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"My cuck is testing me a little of late. I am looking for advice on punishments. He has a physical job and chastity didn’t work as it got painful. I am setting chores but I don’t know what else I can do? Help..." Tell your Bull and let him decide. | |||
"My cuck is testing me a little of late. I am looking for advice on punishments. He has a physical job and chastity didn’t work as it got painful. I am setting chores but I don’t know what else I can do? Help... Tell your Bull and let him decide." No bull in place just yet, hoping so soon. | |||
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"send him shopping to the supermarket, list is a cucumber a packet of condoms a tube of lube rules are no self scan tills, must be one with a member of staff and he must bring you the receipt showing those are ALL the purchases so he cant loose them in with other shopping. if you like the idea message me and maybe we can discus more !" Also add pile cream too In addition get him to purchase a fresh piece of ginger.... that will make him think twice  | |||
"My cuck is testing me a little of late. I am looking for advice on punishments. He has a physical job and chastity didn’t work as it got painful. I am setting chores but I don’t know what else I can do? Help..." Get him a better chastity cage that he can work in | |||
"My cuck is testing me a little of late. I am looking for advice on punishments. He has a physical job and chastity didn’t work as it got painful. I am setting chores but I don’t know what else I can do? Help... Get him a better chastity cage that he can work in" Can you recommend? Tried plastic and metal | |||
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"Make him wear sissy underwear , and make him wear just that when you are both at home and nothing else" Dabbled with that, sort of works | |||
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"My cuck is testing me a little of late. I am looking for advice on punishments. He has a physical job and chastity didn’t work as it got painful. I am setting chores but I don’t know what else I can do? Help..." I'd love to join you and help in your control over cuck. Drop me a message | |||
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"Does he respond more to pain or humiliation?" Humiliation | |||
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"Try several rubber bands around his cock and intrrmittent pics to ensure they are still on. Would he/you consider a genital piercing with a dog tag added. Dog tag to be engraved as you choose. Two piercings can be fastened together as another form of chastity. Hard to urinate though depending how it's done. Made him write on himself in pretty red lipstick last night Make him wank with backrub (have also been told toothpaste but not tried). How about figging (peeled raw ginger in anus). Write on him in marker pen on his torso/back/groin - dependent on sweating in job and uniform etc Not that I have ever done any of these things..... HONEST! " | |||
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"I made him write on himself in pretty red lipstick last night and go out to the cinema" I used to make mine go out on eyeliner. Sounds nothing but in his high powered job it was a problem for him..... I also sometimes chose his clothes and made him look a twat at work - totally uncoordinated  | |||
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"I made him write on himself in pretty red lipstick last night and go out to the cinema I used to make mine go out on eyeliner. Sounds nothing but in his high powered job it was a problem for him..... I also sometimes chose his clothes and made him look a twat at work - totally uncoordinated "so u done them lol | |||
"I made him write on himself in pretty red lipstick last night and go out to the cinema I used to make mine go out on eyeliner. Sounds nothing but in his high powered job it was a problem for him..... I also sometimes chose his clothes and made him look a twat at work - totally uncoordinated so u done them lol"The top line was me- I made him write on himself sorry to his angel | |||
"I made him write on himself in pretty red lipstick last night and go out to the cinema I used to make mine go out on eyeliner. Sounds nothing but in his high powered job it was a problem for him..... I also sometimes chose his clothes and made him look a twat at work - totally uncoordinated so u done them lol"Erm....  | |||
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"Pain/humiliation? Or both?" Humiliation but the usual shopping trips etc are not it | |||
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"send him shopping to the supermarket, list is a cucumber a packet of condoms a tube of lube rules are no self scan tills, must be one with a member of staff and he must bring you the receipt showing those are ALL the purchases so he cant loose them in with other shopping. if you like the idea message me and maybe we can discus more !" Astounding advice! Maybe a cucumber slicer on top. Recycling is very of the moment. | |||
