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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Were predominately exhibitionists, looking for the social side to make friends and then play in front of others, potentially with girl on girl.
We have visited chams and Xtasia once in the past and are looking to visit in the next few weeks. Were a little unsure as we don’t consider ourselves swingers, and would just like the social and playing in front of others side.
Is this ever an issue or frowned upon? Xx |
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it might be frowned on by some people, pretty much everything draws criticism in the forums. However most people understand that everyone plays in a way that suits them best and approach others with an open mind.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Shouldn't be an issue. Most clubs have some sort of facility especially for exhibitionists and voyeurs - I'm not sure if it's still there, but last time I was at Xtasia they had a private playroom with cctv camera that fed to a screen in the chillout room. |
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You should feel free to do as you wish.. no one can dictate what is or isn’t a swinger.. we have been to clubs many times and not played at all... sometimes the social aspect, and immersing yourselves into an alternative sexual environment is all the stimulation you might need |
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"Shouldn't be an issue. Most clubs have some sort of facility especially for exhibitionists and voyeurs - I'm not sure if it's still there, but last time I was at Xtasia they had a private playroom with cctv camera that fed to a screen in the chillout room."
This ^^^ the Xstasia camera room is made for you
Apart from that, loads of couples just play with each other in clubs, nothing unusual in that. Although we’ve been told it’s frowned upon in Germany lol. |
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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago
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"Were predominately exhibitionists, looking for the social side to make friends and then play in front of others, potentially with girl on girl.
We have visited chams and Xtasia once in the past and are looking to visit in the next few weeks. Were a little unsure as we don’t consider ourselves swingers, and would just like the social and playing in front of others side.
Is this ever an issue or frowned upon? Xx"
There are some on here who will frown upon anything that's different from the way they choose to play, we are here for very similar reasons to you, if others don't approve it's thier problem not yours, you play your games your way and by your rules and enjoy it. |
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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago
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Hi you can definately find what you are looking for on here. We are the same and have lots of meets and lots of fun. If you weren't so young we'd have loved to have met up.. In fact your age could be more of a problem than being 'just' exhibitionists.
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By *ragsterMan
over a year ago
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"Were predominately exhibitionists, looking for the social side to make friends and then play in front of others, potentially with girl on girl.
We have visited chams and Xtasia once in the past and are looking to visit in the next few weeks. Were a little unsure as we don’t consider ourselves swingers, and would just like the social and playing in front of others side.
Is this ever an issue or frowned upon? Xx"
Raving exhibitionist here...love being naked among other people and love being watched. .
"Crack on" i say.. |
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By *randMrsPCouple
over a year ago
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"Were predominately exhibitionists, looking for the social side to make friends and then play in front of others, potentially with girl on girl.
We have visited chams and Xtasia once in the past and are looking to visit in the next few weeks. Were a little unsure as we don’t consider ourselves swingers, and would just like the social and playing in front of others side.
Is this ever an issue or frowned upon? Xx"
This is exactly what we look for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We predominately go to clubs and play with each other it's the ambience for us. I male love the voyeuristic aspect of clubs so go on enjoy yourselves. Male  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Were predominately exhibitionists, looking for the social side to make friends and then play in front of others, potentially with girl on girl.
We have visited chams and Xtasia once in the past and are looking to visit in the next few weeks. Were a little unsure as we don’t consider ourselves swingers, and would just like the social and playing in front of others side.
Is this ever an issue or frowned upon? Xx"
Well it ain't swinging is it? |
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Never fear being crap swingers. We are sometimes. Like you were exhibitionist. We play with others but we wouldn't consider our selfs full swap (not in terms of penetrative sex). Sometimes we mess about, have a laugh and prop up the bar in a club. We are there to have a good time and some filthy fun in a club. We are not what we would consider serious swingers (We have met a few in our time). Serious sorts who a swinging hierarchy do exist, but just ignore them. We are at home in the club, we belong there whatever we do in there. The club is about being ourselves and having a good time together. Its not about meeting minimal quotas of how many couples you had hard core sex with. You like the rest of us misfits belong in a club and are just as entitaled to be there what ever you do or don't do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Were predominately exhibitionists, looking for the social side to make friends and then play in front of others, potentially with girl on girl.
