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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all,
I'm brand new to this scene and site and looking for some advice.
What should I be putting in my profile?
How do you approach someone you're interested in?
That sort of thing, and also...
Are cocks photos needed?
Thanks in advance
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Just be you...
Advice will be contradictory..
Some will say show us yr cock others say put it away..Some will say acknowledge your bi.side others say lie etc
Give it a probation period and then tweek accordingly.
The main thing is to enjoy it..Have fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is no magic formula. Be yourself and treat people the way you would if you met them in a bar.
Single guys need to work a bit harder to be noticed but using the site facilities like forums and chatrooms help as does attending socials and clubs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't expect to get meets straight away, it is at least 10-1 ratio of women to men. Don't take rejections personally. Use humour in messages and be your self.
Good pics and being able to accommodate help.
Good luck op |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't expect to get meets straight away, it is at least 10-1 ratio of women to men. Don't take rejections personally. Use humour in messages and be your self.
Good pics and being able to accommodate help.
Good luck op"
Cheers |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There is no magic formula. Be yourself and treat people the way you would if you met them in a bar.
Single guys need to work a bit harder to be noticed but using the site facilities like forums and chatrooms help as does attending socials and clubs. "
Is it as simple as just turning up to a club, I'm local to chams |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just be you...
Advice will be contradictory..
Some will say show us yr cock others say put it away..Some will say acknowledge your bi.side others say lie etc
Give it a probation period and then tweek accordingly.
The main thing is to enjoy it..Have fun."
Yep I've definitely noticed that |
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Hello OP,
First thing that you must realise is that we are all different and what some like others don't.
In general, you will enjoy this site more if you expect nothing, get involved in the forums and chatroom, if you have a discrete cock pic not a complete Berlin Wall of cock pics on your profile and if you relax and get to know people.
Good luck  |
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Is it as simple as just turning up to a club, I'm local to chams"
It can be but you might get better results if you attend a couple of local socials first. That way when you get to Chams there will probably be people you know. Be social, talk to people and not just the ones you want to shag. People know people and one of their friends might just be the best meet of your life. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Is it as simple as just turning up to a club, I'm local to chams
It can be but you might get better results if you attend a couple of local socials first. That way when you get to Chams there will probably be people you know. Be social, talk to people and not just the ones you want to shag. People know people and one of their friends might just be the best meet of your life."
How do you find out about local socials? Sorry if it's an obvious answer |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hello OP,
First thing that you must realise is that we are all different and what some like others don't.
In general, you will enjoy this site more if you expect nothing, get involved in the forums and chatroom, if you have a discrete cock pic not a complete Berlin Wall of cock pics on your profile and if you relax and get to know people.
Good luck "
Thanks |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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Here's something a lady posted... https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/879358
And another useful one from a single male...
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/8538.
You'd do well to read these, there's also advice on my profile for newbies and people who aren't getting meets should you wish to use it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In contrast to saccharine tone with which it is usually said, being yourself actually is the right advice. Not because it will help you get meets, that will be determined almost exclusively by factors either partially or entirely outside of your control.
Be yourself because ultimately trying to be someone else won't increase your odds so you might as well be you  |
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