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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Dumb question perhaps...

But are the conversations you have during a social much the same as those you would have on a regular date?

Or do people tend to turn the conversation more sexual than they would under any other circumstances

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

More sexual we have found .usually people talk about other meets they have had etc

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By *eardsandboobsCouple over a year ago

north of lincoln

It varies . We found we talked about our pets on our last social . Depends how the conversation goes . But yeah most people talk about previous experiences

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I just talk about normal stuff. Sex talk on a first social makes me feel a bit awkward. If a guy starts talking like that I assume he thinks I fancy him which might not be the case!!

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By *he Mac LassWoman over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I’ve had some great chats on social meets. I don’t do the traditional dating thing but I gather it’s just conversation. I guess the nature of Fab means it’s easier to chat about rude things without awkwardness.

My favourite socials are ones where I’m mobile - a walk along the seafront, waging 2p machine war in an arcade and even a go on the horse carousel. Much preferable to sitting with a copy hoping Doris at the next table is deaf. Don’t worry OP. Chat naturally and enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We don’t do social only meets but socialise with meets and at parties, anything and everything comes up but we avoid Brexit!

We enjoy the cheeky sexual banter hence we are not into meeting in inappropriate places like pubs etc x

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By *revaunanceCouple over a year ago

Exeter

We will talk about anything and everything.

Naturally the conversation can steer towards sex and swinging, but not always.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

More sexual than with friends from "normal" life but not in the sense of chatting explicitly about what we'd do to each other. We also chat about ordinary stuff such as the price of fish , the route we took to get there and hasn't the weather been funny lately

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By *alcon43Woman over a year ago

Paisley

It varies. Usually fairly mundane at times. Although it can get quite racy at times too.

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"Dumb question perhaps...

But are the conversations you have during a social much the same as those you would have on a regular date?

Or do people tend to turn the conversation more sexual than they would under any other circumstances

I just go with the flow of how the conversation pans out, how you ‘bounce off’ the person (or couple) you’re meeting? Just relax OP, and see where it goes

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks all! Social went well

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