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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Been on here a few months now with not much luck, any advice would be appreciated

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Type profile advice into the search forum bit and read the numerous threads

Take a look at successful male profiles from the lounge forum.

Get involved in threads, socials and clubs.

Good luck

Peach x

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By *oelDorianMan over a year ago

vanaheim

Your age will work against you op and maybe try clubs also maybe in your bio write more about yourself and what you’re looking for

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By *tephTV67TV/TS over a year ago

Cheshire

That picture with the cum on your stomach will definitely put some off, maybe put that into Friends only.

Good to see you've put down who you're not interested in, but also do the opposite and highlight who you do want to meet.

It's your profile and it allows others to get a taste of you as a person, more is better, if the pictures interest the lady, the profile is the icing

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you for the advice ladies and gentlemen

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By *arbellsWoman over a year ago

Cambridge

Are they dirty socks or washing in one of your pictures? If so I would delete or crop them out.

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By *revaunanceCouple over a year ago

Exeter

Hello OP,

Firstly, you will need to accept some facts. Some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret. Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age distance etc.

Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet. If it says they are looking for a bi guy, or a chubby guy, that's not you so don't waste your time or theirs.

Now, providing you have sent a message that will entice them to look further, they will 99% of the time look at your profile before responding. So now you have to sell yourself. At this point some people will be put off by you being in the military, but others will love it.

The line 'Military lad looking for women to go down on is a bit OTT for us, but it's your choice how you want to make a first impression.

Your profile reads ok, but you could however delete the 'No M MM TV/CD'. Simply block them from messaging here: https://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters

Several of your pics are near identical, add some variety. Face pics are best, cock pics are generally not required in your public profile. Anything in between is great.

However your profile is not everything. You are already using the forum which is a good way of getting to know people, and you should use the chatroom too. However you can rely on the site alone so get off the site and meet people socially or try a club.

Good luck.

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