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Can’t travel or accommodate
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over a year ago
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I know a someone like that, and the reason that is that she cannot drive plus she cannot accommodate but I can accommodate so I can pick her up and we have fun at my place, so that’s may be why, but also some maybe just timewasters who knows |
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I have this on my profile. I only meet local guys that can accommodate themselves. When I say I dont travel I'm meaning I dont travel far. I like to stick to my local town.
My free time is limited so I dont waste time travelling. And I dont have men in my house as my children are there.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have this on my profile. I only meet local guys that can accommodate themselves. When I say I dont travel I'm meaning I dont travel far. I like to stick to my local town.
My free time is limited so I dont waste time travelling. And I dont have men in my house as my children are there.
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Same here  I don't like being far from home incase something goes wrong, either at home or with me xxx |
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I have it on my profile because I will not invite a stranger into my home or travel anywhere far for a stranger. Once we have met and established a connection, how and where we meet would be between us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do people go about meeting if they can’t accommodate or travel?? We’ve come across a few that say this?
You pick em up and fuck em in the car"
Oh shit, I got that wrong |
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"How do people go about meeting if they can’t accommodate or travel?? We’ve come across a few that say this? "
It means they only have local meets and not at their home. Generally, the person does not have a car and travel is assumed to be longer distances. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How do people go about meeting if they can’t accommodate or travel?? We’ve come across a few that say this?
It means they only have local meets and not at their home. Generally, the person does not have a car and travel is assumed to be longer distances. "
Are you absolutely sure about that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How do people go about meeting if they can’t accommodate or travel?? We’ve come across a few that say this?
It means they only have local meets and not at their home. Generally, the person does not have a car and travel is assumed to be longer distances.
Are you absolutely sure about that?"
Or only meet at local clubs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How do people go about meeting if they can’t accommodate or travel?? We’ve come across a few that say this?
It means they only have local meets and not at their home. Generally, the person does not have a car and travel is assumed to be longer distances.
Are you absolutely sure about that?
Or only meet at local clubs."
Or not |
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Maybe we should have a distance field, that could indicate the likely distance of interest, however we are going to meet. And more options for where we meet, eg clubs, hotels, socials only, open to discussion, not meeting etc
Many people don't use cars, so walk, cycle, bus, train etc, so having the travel option only, seems to be being misinterpreted by some as distance being no object, if you've seen a cock pic or ten.
When I was in Australia, several people messaged asking for a meet within a few hours, in the UK. If we ever have more profile settings options, we could save the disappointment of the clueless and thoughtless, as well as keep inboxes quieter. |
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If you don't drive and have children you can be very limited. But not totally. I did this same thing initially. It also helped out a few of the less appealing folk and it didn't stop me having fun. Accommodate is vague. I dont want folk in my home during certain times.but there is no inbetween options to choose |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have this but in my blurb do add that I don't accommodate except for people I know well and won't travel unless the other person will too as I'm sick to death of people who won't accommodate for the same reasons (teenager at home) as I can't expecting to come to mine (no respect) and everyone expects me to travel but not them!! I get at that I live at the end of the world but if I can do 70/100 miles then so can they! (Whats brilliant is I don't have a car but have no problems getting anywhere!) |
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Problem is the the choice is far too narrow with only travel and/or accommodate. It's far too black and white and as we all well know the swinger world is full of grey areas.
We are strictly clubs only and we say we can travel (meaning to clubs) but we have had messages asking for a meet who then get all uppity when we point that out. Saying something like "why do you say you can travel then?"
It's the same as Bi or Bi curious. Again the choice is far too narrow. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have this and to me it means I will only go to clubs, no private meets at all. I've managed to keep it that way for 7 years being on and off this website throughout. |
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