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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok, I'm honestly curious. Why do single men believe it is endearing to a woman to open their first ever introductory message from a guy and there's a picture of their cock? Why is there a profile picture that's just a cock? What's with all the cocks? I understand what this site is for but ffs why would you take it upon yourself to assume somebody is wanting to see your cock straight away? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is the question many a woman on here has pondered .. along with couple too
When we figure it out one of us will come back to you. But I wouldnt stay up expecting the answer today.  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I agree with you OP and it's not something I would ever send with a first message personally - however playing devils advocate for a second on the avatar thing, by the same chalk is it ok for women to have a pussy or boobs pic as their avatar? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think there are two reasons.
Some guys genuinely think that's what we want to see.
Some guys want us to look at their cock, it gives them a thrill"
I have never sent one or have one in my photos, so not an expert. I would agree with above tho. Maybe it works, why else would they keep sending them?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree with you OP and it's not something I would ever send with a first message personally - however playing devils advocate for a second on the avatar thing, by the same chalk is it ok for women to have a pussy or boobs pic as their avatar?"
From a purely psychological perception, the phallic symbol such as a penis is throughout history used to show power force and dominance were as female symbolism is more associated with life care and fertility. We a coded to see dick as offensive or even threatening. Plus I never met a pretty one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a guy myself, I'd like to apologise to all you F,TV,TS etc. on behalf of the huge number of complete idiot blokes on here that seem to think it's ok to do these things. It's not OK to send a cock pic at any time - unless you ask for it. I'd also like to apologise for the heavy use of the CTrl C and V keys on their keyboards - apparently scatterblasting every inbox with the same 'wanna fuck' message is a legitimate strategy. Sadly it means you get 250 messages a day and I put no blame on you but the people like me, who take time to write messages after reading profiles etc, end up being tarred with the same brush and our messages also deleted....
Anyway - sorry - I've not posted on a forum before and I probably should have done this I chapters....alp that aside - I'M SORRY ON BEHALF OF ALL THOSE GUYS WHO SADLY WERE NOT BORN WITH THE ATTRIBUTES OF DECENCY, TACT OR CREATIVITY....such a shame that some of them were given massive Willies though!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I agree with you OP and it's not something I would ever send with a first message personally - however playing devils advocate for a second on the avatar thing, by the same chalk is it ok for women to have a pussy or boobs pic as their avatar?"
VERY good point. Not so much a grievance for me with the avatars more that the same guys sending the dick pics are 90% of the time the ones with a different angle on their cock for an avatar. Just why not shake it up a little and let me see your ankle or something? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As a guy myself, I'd like to apologise to all you F,TV,TS etc. on behalf of the huge number of complete idiot blokes on here that seem to think it's ok to do these things. It's not OK to send a cock pic at any time - unless you ask for it. I'd also like to apologise for the heavy use of the CTrl C and V keys on their keyboards - apparently scatterblasting every inbox with the same 'wanna fuck' message is a legitimate strategy. Sadly it means you get 250 messages a day and I put no blame on you but the people like me, who take time to write messages after reading profiles etc, end up being tarred with the same brush and our messages also deleted....
Anyway - sorry - I've not posted on a forum before and I probably should have done this I chapters....alp that aside - I'M SORRY ON BEHALF OF ALL THOSE GUYS WHO SADLY WERE NOT BORN WITH THE ATTRIBUTES OF DECENCY, TACT OR CREATIVITY....such a shame that some of them were given massive Willies though!
The End "
Awww bit cute! No one has any need to apologise for their own gender hunny.
I was just wondering if I was missing an understanding in something here? Every woman I've spoken to seems as baffled and annoyed as me at this behavior so I was just wondering why does it still get done? X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I agree with you OP and it's not something I would ever send with a first message personally - however playing devils advocate for a second on the avatar thing, by the same chalk is it ok for women to have a pussy or boobs pic as their avatar?
From a purely psychological perception, the phallic symbol such as a penis is throughout history used to show power force and dominance were as female symbolism is more associated with life care and fertility. We a coded to see dick as offensive or even threatening. Plus I never met a pretty one."
Sapiosexual over here. Got 3 lines into your response and got turned on. I'll attempt to reread later x |
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Most men want a naked pic of a woman or another man instantly so their brains say that women must think this way too.
The people that do this are most likely in long term relationships, younger or sexually naive.
