just want to know in my mind I'm one up on him. It's good to see that most people are the classic boring be nice to everyone types. "
It's not about being boring, it's about being mature and realising that sometimes it's better to let things lie. What if she turns you down and tells your 'mate'? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Surely I'm not the only one on here that wants to fuck a friend's missus? Am I really that bad of a person? Haha
Well then you can forgive and be understanding to your mate for fucking the girl you wanted then and move on "
If my mate goes after the same girl as me it's up to the girl who she wants. Just because we sorted the situation out doesn't mean I don't want to even things up a bit on the sly. It's funny seeing so many people on their high horse. Just keep kidding yourselves |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"Surely I'm not the only one on here that wants to fuck a friend's missus? Am I really that bad of a person? Haha
Well then you can forgive and be understanding to your mate for fucking the girl you wanted then and move on
If my mate goes after the same girl as me it's up to the girl who she wants. Just because we sorted the situation out doesn't mean I don't want to even things up a bit on the sly. It's funny seeing so many people on their high horse. Just keep kidding yourselves "
But if the girl chose him then he hasn't actually fucked you over, she just didn't want you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's funny to see people's replies, I thought more would be up for me doing it and encourage it. I am trying to justify it and fucking her is something I really want to do. I don't want him to ever find out though I just want to know in my mind I'm one up on him. It's good to see that most people are the classic boring be nice to everyone types.
It's not about being boring, it's about being mature and realising that sometimes it's better to let things lie. What if she turns you down and tells your 'mate'? "
Well that's why I'm asking advice. I wasn't going to straight up ask her haha. I was seeing if anyone had any ideas on a way to test the water etc. I thought it would be a fun story and people would get on board and have fun with it. Clearly I miss judged the whole situation. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"It's funny to see people's replies, I thought more would be up for me doing it and encourage it. I am trying to justify it and fucking her is something I really want to do. I don't want him to ever find out though I just want to know in my mind I'm one up on him. It's good to see that most people are the classic boring be nice to everyone types.
It's not about being boring, it's about being mature and realising that sometimes it's better to let things lie. What if she turns you down and tells your 'mate'?
Well that's why I'm asking advice. I wasn't going to straight up ask her haha. I was seeing if anyone had any ideas on a way to test the water etc. I thought it would be a fun story and people would get on board and have fun with it. Clearly I miss judged the whole situation. "
Yeah but it's messing with people's lives so that kinda takes the fun out of it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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But if the girl chose him then he hasn't actually fucked you over, she just didn't want you. "
Well as a mate when I see my pals chatting to a girl I don't go after them. They become "off limits" to me. He doesn't do that. He slithers in. It's more complicated than it's being made out here.
By that logic if his girl wants to fuck me then it's fine and I should do it! |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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But if the girl chose him then he hasn't actually fucked you over, she just didn't want you.
Well as a mate when I see my pals chatting to a girl I don't go after them. They become "off limits" to me. He doesn't do that. He slithers in. It's more complicated than it's being made out here.
By that logic if his girl wants to fuck me then it's fine and I should do it!"
Not quite, they are in a relationship, you had no relationship with this woman, you just liked her. I'm not saying it isn't a shitty thing to do, it is, my cousin did it to me twice, but there's no point trying to be a dick just to get revenge. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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But if the girl chose him then he hasn't actually fucked you over, she just didn't want you.
Well as a mate when I see my pals chatting to a girl I don't go after them. They become "off limits" to me. He doesn't do that. He slithers in. It's more complicated than it's being made out here.
By that logic if his girl wants to fuck me then it's fine and I should do it!"
You two were only chatting! He didn't do anything wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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But if the girl chose him then he hasn't actually fucked you over, she just didn't want you.
Well as a mate when I see my pals chatting to a girl I don't go after them. They become "off limits" to me. He doesn't do that. He slithers in. It's more complicated than it's being made out here.
By that logic if his girl wants to fuck me then it's fine and I should do it!
