"I seem to be cumming quicker and quicker and to be honest it can be bloody embarrassing. Can anyone offer any advice?"
Usually premature ejaculation is more psychologically induced than physically. While its a lot easier said than done, the first thing is to stop worrying about it.
Getting yourself relaxed is key. Next when masturbating bring yourself to the point of ejaculation and then stop and relax - get your body used to the signals and work on recognising them earlier so you can maybe readjust etc.
Look at your technique - for example when having sex you may find some positions arnt as stimulating for you but are for your partner.
If your worried about performing on the night, obviously masturbating beforehand should help too.
Make sure you don't have a full bladder - personally I find it harder to control like that. Also when you do wee, stop and start your wee. This will build up the muscles at that control your ejaculation that again can give you some more control.
But most of all.... Don't worry!!!
Hope that helps
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"I seem to be cumming quicker and quicker and to be honest it can be bloody embarrassing. Can anyone offer any advice?
Usually premature ejaculation is more psychologically induced than physically. While its a lot easier said than done, the first thing is to stop worrying about it.
Getting yourself relaxed is key. Next when masturbating bring yourself to the point of ejaculation and then stop and relax - get your body used to the signals and work on recognising them earlier so you can maybe readjust etc.
Look at your technique - for example when having sex you may find some positions arnt as stimulating for you but are for your partner.
If your worried about performing on the night, obviously masturbating beforehand should help too.
Make sure you don't have a full bladder - personally I find it harder to control like that. Also when you do wee, stop and start your wee. This will build up the muscles at that control your ejaculation that again can give you some more control.
But most of all.... Don't worry!!!
Hope that helps
D"
Meant to add the caveat, however if you are concerned its physical see your gp.
Oh and some of the delay creams may help too.
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"I seem to be cumming quicker and quicker and to be honest it can be bloody embarrassing. Can anyone offer any advice?"
I have the other problem I find it very hard to cum and i find just as embarresing  |
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"I seem to be cumming quicker and quicker and to be honest it can be bloody embarrassing. Can anyone offer any advice?"
Honest post. Will be checking for replies though.  |
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Have you changed your diet in any way lately or are any other things in your bowl movements changed or unusual? If you are worried about it see a GP and see what he thinks. He may want you to do a PSA test to make sure everything is working as it should. |
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I don't think it's abnormal, Doof's sometimes goes through phases where he's going all night and then other times he's over and done quite quickly...
Generally we decided that its more to do with stress at work and time to think, if you think about it, working all day, sometimes all night, then getting a night off and having me to satisfy, no wonder he's sometimes not as 'reactive'...
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Doof's edit. Yeah I wouldn't worry at all - in fact, I'd use it to your advantage, why not deliberately cum early, have her bring you to orgasm with a BJ while you bring her to her own using your hands, mouth, toys if you like... Then, after you're done, keep the foreplay going, you'll be hard again soon enough and raring for another go
If things feel different though - uncomfortable, painful, or just different, go get checked out for your own peace of mind.
Oh and and honey, satisfying you is never a chore  I put it down to this - an easy evening with little to do but think about the mad sessions we're going to have later is obviously going to have me raring to go by the time we get there
A busy day / night / day / night doesn't give me much time to consider, daydream, imagine or plan anything... so my response is slower
Maybe this is valid for the OP too? A lot of time thinking about what's to cum... erm come speeding things along. |
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I have read your profile looking for clues, In my job I do psychological analysis and the correlation between behaviours and motivation.
maybe your premature ejaculation is induced by guilt.
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