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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Hi all,

Well I am a single male and have never been to a swinger club, I am from Burnley so if any of you could recommend a club for a newbie then that'd be great. I have a bi side that I'd love to explore more as only had little experience but I do love a lady so both together would be ideal. Is there charges for going to a club etc..

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi all,

Well I am a single male and have never been to a swinger club, I am from Burnley so if any of you could recommend a club for a newbie then that'd be great. I have a bi side that I'd love to explore more as only had little experience but I do love a lady so both together would be ideal. Is there charges for going to a club etc..

Cheers "

Have a look at club reviews section, to see which club appeals to you most. Then check the club's website regarding any events, dress code etc, and choose the event you like the look of. Next- contact the club to get on the list for that event, as most clubs limit the number of single men allowed in on each night to keep the ratio. Do let them know it'd be your first time in a club, as they could offer you a tour and/or introduce you to some of the members. Do not just turn up at a club as you would not, most likely, be allowed in.

Yes, there are charges to attend swingers clubs, some charge more, some charge less. With some clubs, you have to take up the membership on the day which may be costly, but there are some places that either have no membership or they run 'taster' events for newbies where you can decide afterwards whether or not you'd like to become a member.

It is cheaper going as a couple than as a single man, that's why a lot of men do try to couple up. However, I've heard that some clubs only allow you to take up couple's membership if you live at the same address. Also, I personally (and I'm sure plenty of other ladies) would not take someone I don't know to a club as I would not want to be responsible for their behaviour, and what if there is no attraction whatsoever?

If/when you do go to a club, please don't expect sex. You pay for the use of the facilities, nothing else! Treat all the ladies in the club with respect, don't assume that just because they are in a swingers club they are 'free for all' and up for anything.

Last but not least- how many cock pics do you need on your profile??? I understand you're trying to appeal to the bi crowd, but believe me, there is such a thing as too many cock pics. Put it away and try some more tasty shots.

Good luck.

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By *anky_PankyWoman  over a year ago

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CLUBSX sounds about perfect for you - great atmosphere and bi friendly. Just tell them you are new to clubs when you arrive and they will ensure you are settled in

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