You two were only chatting! He didn't do anything wrong. "
Well it was a bit more in depth than that haha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Basically a good friend of mine who I've known for years has fucked me over when it comes to girls a few times over the years. One particular one really got to me. It was a girl I was chasing for years and I thought I had a chance. He knew I liked her and he started messaging her on a dating site. Either way it fucked things up for me and I had to cut that girl out of my life. Obviously bros come before hoes etc but that's not always the case with him. Either way I feel like I owe him one and I'd be satisfied by fucking his girl behind his back.
The funny thing is I think she might be up for it! Just subtle little hints and things have got me sniffing around.
The first time I met her was when they hadn't been going out for long. He had a house party to introduce her to everyone. She was pretty d*unk and somehow got into conversation something about turning me round and fucking me with a strap on! It was said as a threat but I get the feeling she might know something about me!
Another time I met her was out in town and we ended up at the bar together getting the drinks in. Either way she randomly brought into conversation about a fair where you hook a dildo instead of hooking a duck and again the way she said it seemed like she was testing my reaction.
There have been other slightly flirty looks and motions but those are the main two. I've not met her many times but I just get this feeling she wants to fuck me... Literally! Haha. What should I do to make that happen?"
Tell her you’ve got a fine Persian rug! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You do what you want you will anyway and you'll get no sympathy when it goes tits up plus your showing people what's wrong with fab these days. Your chances of action have gone from 100-0 in a flash. And when you leave fab because no will meat you just leave quietly thank you |
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"I think she has Kik now as far as I know people only have kik if they want to fuck haha. I'm thinking of sending her a message on that see what she's got to say. I won't let on that it's me though"
That’s not true, I use it to talk to people and nothing more than that |
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I think you could just end up with egg on your face
She probably doesn’t fancy you anyway and is just being friendly and having a laugh with you
The girl you fancied wasn’t your girlfriend, just because he got a chance with her shouldn’t mean you will try to cause trouble with him, something is quite wrong with you to want to do that
In a way you sound like a male bunny boiler to me
Forget about the past and focus on yourself and stop playing games
Get over it !
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No. You don't fuck her whilst she is dating him, unless in a 3 way. Retain high standards of behaviour and intent, whatever he or others fall to. Fuck me instead and I'll talk about or use a strap-on. Morally good and reputation intact.
Behaving like a real man, not a boy is totally the only way to go |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You'd been chasing her for years. And got nowhere.
And somehow that equates to it being okay to fuck his girlfriend behind his back because he chanced his arm with her?
Seriously?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks again everyone for the advice. It's obviously not as black and white as it seems. I do appreciate the comments though. In my little brain I want to come out on top. I think I'm just too honest haha. Funnily enough I've had more messages from people since starting this throat. It's mostly people just telling me to go for it haha but I've had a couple of offers from ladies.
My next question is do I really come across as such a bad guy talking about this? I haven't actually done anything... Yet  |
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"Thanks again everyone for the advice. It's obviously not as black and white as it seems. I do appreciate the comments though. In my little brain I want to come out on top. I think I'm just too honest haha. Funnily enough I've had more messages from people since starting this throat. It's mostly people just telling me to go for it haha but I've had a couple of offers from ladies.
My next question is do I really come across as such a bad guy talking about this? I haven't actually done anything... Yet "
Really? This thread has attracted women to you?? |
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"More than usual! But the truth is more than 0 isn't exactly a big ask haha.
I think it must be my morals and sheer charisma that's doing the trick "
Well I suppose some women are attracted to guys with shaky morals. Good luck to them |
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I read your post and thought you must be 19 or something, but no, I read your profile and you are a grown man who should be too old for silly games.
Your mate is not a mate
Two wrongs don't make a right
Don't be an idiot...this is not big or clever
Walk away from all parties and enjoy the no strings fuckery on offer here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Joking aside and with respect I’m glad you are not my mate or him for that matter !! Certainly doesn’t sound like bros before hoes or whatever childish saying you have going on. Time to grow up and have some self respect |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just to get everyone up to speed. What he did to me wasn't that bad. The girl I don't speak to was stringing me along he knew I liked her for years and had no interest in her then suddenly they'd both matched on tinder. He said she didn't realise it was her and she said she didn't want to be rude and say no. Either way they started messaging eachother and asked me how I felt about that. Me being sensitive told them I didn't like the idea of it but I couldn't do anything about it. He was actually a good mate and said fair enough I'll sack it off. She got pissed off with me because I was honest. We all cleared things up and agreed it was for the best. I kept speaking to her for a bit but it just wasn't the same. He kept talking to her too but didn't let me know. I realised I'd fucked up any chance I might of had and decided to keep my distance. 4 years on this is where we are now.
