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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Be as honest as possible as I have no fucking clue what I'm doing here. Can't tell if I should be more playful/cheeky or just upfront!
Recently added face pics as I figured why not, it's who I am after all  |
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Doesnt matter what you do with your profile, the chances of getting a meet on here are slim to none.Just about every girl will eithrt ignore your message, or if it is read, will delete it or never get back to you. |
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Pretty good profile and good pics. As long as your initial message is good you should get responses.
What you have now is a lot better than probably 90% of the guys that have messaged me. Be patient and polite and it will happen for you.
It’s definitely worth attending socials as that’s where you get your face known.
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"Doesnt matter what you do with your profile, the chances of getting a meet on here are slim to none.Just about every girl will eithrt ignore your message, or if it is read, will delete it or never get back to you. "
I disagree. He has a good profile and good pics. I would respond if he messaged me and at least one other woman on this thread has expressed an interest in him. |
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"Doesnt matter what you do with your profile, the chances of getting a meet on here are slim to none.Just about every girl will eithrt ignore your message, or if it is read, will delete it or never get back to you. "
This coming from the person with no pics and who types more words on this post than in his profile 
Op, your profile is ok. It tells us a bit about you and what you’re looking for/have to offer. I always think if you inject some of your personality into it then it gives a true reflection of you. It’s also nice to see some face pic where a guy is smiling |
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"Doesnt matter what you do with your profile, the chances of getting a meet on here are slim to none.Just about every girl will eithrt ignore your message, or if it is read, will delete it or never get back to you.
This coming from the person with no pics and who types more words on this post than in his profile
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i do have pics, just dont have them on my profile. I always send a photo with messages,i think its ok, but woman dont seem to like it. Have tried different ones, but it doesnt work. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. You come across as friendly and smiley and look fine in your pics. Maybe, just maybe, a swinger shouldn’t need to say that they like eating pussy - it goes with the territory - but that’s pretty picky of me tbh |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. You come across as friendly and smiley and look fine in your pics. Maybe, just maybe, a swinger shouldn’t need to say that they like eating pussy - it goes with the territory - but that’s pretty picky of me tbh"
Thanks for the feedback.
I genuinely love going down on a woman. Maybe I'll just emphasise that it's one of my favourite things |
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"I think your choice of profile photo isn't the best. I'd go with the fez or the one in the kitchen.
Fair! What about this current one? "
Good choice! I like seeing a nice pic of a guy smiling, it makes you seem friendly and approachable. I also prefer to see just the guy in it rather than friends cropped out or strangers in the background. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. You come across as friendly and smiley and look fine in your pics. Maybe, just maybe, a swinger shouldn’t need to say that they like eating pussy - it goes with the territory - but that’s pretty picky of me tbh
Thanks for the feedback.
I genuinely love going down on a woman. Maybe I'll just emphasise that it's one of my favourite things"
Fair enough and anyway I was being picky. I bet you’re going to have a lot of fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it’s a reasonably grand profile. It’s definitely very approachable
Personally I’d just move a few things around... keep positive about you
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‘Recently lost loads of weight and trying to explore & enjoy my new body with new people.’
To the end. It is very honest but self deprecating at same time - so save that to the end of it all.
You could even rephrase it as something like ‘ I’m really enjoying exploring since losing a lot of weight, of which I’m really proud.’
Also where it says ‘Love eating pussy, enjoy lots of intimacy and have really strong orgasms that last a long time!’ ; again put the ‘love eating pussy’ to the end. It’s true, you probably do- but it’s quite harsh to open with. I personally would switch off from that phrase but this is a swinging site. I need to get real!
Or- Perhaps rephrase that... after ‘orgasms that last a long time’ - write something along the lines of ‘so I’m happy to lie between your legs and play with you for as long as makes us all happy?’ Or something else less brash?
Just a personal judgement as it does read nicely already
Good luck
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it’s a reasonably grand profile. It’s definitely very approachable
Personally I’d just move a few things around... keep positive about you
Move
‘Recently lost loads of weight and trying to explore & enjoy my new body with new people.’
To the end. It is very honest but self deprecating at same time - so save that to the end of it all.
You could even rephrase it as something like ‘ I’m really enjoying exploring since losing a lot of weight, of which I’m really proud.’
Also where it says ‘Love eating pussy, enjoy lots of intimacy and have really strong orgasms that last a long time!’ ; again put the ‘love eating pussy’ to the end. It’s true, you probably do- but it’s quite harsh to open with. I personally would switch off from that phrase but this is a swinging site. I need to get real!
Or- Perhaps rephrase that... after ‘orgasms that last a long time’ - write something along the lines of ‘so I’m happy to lie between your legs and play with you for as long as makes us all happy?’ Or something else less brash?
Just a personal judgement as it does read nicely already
Good luck
Mrs P "
Blimey Mrs P that is very helpful! Enjoyed reading that post. Very rarely have I seen a "profile advice" thread go well or end in a good way. So this is a bump up for others... not for the OP because he is way too cool and chilled out. Plus he can cook so flippin heck haha! Hope the OP has continued success and happy memories like many of us have experienced.
This thread:
#PrimeExample
Nice one OP  |
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