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"Ignore everything he does and belittle everything Doesn’t it bore you?" Don’t know if it bores me, but I am finding the adjustment to dominance both difficult and interesting in equal measure | |||
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"I once had a date night with my ex cuck, we went to a rather swanky restaurant. He wore an inflatable buttplug with the pump covered by his suit jacket. I’d be discreetly pumping it up and deflating all through dinner. His face was utterly priceless, loved the bouts of struggle, embarrassment and discomfort (;" That is interesting | |||
"My cuck is testing me a little of late. I am looking for advice on punishments. He has a physical job and chastity didn’t work as it got painful. I am setting chores but I don’t know what else I can do? Help..." From now on You take complete control of the relationship. You make all the choices for things like - where you go on holiday, where you go out for a drink, where you got out for a meal, what days/times you go out, etc. Cuck does what you want and when you want. He has no choice. Make decisions without consulting him. His opinions don't matter. When you are out at a restaurant, starbucks, etc, order for cuck. Never let him order for himself. Get cuck to do all household chores such as cooking, cleaning, washing, ironing, errands, decorating, other DIY, taking the bins out, running you a bath, etc. You should live like a Queen. He should do ALL the work at home. Get cuck to call you mistress at all times. Get cuck to address your bulls/lovers as sir. From now cuck is only allowed to give you oral sex for your pleasure. Get cuck to find suitable lovers for you. In social settings, speak about cuck as if he is not there. Share some things that cuck might find embarrassing. Get cuck to wear frilly knickers every day. Make cuck go into a lingerie store, or the ladies department of a store and buy panties. Make sure the size matches his waist so it is clear who they are for. Make him ask for directions to the area where he can find his size. Every time you go out with cuck for a meal, a drink, shopping, etc openly flirt with guys. When you go out with cuck always dress provocatively/sexily. Get cuck to get you ready for meets with lovers - bathe you, shave you, iron your clothes, put your perfume on, etc. When you have a meet at home tie cuck up and blindfold him so he can only listen to you having sex. Shout out louidly how much you are enjoying having sex with your bull. Tell cuck how much better your lover is at sex. If you are having sex in a hotel or your lovers home, tie cuck up and sit him by a PC. Take a laptop with you. When you are having sex let cuck watch you on your laptop webcam. Do not allow your cuck to masturbate or cum for two weeks solid. Make cuck suck your lovers cock hard. Make cuck suck your lovers cock clean. If a lover cums over a part of your body get cuck to lick it clean. If a lover cums up your pussy sit on cucks face and make him eat all the cum from your pussy. When a lover is fucking you from behind get cuck underneath you. Make him watch the cock fuck your pussy. Make him lick your clit as the cock fucks your pussy. When cuck has been bad/naughty get a lover to fuck his arse. When cuck has been bad get a lover to fuck cucks mouth and cum in it. Make cuck swallow the cum. Make cuck buy your condoms. Make cuck go and buy you sexy clothes and sexy underwear that you can wear for meets. Fron now on cuck buys all your sexy underwear and clothes. If he gets it wrong punish him and make him take them back. No ordering from the Internet. He has to go to a real shop. Make cuck buy all your sex toys. No ordering from the Internet. He has to go to a real shop. Denials can be quite simple. They may well be the easiest punishments for you, the woman, to dole out. In part because all they require of you is to withhold something or require him to refrain from doing something. In this sense, they are sort-of an “anti-action”. The most obvious example of a denial is for you to withhold sex or an aspect of it from him. A common specific example is making him refrain from cumming. This has all sorts of benefits and plays a major role in keeping your man interested, compliant, and motivated. But, there are a virtually infinite number of other denials you can use to your benefit. Here are a few to consider: 1) Removing television privileges 2) Withholding free-time (making him stay home instead of being able to go out and play) 3) Prohibiting him from having treats or his favorite drink (no beer for you tonight, etc.) 4) Limiting what he eats and when (related to above, but includes meals) 5) No showering for a duration of your choosing (this is particularly personal and controlling). 6) Bathroom privileges (make him ask permission, this touches on humiliation as well). Buy some whips and a cane to punish cuck when he is naughty. Look at other punishment sex toys you can buy. Make cuck wear a butt plug. Make him buy it. Buy a strap on and fuck cucks arse. | |||
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"Ignore everything he does and belittle everything Doesn’t it bore you?" But like being married that one.. | |||