This feels like therapy! I know I'm a loser I know I need to grow up and it's no one's fault but my own. Does that mean I can't fantasise about fucking his bird? Probably but I'm going to think about it anyway!
Also I'd just like to say I'm not a mmf threesome kind of person so that idea is definitely not for me.
I'm under no illusions that what I want to do is the right thing or even a good idea it was just a fantasy that I thought I'd share. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Basically a good friend of mine who I've known for years has fucked me over when it comes to girls a few times over the years. One particular one really got to me. It was a girl I was chasing for years and I thought I had a chance. He knew I liked her and he started messaging her on a dating site. Either way it fucked things up for me and I had to cut that girl out of my life. Obviously bros come before hoes etc but that's not always the case with him. Either way I feel like I owe him one and I'd be satisfied by fucking his girl behind his back.
The funny thing is I think she might be up for it! Just subtle little hints and things have got me sniffing around.
The first time I met her was when they hadn't been going out for long. He had a house party to introduce her to everyone. She was pretty d*unk and somehow got into conversation something about turning me round and fucking me with a strap on! It was said as a threat but I get the feeling she might know something about me!
Another time I met her was out in town and we ended up at the bar together getting the drinks in. Either way she randomly brought into conversation about a fair where you hook a dildo instead of hooking a duck and again the way she said it seemed like she was testing my reaction.
There have been other slightly flirty looks and motions but those are the main two. I've not met her many times but I just get this feeling she wants to fuck me... Literally! Haha. What should I do to make that happen?"
If you're mate beat you to the punch with a girl you once liked and you wasn't in a relationship with that girl both single ect....
1) you should have got in there first.
2)You have to be the bigger man and turn the other cheek, it's just one of those things it happens.
3) A true friend wouldn't cheat on a mate or let them down.
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So 4 years ago he messaged someone on tinder that you'd spent years getting nowhere with, told you, it didn't go anywhere because you weren't happy and somehow you feel wronged enough to want to fuck his girlfriend purely out of spite?
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"So 4 years ago he messaged someone on tinder that you'd spent years getting nowhere with, told you, it didn't go anywhere because you weren't happy and somehow you feel wronged enough to want to fuck his girlfriend purely out of spite?
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"Basically a good friend of mine who I've known for years has fucked me over when it comes to girls a few times over the years. One particular one really got to me. It was a girl I was chasing for years and I thought I had a chance. He knew I liked her and he started messaging her on a dating site. Either way it fucked things up for me and I had to cut that girl out of my life. Obviously bros come before hoes etc but that's not always the case with him. Either way I feel like I owe him one and I'd be satisfied by fucking his girl behind his back.
The funny thing is I think she might be up for it! Just subtle little hints and things have got me sniffing around.
The first time I met her was when they hadn't been going out for long. He had a house party to introduce her to everyone. She was pretty d*unk and somehow got into conversation something about turning me round and fucking me with a strap on! It was said as a threat but I get the feeling she might know something about me!
Another time I met her was out in town and we ended up at the bar together getting the drinks in. Either way she randomly brought into conversation about a fair where you hook a dildo instead of hooking a duck and again the way she said it seemed like she was testing my reaction.
There have been other slightly flirty looks and motions but those are the main two. I've not met her many times but I just get this feeling she wants to fuck me... Literally! Haha. What should I do to make that happen?
If you're mate beat you to the punch with a girl you once liked and you wasn't in a relationship with that girl both single ect....
1) you should have got in there first.
2)You have to be the bigger man and turn the other cheek, it's just one of those things it happens.
3) A true friend wouldn't cheat on a mate or let them down.
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"So 4 years ago he messaged someone on tinder that you'd spent years getting nowhere with, told you, it didn't go anywhere because you weren't happy and somehow you feel wronged enough to want to fuck his girlfriend purely out of spite?
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I'm really rubbish at getting across what happened. That's basically the just of it. There's more to it than that obviously.
