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My girlfriend thinks she might be bi
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Get a couple's profile. Go to a club. Talk to her.
Make sure you can clearly verify her existence because a lot of women are suspect on here. "
Have to agree with this post 
Ask her if she would like to go to a club, see if she finds women interesting then.
Does she know you are on here? Is she open to more people in your sex lives? Are you happy for her to have sex outside your relationship without you being involved? Lots of questions before you start this path. |
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"Get a couple's profile. Go to a club. Talk to her.
Make sure you can clearly verify her existence because a lot of women are suspect on here.
Have to agree with this post
Ask her if she would like to go to a club, see if she finds women interesting then.
Does she know you are on here? Is she open to more people in your sex lives? Are you happy for her to have sex outside your relationship without you being involved? Lots of questions before you start this path."
I hate to be a Debbie Downer about this but you really need to talk to each other about what you are both looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks
Mostly good advice, not sure taking her to a "masseuse" is a good idea.....nor a swingers club lol just seeing what people in my position have done thanks again guys and girls |
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"Thanks
Mostly good advice, not sure taking her to a "masseuse" is a good idea.....nor a swingers club lol just seeing what people in my position have done thanks again guys and girls"
Finding women on here is hard. Swingers clubs are easier.
But talk to her. It's completely up to her. |
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"Thanks
Mostly good advice, not sure taking her to a "masseuse" is a good idea.....nor a swingers club lol just seeing what people in my position have done thanks again guys and girls"
Why is taking her to a swingers club not good advice? You have virtually no chance of finding someone on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Buy her a copy of Tipping the Velvet and see if she enjoys it. Watch a film that’s less on the nose like The Handmaiden. Baby steps and ensure that you are helping her explore HER sexuality, not fulfil your mff fantasy. |
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"Buy her a copy of Tipping the Velvet and see if she enjoys it. Watch a film that’s less on the nose like The Handmaiden. Baby steps and ensure that you are helping her explore HER sexuality, not fulfil your mff fantasy."
Oh god yes. Nothing makes me shut down faster than guys thinking it's hot that I'm with a woman. I find women attractive because I find them attractive, not because it's entertainment for men. |
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"Buy her a copy of Tipping the Velvet and see if she enjoys it. Watch a film that’s less on the nose like The Handmaiden. Baby steps and ensure that you are helping her explore HER sexuality, not fulfil your mff fantasy.
Oh god yes. Nothing makes me shut down faster than guys thinking it's hot that I'm with a woman. I find women attractive because I find them attractive, not because it's entertainment for men. "
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Bi means lots of things and until the lady is clear in her own mind what she likes or wants then knowing what to do to explore that is difficult...and vice versa how does she know without trying it?
She could be bi or bi curious or bi selfish or just not actually bi at all. |
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Flower had her first experience in a club, it was safe and at her pace and happened very naturally whilst playing with another couple. We would certainly recommend this route of she is genuinely curious and not just saying it to make you happy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And just to clear something up, i never said anything about ffm did i? So not sure why everyone thinks thats my goal lol
Your profile says you "would LOVE to try a FFM fantasy""
In fairness to the OP, what man doesn't want an ffm?
Just because his profile doesn't mean he's angling his partner to this. |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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I mean. I know this could be a controversial suggestion. But.
Talk to her about if it's even something she wants to explore? Then talk to HER about how SHE would like to explore it and if she even wants you involved in that. |
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