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By *andm300 OP Man
over a year ago
guildford |
Should we remove the closeups of our genitals? Are we misleading guys? We are open to exceptional guys but not ready yet for private meets. We had a few hundred messages from guys which took hours to reply to them all. Some sent shitty messages and blocked us when we replied that we were not ready for meets outside of clubs. I thought we were clear in our profile we have only played soft so far with others in clubs. We like the idea of club meets so we don’t waste people’s time so much if we don’t click as there is other stuff going on. Any other feedback |
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Close up genital pics and action shots always seem to appeal more to single men than they do to couples and single ladies. If you choose to have graphic images and not use your message filters to limit those who can contact you then it is guaranteed you will get lots of messages.
Unfortunately many people don't take rejection well and they can become abusive and/or try to persuade you otherwise when you say no thanks. For this reason lots of people choose not to send rejections and just delete messages from people they aren't interested in. The site FAQs does state it's not rude to not reply to people.
Just do what feels right for you and don't worry too much about what others think. It's your profile and if you are happy with it then great.
Play around with your message filters to reduce the amount of mail you receive and if people are abusive then report them to admin and block them. |
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