I can't help how a situation makes me feel. He might have fucked her and I don't know about it. He did say he wasn't speaking to her any more but I knew he was. |
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"So 4 years ago he messaged someone on tinder that you'd spent years getting nowhere with, told you, it didn't go anywhere because you weren't happy and somehow you feel wronged enough to want to fuck his girlfriend purely out of spite?
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But then the women on here were loving his story of bitterness and messaged in their hundreds "
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over a year ago
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Thanks for the kicking while I'm down here haha. I didn't say I was getting loads of messages I said more than I usually do mostly of support. It feels like everyone is ganging up on me here! |
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"You should be on the Jeremy Kyle Show."
Second that. You're basically jealous he did better with a bird you weren't able to bed in years and now you want to fuck him over. Sad.. |
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"Thanks for the kicking while I'm down here haha. I didn't say I was getting loads of messages I said more than I usually do mostly of support. It feels like everyone is ganging up on me here!"
If you want to fuck her and she wants to fuck you then fuck her and fuck the other fuckers. |
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"Thanks for the kicking while I'm down here haha. I didn't say I was getting loads of messages I said more than I usually do mostly of support. It feels like everyone is ganging up on me here!
If you want to fuck her and she wants to fuck you then fuck her and fuck the other fuckers."
Fuck yeah! Haha
I actually originally posted this in stories and fantasies. I think it getting moved fucked me over a bit and instead of getting some creative ideas to fuck her I'm just getting a beating from all the saints on this forum. |
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You know what OP, you brought this on yourself. You change your mind and your story like the wind, back pedaling like crazy when called out and admitting you’ve been acting like a twit. However as soon as someone agrees with you, you’re all cocky again and call us boring.
I cannot believe you’re the age you are, it reads like a school boy fantasy.
Done with this post
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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To be fair you're all a gang of bores and bullies. Everyone getting a sly little dig in with each comment. You can all just pretend you are perfect and take it out on me. I'm a big boy I can take it  |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Basically a good friend of mine who I've known for years has fucked me over when it comes to girls a few times over the years. One particular one really got to me. It was a girl I was chasing for years and I thought I had a chance. He knew I liked her and he started messaging her on a dating site. Either way it fucked things up for me and I had to cut that girl out of my life. Obviously bros come before hoes etc but that's not always the case with him. Either way I feel like I owe him one and I'd be satisfied by fucking his girl behind his back.
The funny thing is I think she might be up for it! Just subtle little hints and things have got me sniffing around.
The first time I met her was when they hadn't been going out for long. He had a house party to introduce her to everyone. She was pretty d*unk and somehow got into conversation something about turning me round and fucking me with a strap on! It was said as a threat but I get the feeling she might know something about me!
Another time I met her was out in town and we ended up at the bar together getting the drinks in. Either way she randomly brought into conversation about a fair where you hook a dildo instead of hooking a duck and again the way she said it seemed like she was testing my reaction.
There have been other slightly flirty looks and motions but those are the main two. I've not met her many times but I just get this feeling she wants to fuck me... Literally! Haha. What should I do to make that happen?"
Grow up. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"To be fair you're all a gang of bores and bullies. Everyone getting a sly little dig in with each comment. You can all just pretend you are perfect and take it out on me. I'm a big boy I can take it "
You asked for opinions and you got them. Nobody is bullying you. |
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"Basically a good friend of mine who I've known for years has fucked me over when it comes to girls a few times over the years. One particular one really got to me. It was a girl I was chasing for years and I thought I had a chance. He knew I liked her and he started messaging her on a dating site. Either way it fucked things up for me and I had to cut that girl out of my life. Obviously bros come before hoes etc but that's not always the case with him. Either way I feel like I owe him one and I'd be satisfied by fucking his girl behind his back.
The funny thing is I think she might be up for it! Just subtle little hints and things have got me sniffing around.
The first time I met her was when they hadn't been going out for long. He had a house party to introduce her to everyone. She was pretty d*unk and somehow got into conversation something about turning me round and fucking me with a strap on! It was said as a threat but I get the feeling she might know something about me!
