firstly talk about her likes and dislikes so you aware what you can and cant do
then have a safe words system
Red =stop
amber = caution required
green = all good
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I guess it depends how far and how much she/you wants to do, but id suggest - Research, communication, consent, seek advice and then do it all again before you start.
BDSM is such a big world and there is far more to it than people first think. Perhaps visit a local munch and chat to people there and gain an insight
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Start off with silk scarves and progress from there. Wrist and ankle cuffs are a good introduction too as is bondage tape. If you want to learn Japanese rope bondage have a look on YouTube even of you just want to do a bit of tie and tease read a couple of books on the subject to familiarise yourself with basics.
Never be tempted to use cable ties or nylon rope.
Do have safety scissors handy,check that the person has no weak points you don't know about, ensure she knows to tell you if she has any pins and needles or numbness and don't ignore it.
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Start off with silk scarves and progress from there. Wrist and ankle cuffs are a good introduction too as is bondage tape. If you want to learn Japanese rope bondage have a look on YouTube even of you just want to do a bit of tie and tease read a couple of books on the subject to familiarise yourself with basics.
Never be tempted to use cable ties or nylon rope.
Do have safety scissors handy,check that the person has no weak points you don't know about, ensure she knows to tell you if she has any pins and needles or numbness and don't ignore it.
Above all, enjoy! "
Well that saved me a lot of typing
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