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Does compliments work?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Going by what I read, women get hundreds of messages a week and they've probably read from the worst to the best messages in their inbox.

I was wondering does complimenting ladies work or is it just another compliment from another person?

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By *aven RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

Depends on the context it's given. Lavishing compliments in a first message is fake to me. Can usually tell if a compliment is genuine though x

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman over a year ago

Victoria, London

As above. I know what I am, and to have lashings of compliments is total bull shit. Eventually I block them

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"Going by what I read, women get hundreds of messages a week and they've probably read from the worst to the best messages in their inbox.

I was wondering does complimenting ladies work or is it just another compliment from another person?"

Fake compliments that are purely used to try and get your dick wet just piss me off lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Going by what I read, women get hundreds of messages a week and they've probably read from the worst to the best messages in their inbox.

I was wondering does complimenting ladies work or is it just another compliment from another person?"

We a couple profile constently get get guys useing the compliment method on first message generally they are ignored as they just start to look like copy paste jobs and lot them are.

You better reading some ones profile taking the time to write a message tailed to them what they looking for.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't take compliments from fab ... they don't know me so feel it's false and I'm happy with myself ... wrinkles and all!

To be fair though not a fan of compliments in life as they seem bandied about Willy nilly and not really meant. When person's done well etc then it's earnt and worthwhile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A personal message and some well-judged humour would be far more effective I would think. But you know, that requires effort, so you could try telling the faceless lady ‘You’re beautiful’ in the hope she’s only read it 200 times that day.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As above. I know what I am, and to have lashings of compliments is total bull shit. Eventually I block them"

Well when your as attractive as you