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Meet today cancelled because she ‘ate’ too much at lunch and was too ‘hungover yesterday’
Exchanged numbers with someone a few days ago - had a great call with them arranged meeting up. - no reply to any texts since on WhatsApp.
Another member messaged me as our kinks aligned, swapped numbers only to find backlog of meets too great, I’m better off meeting someone else.
Another member messaged me saying that im too light skinned and not dark enough.
Literally all of this in the space of a week.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it’s just a run of bad luck with a couple of flakes mixed in. It’s really irritating, but deep breath, do something else for a couple of days, then dive back in.
Good luck! |
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It's pic number 3 that's the problem.
The tie colour is all wrong.
Should have stuck with the format of pic number 4.
Co ordinated and colour symmetry.
You've clearly given out very mixed signals there. Women just don't know if they are coming or going with you.  xx |
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"It's pic number 3 that's the problem.
The tie colour is all wrong.
Should have stuck with the format of pic number 4.
Co ordinated and colour symmetry.
You've clearly given out very mixed signals there. Women just don't know if they are coming or going with you. xx"
Haha... whoops |
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"Meet today cancelled because she ‘ate’ too much at lunch and was too ‘hungover yesterday’
Exchanged numbers with someone a few days ago - had a great call with them arranged meeting up. - no reply to any texts since on WhatsApp.
Another member messaged me as our kinks aligned, swapped numbers only to find backlog of meets too great, I’m better off meeting someone else.
Another member messaged me saying that im too light skinned and not dark enough.
Literally all of this in the space of a week.
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Join the club mate, sounds exactly like mine, onwards and upwards |
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By *Marvel-Man
over a year ago
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"Meet today cancelled because she ‘ate’ too much at lunch and was too ‘hungover yesterday’
Exchanged numbers with someone a few days ago - had a great call with them arranged meeting up. - no reply to any texts since on WhatsApp.
Another member messaged me as our kinks aligned, swapped numbers only to find backlog of meets too great, I’m better off meeting someone else.
Another member messaged me saying that im too light skinned and not dark enough.
Literally all of this in the space of a week.
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People are still agreeing to meet you though.  |
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By *inkycatWoman
over a year ago
High Wycombe |
Not just guys with this problem...meet arranged Saturday, he said he’d be about 45 mins late. Not a problem. Then with half an hour to go, extended that later time by another 45 mins. And then by another 30 mins, at which point I told him not to bother.... There are flakes and timewasters all ways - just move on  |
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"Crazy isn't.
Not sure what is wrong with people tbf.
I was stood up, twice in a week. It is not nice at all"
One thing i would never do is stand someone up, its courtesy to respect there time for you and be honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m a hotwife and you would be amazed how much this happens! Chancers, bullshitters and bottlers, and my fav those who talk themselves out of sex  keep trying my friend |
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By *Marvel-Man
over a year ago
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"I’m a hotwife and you would be amazed how much this happens! Chancers, bullshitters and bottlers, and my fav those who talk themselves out of sex keep trying my friend"
How does someone talk themselves out of sex? This sounds fascinating. |
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"Meet today cancelled because she ‘ate’ too much at lunch and was too ‘hungover yesterday’
Exchanged numbers with someone a few days ago - had a great call with them arranged meeting up. - no reply to any texts since on WhatsApp.
Another member messaged me as our kinks aligned, swapped numbers only to find backlog of meets too great, I’m better off meeting someone else.
Another member messaged me saying that im too light skinned and not dark enough.
Literally all of this in the space of a week.
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I have meets cancelled up as soon as I'm on their doorstep..
Been told I'm too fat or not fat enough.. I won't lie that it doesn't hurt but chin up you will find someone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m a hotwife and you would be amazed how much this happens! Chancers, bullshitters and bottlers, and my fav those who talk themselves out of sex keep trying my friend
How does someone talk themselves out of sex? This sounds fascinating. "
Omg yes. ‘You’re so experienced, I’m not into big party orgies (!), you’re going to have really high expectations..’ all based on info that was always available in my profile and absolutely not on me talking to them.
Mouth and trousers I think. |
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Hello OP,
Sorry to hear of your run of bad luck. However, none of that was your fault, and you musn't let it drag you down.
Unfortunately this experience doesn't mark you out as special in the fab world, it happens to so many of us. Pick yourself up, brush yourself down and move on... They clearly aren't worth you. |
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"Offers of meets is better than no offers at all. "
Exactly, although this does seem like an extraordinary run of bad luck! I find single women the most unreliable for meets, perhaps look for married/attached ladies playing away, as they know exactly what they want, and don't have time to waste  |
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"Meet today cancelled because she ‘ate’ too much at lunch and was too ‘hungover yesterday’
Exchanged numbers with someone a few days ago - had a great call with them arranged meeting up. - no reply to any texts since on WhatsApp.
Another member messaged me as our kinks aligned, swapped numbers only to find backlog of meets too great, I’m better off meeting someone else.
Another member messaged me saying that im too light skinned and not dark enough.
Literally all of this in the space of a week.