In the gay world sending and receiving dick pics is the norm. And people hook up based on dicks rather than a face. Which may seem weird to most people but they get off on the anonymity .
Also some men get a thrill from knowing a woman has seen their dick. They don’t even care if you return a message. It’s just the knowing that helps them to have a wank |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Most men want a naked pic of a woman or another man instantly so their brains say that women must think this way too.
The people that do this are most likely in long term relationships, younger or sexually naive.
In the gay world sending and receiving dick pics is the norm. And people hook up based on dicks rather than a face. Which may seem weird to most people but they get off on the anonymity .
Also some men get a thrill from knowing a woman has seen their dick. They don’t even care if you return a message. It’s just the knowing that helps them to have a wank "
Omfg! NAILED IT!!
Thank you xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think there are two reasons.
Some guys genuinely think that's what we want to see.
Some guys want us to look at their cock, it gives them a thrill"
And some think this is their best asset |
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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago
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"Ok, I'm honestly curious. Why do single men believe it is endearing to a woman to open their first ever introductory message from a guy and there's a picture of their cock? Why is there a profile picture that's just a cock? What's with all the cocks? I understand what this site is for but ffs why would you take it upon yourself to assume somebody is wanting to see your cock straight away?"
They probably think that their cock is better looking than their face so send out dick pics rather than face pics.
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I don't do anything like that tbh and I wouldn't want an opening message from a woman/couple like that either.
We are all fully aware of what body parts looks like and yes I've got to admit it is nice seeing said body parts too but come on an opening message is an introduction of yourself so if you can't string a sentence together it's going to be a very dull meet really isn't it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't do anything like that tbh and I wouldn't want an opening message from a woman/couple like that either.
We are all fully aware of what body parts looks like and yes I've got to admit it is nice seeing said body parts too but come on an opening message is an introduction of yourself so if you can't string a sentence together it's going to be a very dull meet really isn't it."
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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago
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Watching big mouth on Netflix and this subject was touched. It's basically when they get so excited a little hormone monster just screams "send her a dick pic she'll love that, especially when it's got no context"
They're compelled
They somehow think we will see their dick and decide yes, that is the penis I wish to have.
Were not primal like they are. We've evolved.
The only men who like dick pics are the men sending them and the gay men recieving them. |
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By *iyuWoman
over a year ago
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"Watching big mouth on Netflix and this subject was touched. It's basically when they get so excited a little hormone monster just screams "send her a dick pic she'll love that, especially when it's got no context"
They're compelled
They somehow think we will see their dick and decide yes, that is the penis I wish to have.
Were not primal like they are. We've evolved.
The only men who like dick pics are the men sending them and the gay men recieving them. "
Literally lol so hard at the 'this is the penis I wish to have'  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think there are two reasons.
Some guys genuinely think that's what we want to see.
Some guys want us to look at their cock, it gives them a thrill
I have never sent one or have one in my photos, so not an expert. I would agree with above tho. Maybe it works, why else would they keep sending them? "
True. The forum is a tiny part of the site. What's to say the other 95% (I pulled that number out of thin air) of women who use the site without ever entering the forums don't bloody love them? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think there are two reasons.
Some guys genuinely think that's what we want to see.
Some guys want us to look at their cock, it gives them a thrill
I have never sent one or have one in my photos, so not an expert. I would agree with above tho. Maybe it works, why else would they keep sending them?
True. The forum is a tiny part of the site. What's to say the other 95% (I pulled that number out of thin air) of women who use the site without ever entering the forums don't bloody love them? "
Because there wouldn't be so many men with dick avatars complaining about not getting messages back lol |
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To some of the men on Fab, this is a place to log onto when you're horny and looking for sex that minute. It's just about the sex to these guys, they're just interested in body parts and assume the rest of us are too. |
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Okay... they don’t do it for me (Mrs) but I guess as it’s a site that is primarily here for sexual hook ups... men’s Cock’s (in most fellas minds) are the center of any sexual connections. Plus they get a thrill out of it. Whilst it’s not particularly attractive it doesn’t bother me tbh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never done it myself, but I can only imagine the thought process is "I would drop my trousers immediately if I got a fanny in my inbox immediately, so it must work the other way around" |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've never sent a cock pic nor is my profile pic a cock(debatable) but i have cock pics in my photos. Is that acceptable?"