We have visited chams and Xtasia once in the past and are looking to visit in the next few weeks. Were a little unsure as we don’t consider ourselves swingers, and would just like the social and playing in front of others side.
Is this ever an issue or frowned upon? Xx"
just enjoy yourself, that's what clubs are all about! |
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"Shouldn't be an issue. Most clubs have some sort of facility especially for exhibitionists and voyeurs - I'm not sure if it's still there, but last time I was at Xtasia they had a private playroom with cctv camera that fed to a screen in the chillout room."
It’s still there and a great suggestion for the OP |
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"At least you have an idea what you want. We still don’t know what we’re doing here! 
What? After a year! FFS!"
That’s very harsh sensualguy, the dynamics for a new swinging couple are a lot more complex than a single guy looking for sex |
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"Were predominately exhibitionists, looking for the social side to make friends and then play in front of others, potentially with girl on girl.
We have visited chams and Xtasia once in the past and are looking to visit in the next few weeks. Were a little unsure as we don’t consider ourselves swingers, and would just like the social and playing in front of others side.
Is this ever an issue or frowned upon? Xx
Well it ain't swinging is it?"
Oh Lordy sensualguy, that is swinging, what isn’t swinginging is a guy just wanting to get his rocks off!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Were predominately exhibitionists, looking for the social side to make friends and then play in front of others, potentially with girl on girl.
We have visited chams and Xtasia once in the past and are looking to visit in the next few weeks. Were a little unsure as we don’t consider ourselves swingers, and would just like the social and playing in front of others side.
Is this ever an issue or frowned upon? Xx
Well it ain't swinging is it?"
The purists say a single guy isn’t either. So what you doing here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"At least you have an idea what you want. We still don’t know what we’re doing here!
What? After a year! FFS!"
You’re one of those pushy guys in a club aren’t you? |
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"Were predominately exhibitionists, looking for the social side to make friends and then play in front of others, potentially with girl on girl.
We have visited chams and Xtasia once in the past and are looking to visit in the next few weeks. Were a little unsure as we don’t consider ourselves swingers, and would just like the social and playing in front of others side.
Is this ever an issue or frowned upon? Xx
Well it ain't swinging is it?
The purists say a single guy isn’t either. So what you doing here?"
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"At least you have an idea what you want. We still don’t know what we’re doing here!
What? After a year! FFS!"
I can see why you do so well on here. We didn’t realise that there was a timescale to adhere to for exploring our sexual boundaries. Maybe you should enlighten us as to which stage of the swinging lifestyle we should be on by now? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"it might be frowned on by some people, pretty much everything draws criticism in the forums. However most people understand that everyone plays in a way that suits them best and approach others with an open mind.
Crack on I say "
Agree entirely with this post. I've found most people in clubs happy to play at your level without overstepping your own personal boundaries?
Good luck and enjoy! |
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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago
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"Were predominately exhibitionists, looking for the social side to make friends and then play in front of others, potentially with girl on girl.
We have visited chams and Xtasia once in the past and are looking to visit in the next few weeks. Were a little unsure as we don’t consider ourselves swingers, and would just like the social and playing in front of others side.
Is this ever an issue or frowned upon? Xx
Well it ain't swinging is it?"
Neither is a single guy turning up at clubs without a partner to share, sounds like you have a bad attitude anyway, forum is a useful place for us to identify the twats we should be blocking before we accidentally meet them.  |
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Were trying to organise group Skype fun if any couples are interested
Skype can hold upto 10 cams so can have a great naughty laugh with other couples an see what happens
Pm us if your a couple and fancy it
It’s great fun but sure ain’t swinging lol |
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"Were predominately exhibitionists, looking for the social side to make friends and then play in front of others, potentially with girl on girl.
We have visited chams and Xtasia once in the past and are looking to visit in the next few weeks. Were a little unsure as we don’t consider ourselves swingers, and would just like the social and playing in front of others side.
Is this ever an issue or frowned upon? Xx"
Sounds like a pretty standard approach in a club to me!! Lots of couples play together rather than swapping, either 1 on 1 or with another person involved to create a threesome 
Townhouse has 4 different open playrooms where you can play openly for anyone to watch & there’s a great social side too. But generally, what you’re looking for is pretty normal practice in clubs |
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