 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Do any other gals ( or boys) really struggle with these websites? To put things bluntly I can pull on a night out or real life and came here looking for something different. For example, very well hung or 2 bisexual boys. I make it exceedingly obvious and I just get bombarded with messages saying "I'm not what you're looking for but..." Or "I'm 10inches.." and said guy precedes to send fake or massively exagerated pictures. If I put my pictures on I'm getting 200+ messages so it seems lose lose. Anyone with advice or similar experiences ? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Without knowing what was on your profile before its hard to say.
However, as a woman and a young one, I suspect you were inundated by crap...
I would suggest that you block everyone, and search for yourself. The other option, if you want, is clubs. Clubs are generally a really safe place for ladies to meet. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Without knowing what was on your profile before its hard to say.
However, as a woman and a young one, I suspect you were inundated by crap...
I would suggest that you block everyone, and search for yourself. The other option, if you want, is clubs. Clubs are generally a really safe place for ladies to meet."
Is it common for girls to go solo at clubs? And oh I'm cringing internally so badly but how would I know if a guys like hung or bi at a club? Are people naked or is it quite a social experience in general ? I mean I'm guessing you can make of it what you want but any advice greatly appreciated  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
As the male half of a couple who still don't know if they want to dabble or not, it's quite obvious the site is full of guys who will chance their arms on hoping females will say yes to anything even if it's out of their preference range |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Yep, same here. As above, delete and block seems to be the way forward x
Girl1234 are you related to Grace Chatto??"
No, but thanks.
I get a lot of “are you in clean bandit?” I must have one of those faces |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Without knowing what was on your profile before its hard to say.
However, as a woman and a young one, I suspect you were inundated by crap...
I would suggest that you block everyone, and search for yourself. The other option, if you want, is clubs. Clubs are generally a really safe place for ladies to meet.
Is it common for girls to go solo at clubs? And oh I'm cringing internally so badly but how would I know if a guys like hung or bi at a club? Are people naked or is it quite a social experience in general ? I mean I'm guessing you can make of it what you want but any advice greatly appreciated "
Have sent you a PM  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *oJo69ukCouple
over a year ago
LONDON |
Ehhh do you realise how rare 8.5 inch+ cocks are in the population?
0.01%, that's one tenth of one percent of the population.
They are out there, but needle in a haystack comes to mind.
I'm sure you'll find what you are looking for, but it may take some patience.
Good luck! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"As the male half of a couple who still don't know if they want to dabble or not, it's quite obvious the site is full of guys who will chance their arms on hoping females will say yes to anything even if it's out of their preference range"
I get at least a handful of messages a day saying "I know you're not looking for x, but..." block. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"As the male half of a couple who still don't know if they want to dabble or not, it's quite obvious the site is full of guys who will chance their arms on hoping females will say yes to anything even if it's out of their preference range
I get at least a handful of messages a day saying "I know you're not looking for x, but..." block. "
Does blocking people give you a sense of satisfaction and power?? Be honest  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Do any other gals ( or boys) really struggle with these websites? To put things bluntly I can pull on a night out or real life and came here looking for something different. For example, very well hung or 2 bisexual boys. I make it exceedingly obvious and I just get bombarded with messages saying "I'm not what you're looking for but..." Or "I'm 10inches.." and said guy precedes to send fake or massively exagerated pictures. If I put my pictures on I'm getting 200+ messages so it seems lose lose. Anyone with advice or similar experiences ?"
Block all single men , get searching and send the first messages yourself, let me know how you get on  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"As the male half of a couple who still don't know if they want to dabble or not, it's quite obvious the site is full of guys who will chance their arms on hoping females will say yes to anything even if it's out of their preference range
I get at least a handful of messages a day saying "I know you're not looking for x, but..." block.
Does blocking people give you a sense of satisfaction and power?? Be honest "
No.
If you think you can get around my boundaries, you're not a safe person, and I'll do what I can to eject you from my life. It's defensive. I'm glad you don't understand. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"As the male half of a couple who still don't know if they want to dabble or not, it's quite obvious the site is full of guys who will chance their arms on hoping females will say yes to anything even if it's out of their preference range
I get at least a handful of messages a day saying "I know you're not looking for x, but..." block.
Does blocking people give you a sense of satisfaction and power?? Be honest
No.
If you think you can get around my boundaries, you're not a safe person, and I'll do what I can to eject you from my life. It's defensive. I'm glad you don't understand. "
I see, you really should lighten up a bit, you take yourself and this site far to seriously |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *JohnMan
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
"Is it common for girls to go solo at clubs? And oh I'm cringing internally so badly but how would I know if a guys like hung or bi at a club? Are people naked or is it quite a social experience in general ?"
I only have experience with one club (not far from you), but from what I understand it's not an unusual one. Full nudity in the social areas is rare. If you want to see what equipment a man is carrying, spend some time in the hot tub, or visit the public play rooms and see them in action.
To find out if they're bi, it's probably best to ask. I rarely see any bi male action there, and it's not like they carry bi ID tags.
There are quite a few single women who go to clubs. It's a much safer environment than many of the options.
The club I go to is very social. It's quite possible to spend the whole night in the bar or hot tub, not play at all, and go home satisfied. Of course, the option is always there should someone catch your eye. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"As the male half of a couple who still don't know if they want to dabble or not, it's quite obvious the site is full of guys who will chance their arms on hoping females will say yes to anything even if it's out of their preference range
I get at least a handful of messages a day saying "I know you're not looking for x, but..." block.
Does blocking people give you a sense of satisfaction and power?? Be honest
No.
If you think you can get around my boundaries, you're not a safe person, and I'll do what I can to eject you from my life. It's defensive. I'm glad you don't understand.
I see, you really should lighten up a bit, you take yourself and this site far to seriously "
There are dangerous people out there and I don't want to become a statistic. I'm so dreadfully sorry that I look out for my safety  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
