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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So, I'm relatively new to this and pretty inexperienced with the whole online thing, is there anything objectively wrong with my profile and how I'm presenting myself, or is it just because I'm new?
I'd appreciate any and all feedback no matter how harsh it is! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You are looking for a woman under 26 into bondage, masochism and piercings. I think the number of people on this site who fit your requirements will be small. Good luck. "
Sounds like a swingers site is less likely to have those sort of females sat on their display shelving than say a bondage site...  |
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"You are looking for a woman under 26 into bondage, masochism and piercings. I think the number of people on this site who fit your requirements will be small. Good luck.
Sounds like a swingers site is less likely to have those sort of females sat on their display shelving than say a bondage site... "
I definitely agree - you’re more likely to have success on a Fetish lifestyle site than a Swingers site
Don’t change what you’re looking for - just change where you’re looking!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You are looking for a woman under 26 into bondage, masochism and piercings. I think the number of people on this site who fit your requirements will be small. Good luck.
Sounds like a swingers site is less likely to have those sort of females sat on their display shelving than say a bondage site...
I definitely agree - you’re more likely to have success on a Fetish lifestyle site than a Swingers site
Don’t change what you’re looking for - just change where you’re looking! "
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"So, are you saying to expand my range in what I'm looking for or? "
Why would you change your preferences based on a passing comment from a stranger. Your preferences are yours, not anybody else's. But you should be realistic that there won't be many people that meet what you are looking for. |
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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago
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Never seen the point in rewriting your profile based on what others want to see. It's your profile. It should be written and worded by you. That's the whole point. It shows people what you are about and how present yourself to others. At this rate everyone will have the same profiles just because it's what people want to hear or see.
Be yourself and others will either love or hate you. But at least you're being you. |
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"So, I'm relatively new to this and pretty inexperienced with the whole online thing, is there anything objectively wrong with my profile and how I'm presenting myself, or is it just because I'm new?
I'd appreciate any and all feedback no matter how harsh it is! "
Sounds like you should be looking on a fetish site. Try, ‘FETLIFE’.
If you want to be a Dominant, you must remember to have complete respect for your Sub. Don’t assume someone is just going to do whatever you
want without discussion. |
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I think the niche market that you’re looking for, would be in the minority on here. Also because of your location even smaller pool.
Try specialised Club nights, even Swingers clubs have Fet nights |
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