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Please don’t fall into a bucket of tits this week. You would probably come out sucking your thumb. Lol. |
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By *rblue38Man
over a year ago
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I am always being let down on here by the single women on here. As people say the best places are the clubs and parties. I have even found the same women that let me down on here want me in the clubs. So keep at it. |
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I’m not gonna go on about being let down 4 times by the same chap.....ok I will do to get empathy! Last week cancelling as there was a problem in his business and latest being tomorrow and he realised it’s month end and he’s to do some book keeping....no more chances  |
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"I’m not gonna go on about being let down 4 times by the same chap.....ok I will do to get empathy! Last week cancelling as there was a problem in his business and latest being tomorrow and he realised it’s month end and he’s to do some book keeping....no more chances "
We’ll book keeping is thrilling, who could blame him? |
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"I’m not gonna go on about being let down 4 times by the same chap.....ok I will do to get empathy! Last week cancelling as there was a problem in his business and latest being tomorrow and he realised it’s month end and he’s to do some book keeping....no more chances
We’ll book keeping is thrilling, who could blame him? "
Haha! Book keeping?!? Fuck that! |
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Since I've got back on here, I've not really attempted any meets and I've only messaged a few people, but I remember that years ago, I used to get let down occasionally.
It's just one of those things. In my history on fab, I had to cancel only one meet and that was because I wasn't comfortable meeting her after she went psycho by message.
"Are you coming?"... "Yes, I'm having a shower first and having dinner, then I'll leave for yours. I'll be there at 7:30". "Ok!"...
"Are you still coming?"... "Hello?"... "Are you still coming? Are you ignoring me now?".. "Why aren't you responding?".. "Forget it, if you're being ignorant, you're a time waster and an arsehole!", Etc....
45 minutes later, after my shower and dinner, I was about to message her to say "I'm about to leave now!", But after seeing the messages, I replied "Hey, I think it's best that we give it a miss. Judging by your messages, you're sounding quite volatile. I'm sorry for having to let you down.".
I got a load of abuse back about being a time waster, but oh well... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's pic number 3 that's the problem.
The tie colour is all wrong.
Should have stuck with the format of pic number 4.
Co ordinated and colour symmetry.
You've clearly given out very mixed signals there. Women just don't know if they are coming or going with you. xx"
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"I’m not gonna go on about being let down 4 times by the same chap.....ok I will do to get empathy! Last week cancelling as there was a problem in his business and latest being tomorrow and he realised it’s month end and he’s to do some book keeping....no more chances
We’ll book keeping is thrilling, who could blame him?
Haha! Book keeping?!? Fuck that!"
Yep book keeping! He hadn’t organised himself with his VAT return properly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll happily swap my luck for yours OP.
I'm currently in the process of rebuilding the engine on my daily driver following a timing belt failure.
Bent valves, the lot.
Wouldn't mind if my 'toy' was on the road, but I currently have the engine and box for that in my garage waiting for me to get a spare minute to begin their rebuild. |
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"I’m not gonna go on about being let down 4 times by the same chap.....ok I will do to get empathy! Last week cancelling as there was a problem in his business and latest being tomorrow and he realised it’s month end and he’s to do some book keeping....no more chances
We’ll book keeping is thrilling, who could blame him?
Haha! Book keeping?!? Fuck that!
Yep book keeping! He hadn’t organised himself with his VAT return properly! "
To be fair to the guy, it's a big change 'making tax digital' right now...... |
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"Meet today cancelled because she ‘ate’ too much at lunch and was too ‘hungover yesterday’
Exchanged numbers with someone a few days ago - had a great call with them arranged meeting up. - no reply to any texts since on WhatsApp.
Another member messaged me as our kinks aligned, swapped numbers only to find backlog of meets too great, I’m better off meeting someone else.
Another member messaged me saying that im too light skinned and not dark enough.
Literally all of this in the space of a week.
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The "Ate a big lunch" excuse is a new one!
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've had a couple of similar experiences since I came back. Drove a 70 mile round trip to meet a couple I had been chatting with for quite some time. Arrived at theirs only to receive a text saying they had both d*unk too much and weren't in fit states to meet...More recently I had arranged to meet a female for some drinks. She played along with it for several days until I was just about to leave the house to go and meet her. Then all of a sudden she decided to ghost me completely. It's really frustrating and bloody annoying. But I've accepted now that not everyone is as genuine as they make out on here.... |
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No big deal, you keep moving, don't fall into the category of guys that place all the value on ladies, place the value on yourself and tell yourself it is their loss for not meeting you and keep campaigning |
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"Meet today cancelled because she ‘ate’ too much at lunch and was too ‘hungover yesterday’
Exchanged numbers with someone a few days ago - had a great call with them arranged meeting up. - no reply to any texts since on WhatsApp.
Another member messaged me as our kinks aligned, swapped numbers only to find backlog of meets too great, I’m better off meeting someone else.
Another member messaged me saying that im too light skinned and not dark enough.
Literally all of this in the space of a week.
The "Ate a big lunch" excuse is a new one!
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I won't eat before a meet because it does make me feel sluggish, bloated, fat etc. Not saying it was a great excuse to cancel just I get it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP - it’s a numbers game and at least you’re getting to the stage of potential meets. Frustrating but you only need one or two to work out.
We can’t even get to the stage of meeting so consider that it’s difficult for everyone and you’re still doing better than most. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine is slightly better, 4 prospect all couples liked my pic and profile. Sent 1st message stating I am Asian (I know all think I am BBC) with 2 shared face pic and 2 didn't ask for, but end story is same all went cold, saved my time and energy to get ready for social drink, now I am chilling at home with game |
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