"Looking for honest constructive feedback on my profile "
Hello OP,
From the top:
'Something a little different' - Is that you referring to yourself as something a little different, or what you are looking for?
Your status is one of the first things people see, and form an impression from. Posting your current status: 'Actually any normal people on here !! Seriously what goes through some people’s heads !!!' is negative, and although it may make you feel better the person your talking about probably will never know, but everyone else will just assume that you can't handle rejection and will give you a wide berth. It's always easier to chat with positive people.
'I would prefer to contact people who’s profiles grab my attention' - Very true, we all would. Do you think your profile is likely to grab others attention?
'I will not be meeting just anybody I do have a certain type that I’m looking for' - Why not describe that type, it'll save people that don't meet if from wasting your time or theirs.
You've said that you won't post pics on your profile, but as that is one of they key things to make/break a profile it is a shame, but entirely your choice.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Looking for honest constructive feedback on my profile
Hello OP,
From the top:
'Something a little different' - Is that you referring to yourself as something a little different, or what you are looking for?
Your status is one of the first things people see, and form an impression from. Posting your current status: 'Actually any normal people on here !! Seriously what goes through some people’s heads !!!' is negative, and although it may make you feel better the person your talking about probably will never know, but everyone else will just assume that you can't handle rejection and will give you a wide berth. It's always easier to chat with positive people.
'I would prefer to contact people who’s profiles grab my attention' - Very true, we all would. Do you think your profile is likely to grab others attention?
'I will not be meeting just anybody I do have a certain type that I’m looking for' - Why not describe that type, it'll save people that don't meet if from wasting your time or theirs.
You've said that you won't post pics on your profile, but as that is one of they key things to make/break a profile it is a shame, but entirely your choice.
Good luck "
Exactly the type of feedback I was hoping for, thank very much for taking time to read it, I agree I need to change some of the points you’ve raised |
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The something a little different is in relation to both, I will definitely describe the type of person/people I’m hoping to make contact with a bit more but was kind of hoping that my profile would attract those, I did have my pictures public but found I just got pointless messages from people that clearly didn’t read my profile so my thinking was I can just attach them to replies or messages I send. I suppose we all have different views and that’s why I wanted this feedback x |
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