Hey all, I've just started a new relationship with a sub on line.....
Pretty new to this type of relationship and would be grateful for any assistance in how to build this, tasks, punishments etc.
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over a year ago
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"Question and forgive my naivety.
What the heck is an on line sub? "
I think possibly a bit of a tease? In my opinion you can't really develop sub Dom relationships properly without face to face interaction? But of course it would suit some I suppose??? |
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"Surely it’s best to discuss the ins & outs of the relationship & expectations before getting into something you’re new to?
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Couldn't agree more! I've never ceased to be amazed by the darkness of some seemingly innocent girls, I think it would be true to say that all my experience has come from getting to know girls and finding what their needs were...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Question and forgive my naivety.
What the heck is an on line sub?
It's for people who like to talk about things online but never meet."
Literally this.
It’s not possible to have a D/S relationship with someone you don’t know & have never met! |
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"Surely it’s best to discuss the ins & outs of the relationship & expectations before getting into something you’re new to?
Couldn't agree more! I've never ceased to be amazed by the darkness of some seemingly innocent girls, I think it would be true to say that all my experience has come from getting to know girls and finding what their needs were... "
‘Innocent girls’?
Cough....
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surely it’s best to discuss the ins & outs of the relationship & expectations before getting into something you’re new to?
Couldn't agree more! I've never ceased to be amazed by the darkness of some seemingly innocent girls, I think it would be true to say that all my experience has come from getting to know girls and finding what their needs were...
‘Innocent girls’?
Cough....
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"Question and forgive my naivety.
What the heck is an on line sub?
I think possibly a bit of a tease? In my opinion you can't really develop sub Dom relationships properly without face to face interaction? But of course it would suit some I suppose??? "
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"Hey all, I've just started a new relationship with a sub on line.....
Pretty new to this type of relationship and would be grateful for any assistance in how to build this, tasks, punishments etc.
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Firstly OP - are you sure this "sub" is a woman? And not some bloke sat wanking? My alarm bells would be ringing at the on-line only thing.
Secondly, if you don't know where to start with a D/s relationship - do you really think it's the right thing to enter into totally blind? Perhaps take a step back and inform yourself before going any further - and by that I mean really informing yourself through reading books on the subject and being sure that a Dom is who you really are/want to be - it's a heck of a lot more than the 50SOG or BDSM porn image portrays.
Whilst on-line D/s does happen it's generally no more than a kinky form of cybersex with perhaps some tasks thrown in for the sub to do and prove they have done - if that's what floats your boat then I'll not criticise but it's a fairly false sense of D/s too. |
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You can definitely have part of a D/s relationship via message and phone but you would also need to meet up with them too.
You would need to set very strict boundaries, ask for pics and proof always or videos (I do it via WhatsApp)
I have just taken on a sub (I am always sub and I have had Domme experience before but never a D/s with me being the D! But then I am also a sub too. So the dynamic is kinda strange)
What I mean is.. There's nothing set in stone. You do what is right for you and the other person. Don't let people give you shit. I've been told I'm vanilla by some Dom before and they gave me a load of shit because I didn't live the lifestyle but that doesn't work for me. I am definitely not sub outside of the bedroom.
Anyway why not just have an experience with this person. At least you gain some new experiences and should be fun! If you want any help for tasks etc inbox me I'd be happy to chat - completely non judgemental.
Btw to all the people who post online disagreeing with people. Just because you think you are right, and your way is right.. Doesn't mean it is. Everyone is different. |
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I recently had a on line sub who sent pics of every tasks set. Ie pegging hot wax dressed in suspender belt and collar only. Standing in a cold shower as punishment. Unfortunately we were on hangouts and my phone lost connection and have been unable to retrieve. So i just have the memory of it now as i can not contact her. She was a good sub. |
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