Another time I met her was out in town and we ended up at the bar together getting the drinks in. Either way she randomly brought into conversation about a fair where you hook a dildo instead of hooking a duck and again the way she said it seemed like she was testing my reaction.
There have been other slightly flirty looks and motions but those are the main two. I've not met her many times but I just get this feeling she wants to fuck me... Literally! Haha. What should I do to make that happen?"
This fair sounds boss, did she mention where it was? |
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By *oyRoy06Man
over a year ago
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"Just to get everyone up to speed. What he did to me wasn't that bad. The girl I don't speak to was stringing me along he knew I liked her for years and had no interest in her then suddenly they'd both matched on tinder. He said she didn't realise it was her and she said she didn't want to be rude and say no. Either way they started messaging eachother and asked me how I felt about that. Me being sensitive told them I didn't like the idea of it but I couldn't do anything about it. He was actually a good mate and said fair enough I'll sack it off. She got pissed off with me because I was honest. We all cleared things up and agreed it was for the best. I kept speaking to her for a bit but it just wasn't the same. He kept talking to her too but didn't let me know. I realised I'd fucked up any chance I might of had and decided to keep my distance. 4 years on this is where we are now.
This feels like therapy! I know I'm a loser I know I need to grow up and it's no one's fault but my own. Does that mean I can't fantasise about fucking his bird? Probably but I'm going to think about it anyway!
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So basically you got friend zoned and your mate had better luck; and now you want to stick to his girl as a means to stick it to him ...
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over a year ago
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Yeah yeah I get it now. I'm a loser, I've got no mates, I need to grow up. So glad to see no one here has ever done anything they shouldn't. Must be great being perfect and having such high standards... |
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"Yeah yeah I get it now. I'm a loser, I've got no mates, I need to grow up. So glad to see no one here has ever done anything they shouldn't. Must be great being perfect and having such high standards... "
It’s prob just because it’s not gonna happen makes you look foolish |
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"Yeah yeah I get it now. I'm a loser, I've got no mates, I need to grow up. So glad to see no one here has ever done anything they shouldn't. Must be great being perfect and having such high standards...
It’s prob just because it’s not gonna happen makes you look foolish "
It's clearly not going to happen haha. I honestly thought it was a fun little fantasy.
Anyone else want to make me feel like more of a piece of shit? |
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"You two are not friends. "
Agreed 100%!
He clearly wasn't your friend - friends don't do that to a mate. Personally I have very few unbreakable rules in life, but I never go anywhere near a friends woman, ex. or not. Don't sink to his level and keep your own standards high. You'll get way more respect in the long run. |
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"Yeah yeah I get it now. I'm a loser, I've got no mates, I need to grow up. So glad to see no one here has ever done anything they shouldn't. Must be great being perfect and having such high standards...
It’s prob just because it’s not gonna happen makes you look foolish
It's clearly not going to happen haha. I honestly thought it was a fun little fantasy.
Anyone else want to make me feel like more of a piece of shit? "
I’m sure people don’t want to make you feel like shit but maybe just reflect a little bit on what’s been said take it on the chin and move on, at the end of the day we don’t really know you we are just respond to your thread and the way you’ve came across. |
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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago
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"You two are not friends.
Totally see where you are coming from but we kind of are good friends haha. It obviously doesn't sound like it from this post. But that's just the way my f'd up mind works."
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Bros NEVER EVER come before girls.
And simple reason for that is your personal life not somebodys else.
Bro aint gonna cook and clean for you are go into bed with you.
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"Bros NEVER EVER come before girls.
And simple reason for that is your personal life not somebodys else.
Bro aint gonna cook and clean for you are go into bed with you.
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And a woman will cook and clean for him by definition? |
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"Yeah yeah I get it now. I'm a loser, I've got no mates, I need to grow up. So glad to see no one here has ever done anything they shouldn't. Must be great being perfect and having such high standards...
It’s prob just because it’s not gonna happen makes you look foolish
It's clearly not going to happen haha. I honestly thought it was a fun little fantasy.
Anyone else want to make me feel like more of a piece of shit? "
You would have got a different response if you had posted in the stories and fantasies forum. They would have been telling you to go for it and take pics for them haha |
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"Yeah yeah I get it now. I'm a loser, I've got no mates, I need to grow up. So glad to see no one here has ever done anything they shouldn't. Must be great being perfect and having such high standards...
