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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We regularly spend periods of time apart due to Mr travelling. In order to keep Mrs 'entertained' during such times we are considering setting up a single profile for Mrs to meet predominantly couples and were wondering if any other couples have a similar arrangement and have any advice? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm in a relationship but meet other men (open to women but doesn't often happen) on my own. What kind of advice are you after? How to find others or how to make the arrangement work?"
Any ground rules? Ever caused any issues? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Discuss and agree boundaries and stick to them - these can be anything from type of play that is acceptable, whether you stay over with meets, whether meets are purely sex or have a social element too, frequency and anything else you can think of - they don't have to be completely set in stone, and can be flexible but should *only* changed after discussing and agreeing any changes.
It's essential that you maintain open and honest communication always, and don't let any possibility for doubts or insecurities to surface - give consideration to both of you having access to any profiles you may have to help with this.
Can't stress enough though the importance of being open and honest about everything  |
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"I'm in a relationship but meet other men (open to women but doesn't often happen) on my own. What kind of advice are you after? How to find others or how to make the arrangement work?
Any ground rules? Ever caused any issues?"
Ah I see. Yes we always tell each other beforehand. If we use our bed then we always change the sheets before and after. It took a lot of communication in the early days and it was a little exhausting and seemed never ending in the beginning but we've been doing it a while now so we're both a lot more relaxed. We both know and like each other's play partners too which I think helps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We both play solo and had single profiles for that reason but now tend to only do so with people we've met as a couple. Hence we shutdown the single profiles. But, lots of people do prefer a single profile if playing singly. |
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