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Shaving advice for crossdresser
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi.
I so want to shave my legs.
The problem is my other half doesn’t know about my dressing up.
What excuse could I give her for shaving my legs.
Has anyone got any tips. Medical reasons etc.
I’m not a sporty person. So saying I’m taking up cycling or swimming is not a reason.
Any advice please. Xx. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got d*unk?
I fancied a change?
First time I shaved mine was because I was wearing fishnets to Rocky Horror which didn't raise any eyebrows, and your luck is in as it's currently touring the UK. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I got d*unk?
I fancied a change?
First time I shaved mine was because I was wearing fishnets to Rocky Horror which didn't raise any eyebrows, and your luck is in as it's currently touring the UK."
Thanks.
Always a difficult one this xx
Nice photo by the way xx |
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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago
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You don't need anyone's permission to shave or wax your legs.
Just go do it.
When your partner wonders why, it is because you like the smooth feeling for a change.
No need to lie - that will cause more damage to your relationship than simply not telling the whole story.
Hope this helps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi, just an outside perspective. I understand if now's not the right time for you to be truthful with your partner. And if that's the case I'd say claim a skin condition with the need of applying lotion/moisturiser perhaps? |
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Buy a bike and cycling shorts and cycle for fun then say that shaving you legs helps and Our so your going to lose a few pounds and the sex will be better than b4 then it's a win win for you both x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The more effort you put into the reason, the more 'suspicious' it would seem.
I doubt very much your other half would care anyway, but something simple like "I wondered what it was like to have smooth legs so stole your shaving foam from the bathroom, check me out!" would probably work |
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I agree with the, was just curious to see what it felt like excuse. Then just see what they say, if they are OK with it just carry on. I would say tho, it's not a nice feeling when it's growing back. Itchy, ingrowing hairs and spots etc. I'm saving to get mine lasered atm. |
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It’s summertime x
You are sick of having hairy legs x
Start by clippering them back to a nice short length x
Then in a few weeks x
Have a trim and tidy up x
Ask your S.O to run her hand along your legs saying how much better it feels for you x
Say you think you’ve discovered Manscaping!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks everyone.
Some great ideas there.
Oh. To answer the question.
I hide all my stuff at a very good friends house
She looks after everything for me. Xx.
Working on this at the moment.
Last night I was telling her my legs seem very itchy x. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How about not trying to make a fool of the person you married. "
Thank you for the message.
As you don’t know my personal situation I would suggest you keep those comments to your self.
I’m more than happy to take constructive advice and help.
But if you have issues then keep them to yourself.
Most people in here have messaged on this forum and to me privately with help and advice.
If you are that way inclined to judge someone without knowing the full reasons. Then shame on you.
Fab is a good place for most.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How about not trying to make a fool of the person you married.
The OP asked for advice not condemnation!"
Thank you for that comment. It is greatly appreciated. Xx. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How about not trying to make a fool of the person you married.
The OP asked for advice not condemnation!
Thank you for that comment. It is greatly appreciated. Xx. "
You are welcome. The other comment was completely uncalled for x |
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"How about not trying to make a fool of the person you married.
Thank you for the message.
As you don’t know my personal situation I would suggest you keep those comments to your self.
I’m more than happy to take constructive advice and help.
But if you have issues then keep them to yourself.
Most people in here have messaged on this forum and to me privately with help and advice.
If you are that way inclined to judge someone without knowing the full reasons. Then shame on you.
Fab is a good place for most.
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Perhaps she already knows or at least suspects and revealing your interest would be a huge relief to you both.
Mind you, one TV at a club told me that his wife attacked and punched him when told. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you to everybody that has taken the time to reply to me privately or on here with advice and help.
Your comments are greatly appreciated xxx
Thank you all xxx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you to everybody that has taken the time to reply to me privately or on here with advice and help.
Your comments are greatly appreciated xxx
Thank you all xxx
Good luck lovely. Let us know how it goes! x
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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Hi, just an outside perspective. I understand if now's not the right time for you to be truthful with your partner. And if that's the case I'd say claim a skin condition with the need of applying lotion/moisturiser perhaps?"
Yes that is a good one
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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All smooth now.
Went perfectly.
Love the feeling of smooth legs. Xx
All rinsed off x bit messy doing it but was my first time x
Thank you all my great friends xx |
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"All smooth now.
Went perfectly.
Love the feeling of smooth legs. Xx
All rinsed off x bit messy doing it but was my first time x
Thank you all my great friends xx "
Oooh brill, smooth silky legs feel so nice.
What did you tell your OH in the end?
Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I told her I had itchy legs. Then a friend at university had done research and it could be due to the fact as you get older your hairs get coarse x.
Then when in Tescos I saw veet on 1/2 price x
So just said I would give it a go xxx |
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"I told her I had itchy legs. Then a friend at university had done research and it could be due to the fact as you get older your hairs get coarse x.
Then when in Tescos I saw veet on 1/2 price x
So just said I would give it a go xxx "
Brill...does she like your smooth legs?
I hope the itching goes away
Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Smooth legs are just the sexiest. I shave mine pretty much everyday in the shower which is bit of a task considering they are 36inches long but its so worth the effort.
Hope it goes ok with your partner
Mine was fine as they realised how sexy it makes me feel which has a knock on effect |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I told her I had itchy legs. Then a friend at university had done research and it could be due to the fact as you get older your hairs get coarse x.
Then when in Tescos I saw veet on 1/2 price x
So just said I would give it a go xxx
Brill...does she like your smooth legs?
I hope the itching goes away
Xx"
She hasn’t seen my smooth legs yet. She was working last night.
Amazingly the itching has completely gone.
Sorry may have to keep this up xx.
What a pain lol xx |
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"Well. First time wearing stockings with smooth legs xx. Must say. Very very nice xx "
And has Mrs noticed/commented? (On your smoothness, not stockings - that's a whole other thread right there)!
You could always say now that the weather's getting warmer (in theory) you want to keep up with the smoothness. In Winter say it's now become a habit! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well. First time wearing stockings with smooth legs xx. Must say. Very very nice xx
And has Mrs noticed/commented? (On your smoothness, not stockings - that's a whole other thread right there)!
You could always say now that the weather's getting warmer (in theory) you want to keep up with the smoothness. In Winter say it's now become a habit!"
She’s been working night shifts. So when she has been home I’ve been at work.
Xx.
But plan to stay smooth now x. |
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