It’s prob just because it’s not gonna happen makes you look foolish
It's clearly not going to happen haha. I honestly thought it was a fun little fantasy.
Anyone else want to make me feel like more of a piece of shit?
You would have got a different response if you had posted in the stories and fantasies forum. They would have been telling you to go for it and take pics for them haha"
I did! It got moved! |
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"Yeah yeah I get it now. I'm a loser, I've got no mates, I need to grow up. So glad to see no one here has ever done anything they shouldn't. Must be great being perfect and having such high standards...
It’s prob just because it’s not gonna happen makes you look foolish
It's clearly not going to happen haha. I honestly thought it was a fun little fantasy.
Anyone else want to make me feel like more of a piece of shit?
You would have got a different response if you had posted in the stories and fantasies forum. They would have been telling you to go for it and take pics for them haha
I did! It got moved! "
Yet oddly, it is way down the thread where you indicate it may be a fantasy, your ealy responses all seem serious |
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"Yeah yeah I get it now. I'm a loser, I've got no mates, I need to grow up. So glad to see no one here has ever done anything they shouldn't. Must be great being perfect and having such high standards...
It’s prob just because it’s not gonna happen makes you look foolish
It's clearly not going to happen haha. I honestly thought it was a fun little fantasy.
Anyone else want to make me feel like more of a piece of shit?
You would have got a different response if you had posted in the stories and fantasies forum. They would have been telling you to go for it and take pics for them haha
I did! It got moved!
Yet oddly, it is way down the thread where you indicate it may be a fantasy, your ealy responses all seem serious"
Well they would have been had it been on the fantasy forum as that's what it's for, fantasy. |
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I fucked my mates wife behind his back even when she was pregnant by him. It was such a turn on fucking her in their bed and we done this for a couple of years till they split up. |
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Revenge never solved anything. I'd be looking at a more positive encounter rather than looking at one that's fucked up from the start. Why drop to his level if you feel so grieved about what he did. You'll loose any self respect you hold at the minute.
I'd be the bigger guy and walk away from it. |
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"Basically a good friend of mine who I've known for years has fucked me over when it comes to girls a few times over the years. One particular one really got to me. It was a girl I was chasing for years and I thought I had a chance. He knew I liked her and he started messaging her on a dating site. Either way it fucked things up for me and I had to cut that girl out of my life. Obviously bros come before hoes etc but that's not always the case with him. Either way I feel like I owe him one and I'd be satisfied by fucking his girl behind his back.
The funny thing is I think she might be up for it! Just subtle little hints and things have got me sniffing around.
The first time I met her was when they hadn't been going out for long. He had a house party to introduce her to everyone. She was pretty d*unk and somehow got into conversation something about turning me round and fucking me with a strap on! It was said as a threat but I get the feeling she might know something about me!
Another time I met her was out in town and we ended up at the bar together getting the drinks in. Either way she randomly brought into conversation about a fair where you hook a dildo instead of hooking a duck and again the way she said it seemed like she was testing my reaction.
There have been other slightly flirty looks and motions but those are the main two. I've not met her many times but I just get this feeling she wants to fuck me... Literally! Haha. What should I do to make that happen?"
Grow up you sound like a 14 year old! |
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over a year ago
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Hahaha this is actually getting funny now. It's funny how much of a shit everyone seems to give about people they don't know. The main feedback here is I should grow up because I'm a teenager haha.
Getting blocked for nothing has made me chuckle the most. Block away people. |
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"Hahaha this is actually getting funny now. It's funny how much of a shit everyone seems to give about people they don't know. The main feedback here is I should grow up because I'm a teenager haha.
Getting blocked for nothing has made me chuckle the most. Block away people. "
Oh dear. Jermey Kyle's not hiring right now, so you rock up here? That's one profile burned...
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Hahaha this is actually getting funny now. It's funny how much of a shit everyone seems to give about people they don't know. The main feedback here is I should grow up because I'm a teenager haha.
