"Fell for someone on here...."
fell for as in think she is fab or fell for as in you dont like the idea of her fucking other people...
remember swinging doesnt mean no emotions, it means no jealousy |
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"Think you may be confusing falling for and lust, if not do you really think you can have fallen for someone in three weeks on here"
I fell for my partner the moment i met him... and told him so 2 weeks later and luckily he told me back :D |
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"Think you may be confusing falling for and lust, if not do you really think you can have fallen for someone in three weeks on here
I fell for my partner the moment i met him... and told him so 2 weeks later and luckily he told me back :D"
+1
We both knew instantly. He asked me to marry him after 3 weeks. We've been married almost 11 years now and still as much in love as the first day we met.
that being said I think alot of people do mistake lust for love. xx |
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"Fell for someone on here....
Been on here for 3 weeks have you even met her or it could be infatuation sorry if that sounds harsh"
+1
Get real mate. Love takes months if not years to develop. |
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Words wisdom given to me years ago "the first 3 months are lust"! As a general rule of thumb I think this is a sensible approach to emotional attachment.  |
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"Fell for someone on here....
Been on here for 3 weeks have you even met her or it could be infatuation sorry if that sounds harsh
+1
Get real mate. Love takes months if not years to develop."
dont talk such rot.
i loved Em before we even met, FACT |
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By *ilandlarryCouple
over a year ago
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"Think you may be confusing falling for and lust, if not do you really think you can have fallen for someone in three weeks on here
I fell for my partner the moment i met him... and told him so 2 weeks later and luckily he told me back :D"
I did too but don't tell him that! lol
We met at a social 6 years ago this year, been married for almost 4 and have a son together.
It can happen .... |
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"Fell for someone on here....
Been on here for 3 weeks have you even met her or it could be infatuation sorry if that sounds harsh
+1
Get real mate. Love takes months if not years to develop."
Until 14 months ago I would have agreed with you
But the day we met we both felt exactly the same
I now believe fully in love at first sight and everyday it goes from strength to strength xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Seems such a shame that so many posters appear to be trying to piss on the OP's parade.
Why not just wish him the best of luck instead of pulling him to bits and attempting to discredit his feelings ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think you may be confusing falling for and lust, if not do you really think you can have fallen for someone in three weeks on here
lol...I did....actually it was more like three hours "
Aye and what a story that links our two relationships ah Chezza?
Ya couldn't make it up xx |
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"Words wisdom given to me years ago "the first 3 months are lust"! As a general rule of thumb I think this is a sensible approach to emotional attachment. "
I agree with this...... we just "went with the flow" for the first few months....we acknowledged we had developed into a relationship after four months but even then didn't use the "L" word till we'd been together five months.......and here we are 19 months along and very happy |
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"Aye and what a story that links our two relationships ah Chezza?
Ya couldn't make it up xx
Indeedy....."someone" was certainly listening to our conversation that evening "
Aye they sure were and look where it got us both pmsl xx |
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"Words wisdom given to me years ago "the first 3 months are lust"! As a general rule of thumb I think this is a sensible approach to emotional attachment.
I agree with this...... we just "went with the flow" for the first few months....we acknowledged we had developed into a relationship after four months but even then didn't use the "L" word till we'd been together five months.......and here we
are 19 months along and very happy "
Aye and I had ta tell ya ya were a couple lol xx |
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"Think you may be confusing falling for and lust, if not do you really think you can have fallen for someone in three weeks on here
I fell for my partner the moment i met him... and told him so 2 weeks later and luckily he told me back :D
+1
We both knew instantly. He asked me to marry him after 3 weeks. We've been married almost 11 years now and still as much in love as the first day we met.
that being said I think alot of people do mistake lust for love. xx"
We were the same! :D Although we still lust after each other too! :D |
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"Think you may be confusing falling for and lust, if not do you really think you can have fallen for someone in three weeks on here
I fell for my partner the moment i met him... and told him so 2 weeks later and luckily he told me back :D
+1
We both knew instantly. He asked me to marry him after 3 weeks. We've been married almost 11 years now and still as much in love as the first day we met.
that being said I think alot of people do mistake lust for love. xx
We were the same! :D Although we still lust after each other too! :D"
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"Words wisdom given to me years ago "the first 3 months are lust"! As a general rule of thumb I think this is a sensible approach to emotional attachment.
I agree with this...... we just "went with the flow" for the first few months....we acknowledged we had developed into a relationship after four months but even then didn't use the "L" word till we'd been together five months.......and here we are 19 months along and very happy "
Same thing happened to us, after 6 months we moved in together and last year we got married. Its not as rare as you think, know a good few couples who met through swinging and are now very happy |
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"Fell for someone on here....
Been on here for 3 weeks have you even met her or it could be infatuation sorry if that sounds harsh
+1
Get real mate. Love takes months if not years to develop."
Well, according to a previous post, you're wrong. 
Whatever it is OP, you need to talk about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It happens
And when it is not reciprocated it hurts, just as it does in the real world
And it can take a long time to get over, just as it does in the real world |
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"Fell for someone on here....
Been on here for 3 weeks have you even met her or it could be infatuation sorry if that sounds harsh
+1
Get real mate. Love takes months if not years to develop.
dont talk such rot.
i loved Em before we even met, FACT"
everyones different tho, i couldnt love someone i had never met, nor could i fall in love with someone after a matter of week, have feeling for them maybe, feel i may be falling for them maybe but for me it would take much longer than that before i knew for sure i loved someone, for me love is not being able to live without someone and i know for a fact that if i had only meet someone a few times over a matter of weeks if i never saw them again it wouldnt shatter my world and it deffo wouldnt if i had never met them |
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By *aris23Woman
over a year ago
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I feel hook, line and sinker for someone here but it was a non-starter. 3 years later, even though he is still a friend, I am still telling myself to forget about him romantically. Talk to her and see if she feels the same and good luck to you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It happens
And when it is not reciprocated it hurts, just as it does in the real world
And it can take a long time to get over, just as it does in the real world"
Yep!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I met a guy (not on here). We were FBs for 12 months. He gets married in 3 weeks.
He has no idea how I feel.
Hurts like hell.
At the end of the day people are people and sometimes you meet people that you just, well, reaLly like !! |
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