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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Difficult to say without knowing your current level of knowledge or interest or whether you have particular styles or activities that interest you - but to give some generic thoughts from a male submissive perspective:
Read as much as you can on the subject either on-line or in books (Screw The Roses Bring Me The Thorns and SM101 As well as the other well known fetish site are good places to start) - this will help give you an idea of the type of Domme you think you might be.
Get along to any local munches near you - these are socials for the kink community where you can talk to other more experienced people.
Complete some on-line BDSM questionnaires which again will help you understand your interests and styles.
If you have a prospective submissive you are talking to - talk to them openly and honestly about their desires and expectations and see how they match up to your own.
Be sure to consider not only the limits of a submissive but your own also, and always remember any play should be safe, sane, informed and consensual.
All of the above are good starting points to help you on your way  |
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