Lol, I'm sorry if I came across judgey. That wasn't my intention. Cock pics in someone's gallery of pictures is expected. I was just purely talking about the guys who send them as some sort of introduction |
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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago
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"Ok, I'm honestly curious. Why do single men believe it is endearing to a woman to open their first ever introductory message from a guy and there's a picture of their cock? Why is there a profile picture that's just a cock? What's with all the cocks? I understand what this site is for but ffs why would you take it upon yourself to assume somebody is wanting to see your cock straight away?"
For the same reason that sadly lots of people in sites like this are obsessed about cock size x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ok, I'm honestly curious. Why do single men believe it is endearing to a woman to open their first ever introductory message from a guy and there's a picture of their cock? Why is there a profile picture that's just a cock? What's with all the cocks? I understand what this site is for but ffs why would you take it upon yourself to assume somebody is wanting to see your cock straight away?
For the same reason that sadly lots of people in sites like this are obsessed about cock size x"
Huh? |
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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago
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"Ok, I'm honestly curious. Why do single men believe it is endearing to a woman to open their first ever introductory message from a guy and there's a picture of their cock? Why is there a profile picture that's just a cock? What's with all the cocks? I understand what this site is for but ffs why would you take it upon yourself to assume somebody is wanting to see your cock straight away?
For the same reason that sadly lots of people in sites like this are obsessed about cock size x
Huh?"
Lots of profiles seem to put an off-putting emphasis on “we want nothing less than 8” or “ we only do vvwe”, etc etc so, probably lots of men think that taking a photo of their cock looking big will attract people...just my interpretation though x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok, I'm honestly curious. Why do single men believe it is endearing to a woman to open their first ever introductory message from a guy and there's a picture of their cock? Why is there a profile picture that's just a cock? What's with all the cocks? I understand what this site is for but ffs why would you take it upon yourself to assume somebody is wanting to see your cock straight away?"
Oh yes a perfect thread. Thank you. Cock pics drive me crazy. Talk first. If i ask to see it which i wont then fine |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Men are hilariously basic.
Even articulate and educated men are still just thinking like a chimpanzee.
And not just about sex. Food too. And Drink. Take sambuca for example....some guys just love it so much that they want to be named after it. Like Lagerlover, or Guinnessguzzler.....or Sambucaslag.
Crazy, right?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most men want a naked pic of a woman or another man instantly so their brains say that women must think this way too.
The people that do this are most likely in long term relationships, younger or sexually naive.
In the gay world sending and receiving dick pics is the norm. And people hook up based on dicks rather than a face. Which may seem weird to most people but they get off on the anonymity .
Also some men get a thrill from knowing a woman has seen their dick. They don’t even care if you return a message. It’s just the knowing that helps them to have a wank
Omfg! NAILED IT!!
Thank you xxx"
Yup. This pretty much says it all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok, I'm honestly curious. Why do single men believe it is endearing to a woman to open their first ever introductory message from a guy and there's a picture of their cock? Why is there a profile picture that's just a cock? What's with all the cocks? I understand what this site is for but ffs why would you take it upon yourself to assume somebody is wanting to see your cock straight away?"
Some of us just don't go there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Those men are thinking from their own perspective, they make a profile based on what they want/need to see from a womans, then wonder why only men find them appealing. I assume that if all I can see is dick, then they are a dick... Same applies to arseholes, boobs and cunts  |
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"Ok, I'm honestly curious. Why do single men believe it is endearing to a woman to open their first ever introductory message from a guy and there's a picture of their cock? Why is there a profile picture that's just a cock? What's with all the cocks? I understand what this site is for but ffs why would you take it upon yourself to assume somebody is wanting to see your cock straight away?"
Its an indication of intent. Showing there cock shows you what they intend to use use offer you. They aren't particularly interested in who your or anything about you.
You can tell this if you take your own pics off by th amount that would meet you after just a one line message and not seeing your picture. |
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"Those men are thinking from their own perspective, they make a profile based on what they want/need to see from a womans, then wonder why only men find them appealing. I assume that if all I can see is dick, then they are a dick... Same applies to arseholes, boobs and cunts "
This. Nail on the head! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men are hilariously basic.
Even articulate and educated men are still just thinking like a chimpanzee.
And not just about sex. Food too. And Drink. Take sambuca for example....some guys just love it so much that they want to be named after it. Like Lagerlover, or Guinnessguzzler.....or Sambucaslag.
Crazy, right?
Lol "
What are you trying to say? |
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