Getting blocked for nothing has made me chuckle the most. Block away people. "
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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The best thing to do about being unfairly treated as to talk it out with your friend, getting revenge and doing something similar just makes you the same as him. It's much better to set a good example of what the right behaviour should be thank sink to somebody else's level and do him wrong. Karma is out there. I would do the right thing myself. The satisfaction you feel you would get from doing something out of revenge is not something that I fee is appealing all, so maybe we are just very differently wired.
Plus the girls feelings are also important and she is being treated like a piece of flesh to be thrown about to whoever wants her at the time. That just does not sit right with me. |
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So you were once all single if she had liked you wouldn't it have happened back then ?
Does your mate know you take it up the ass , maybe he has told her and she's winding you up with the dildo talk
I think you should grow up as this clearly is a wind up , maybe get a hobby your clearly board |
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over a year ago
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"So you were once all single if she had liked you wouldn't it have happened back then ?
Does your mate know you take it up the ass , maybe he has told her and she's winding you up with the dildo talk
I think you should grow up as this clearly is a wind up , maybe get a hobby your clearly board "
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"This threat still going on ???
How's the op getting on with destroying a perfectly good relationship ? "
I'm as surprised as you. So far nothing has happened. Jeremy Kyle got cancelled, I'm still trying to get a life and growing up is going to take a number of years. |
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"It's funny to see people's replies, I thought more would be up for me doing it and encourage it. I am trying to justify it and fucking her is something I really want to do. I don't want him to ever find out though I just want to know in my mind I'm one up on him. Let me k ow if it works I wanna know if u fuck her pls It's good to see that most people are the classic boring be nice to everyone types. "
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"It's funny to see people's replies, I thought more would be up for me doing it and encourage it. I am trying to justify it and fucking her is something I really want to do. I don't want him to ever find out though I just want to know in my mind I'm one up on him. Let me k ow if it works I wanna know if u fuck her pls It's good to see that most people are the classic boring be nice to everyone types. "
Abso fuckin lutely do it, as long as it never gets out and anyone gets hurt. I remember having a few people over mine for a few beers and that and I went in the garage for a fag and my mates mrs come for one too while he sat with the others in the living room, as soon as I closed the garage door to not stink the house out of cigarettes, she was on her knees and I was gobsmacked I told her to behave to start with but she wasn’t having it, safe to say I had a good few fags that evening from then on lol, and my mate was only a few metres away in the living room, made it all the better lol |
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Laugh. I think the girl loves attention and the rest of it is wishful thinkomg and you're in fantasy land.
You won't know if you don't try. If you don't try it won't happen. If you do try, then the nevt conversation with your ex friend if likely to be "the deal has changed. You're no longer getting a fuck. You're getting a beating" and then you wake up in a ditch. Your call. |
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"It's funny to see people's replies, I thought more would be up for me doing it and encourage it. I am trying to justify it and fucking her is something I really want to do. I don't want him to ever find out though I just want to know in my mind I'm one up on him. Let me k ow if it works I wanna know if u fuck her pls It's good to see that most people are the classic boring be nice to everyone types. "
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"Basically a good friend of mine who I've known for years has fucked me over when it comes to girls a few times over the years. One particular one really got to me. It was a girl I was chasing for years and I thought I had a chance. He knew I liked her and he started messaging her on a dating site. Either way it fucked things up for me and I had to cut that girl out of my life. Obviously bros come before hoes etc but that's not always the case with him. Either way I feel like I owe him one and I'd be satisfied by fucking his girl behind his back.
The funny thing is I think she might be up for it! Just subtle little hints and things have got me sniffing around.
The first time I met her was when they hadn't been going out for long. He had a house party to introduce her to everyone. She was pretty d*unk and somehow got into conversation something about turning me round and fucking me with a strap on! It was said as a threat but I get the feeling she might know something about me!
Another time I met her was out in town and we ended up at the bar together getting the drinks in. Either way she randomly brought into conversation about a fair where you hook a dildo instead of hooking a duck and again the way she said it seemed like she was testing my reaction.
There have been other slightly flirty looks and motions but those are the main two. I've not met her many times but I just get this feeling she wants to fuck me... Literally! Haha. What should I do to make that happen?"
If you want to lose a mate and get a bad reputation then go ahead. |
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