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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not"
Another entitled man moaning because women don't drop their knickers as soon as he messages. You do realise women can choose who they want to meet? |
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"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not"
I've had several meets over 3 years, you get back what you put in but guys can go months before getting a meet. Maybe peruse the introductions thread in the forums? Handy hints etc. |
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Firstly, guys far outweigh the ladies on here.
It sounds like you would be better off trying a pick up in a bar.For most people on here, it's a lifestyle,not a pick up joint.
It's the women's perogative as to whether to reply or not.
I myself send messages and get no reply most of the time,but as I've said it's their choice.
I think you're on the wrong site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not"
You'll want to be careful OP. Exchanging money for sex is forbidden on fab. You could find yourself on the naughty step.
This isn't a prostitution service |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not
You'll want to be careful OP. Exchanging money for sex is forbidden on fab. You could find yourself on the naughty step.
This isn't a prostitution service"
I think he means because he's paid for gold site supporter.
Still, that doesn't guarantee him a meet. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
What were your expectations on joining fab? Just because you message women on here, doesn't mean they have to have sex with you. We aren't free prostitutes at your beck and call 24/7 and we are actually allowed to choose who we fuck. Wow, shock, horror at that one!  |
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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago
Fairy Land |
Do you think you’re putting in the best effort you can? I can’t give profile advice as you haven’t asked. Have a peek at the profiles of successful blokes and see if there’s any inspiration which you could take from their approach. Have you thought of getting yourself to a club? Best of luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not
Another entitled man moaning because women don't drop their knickers as soon as he messages. You do realise women can choose who they want to meet? "
Entitled or just doesn’t realise the mathematics aren’t stacked in his favour. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Limited photos and write up don't sell you well. Plus the competition is very good. The site is more lifestyle in my opinion.
Use the regular dating apps if you are looking for sex, they are a lot easier to get what you are looking for. Just write 'Fun' all over your profile and hey presto! - maybe not that easy tho ha ha! |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not
Another entitled man moaning because women don't drop their knickers as soon as he messages. You do realise women can choose who they want to meet?
Entitled or just doesn’t realise the mathematics aren’t stacked in his favour. "
Anyone who genuinely believes they will get loads of sex from a site filled with women who aren't prostitutes is entitled or delusional. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not we'll said
Another entitled man moaning because women don't drop their knickers as soon as he messages. You do realise women can choose who they want to meet? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not
Another entitled man moaning because women don't drop their knickers as soon as he messages. You do realise women can choose who they want to meet?
Entitled or just doesn’t realise the mathematics aren’t stacked in his favour.
Anyone who genuinely believes they will get loads of sex from a site filled with women who aren't prostitutes is entitled or delusional. "
No. I think the OP has said he hasn’t had many replies. Nothing more.
He’s posed a fair question when lots of businesses (clubs and sites) around the swinging world make an awful lot of money out of stringing single men along. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? "
Yes, there are real people because :
a. I get messages and replies.
b. I have met some of them.
"Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not"
I'm a free member, but I wouldn't consider £5 to be a waste of money to be a site supporter.
Let your site supporter lapse, stop trying too hard and you might be able to tempt people to meet up. |
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"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy?
Yes, there are real people because :
a. I get messages and replies.
b. I have met some of them.
Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not
I'm a free member, but I wouldn't consider £5 to be a waste of money to be a site supporter.
Let your site supporter lapse, stop trying too hard and you might be able to tempt people to meet up."
Or not!! |
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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago
Bury/Bolton |
Well we've had a message from the OP and can confirm that he didn't get a reply because it was a 'chance your arm message' without paying any attention to what we're looking for and minimal effort.
So maybe start there. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not
Another entitled man moaning because women don't drop their knickers as soon as he messages. You do realise women can choose who they want to meet?
Entitled or just doesn’t realise the mathematics aren’t stacked in his favour.
Anyone who genuinely believes they will get loads of sex from a site filled with women who aren't prostitutes is entitled or delusional.
No. I think the OP has said he hasn’t had many replies. Nothing more.
He’s posed a fair question when lots of businesses (clubs and sites) around the swinging world make an awful lot of money out of stringing single men along. "
Green arrow him and read his profile, he's after sex, not replies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not
Another entitled man moaning because women don't drop their knickers as soon as he messages. You do realise women can choose who they want to meet?
Entitled or just doesn’t realise the mathematics aren’t stacked in his favour.
Anyone who genuinely believes they will get loads of sex from a site filled with women who aren't prostitutes is entitled or delusional.
No. I think the OP has said he hasn’t had many replies. Nothing more.
He’s posed a fair question when lots of businesses (clubs and sites) around the swinging world make an awful lot of money out of stringing single men along.
Green arrow him and read his profile, he's after sex, not replies."
Who’d have thought, on a sex site he was looking for sex?
Neither are great, however nowhere is he saying women should just drop their knickers. I just don’t think he’s acted in an entitled way. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not
Another entitled man moaning because women don't drop their knickers as soon as he messages. You do realise women can choose who they want to meet?
Entitled or just doesn’t realise the mathematics aren’t stacked in his favour.
Anyone who genuinely believes they will get loads of sex from a site filled with women who aren't prostitutes is entitled or delusional.
No. I think the OP has said he hasn’t had many replies. Nothing more.
He’s posed a fair question when lots of businesses (clubs and sites) around the swinging world make an awful lot of money out of stringing single men along.
Green arrow him and read his profile, he's after sex, not replies.
Who’d have thought, on a sex site he was looking for sex?
Neither are great, however nowhere is he saying women should just drop their knickers. I just don’t think he’s acted in an entitled way."
Did you green arrow? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not
Another entitled man moaning because women don't drop their knickers as soon as he messages. You do realise women can choose who they want to meet?
Entitled or just doesn’t realise the mathematics aren’t stacked in his favour.
Anyone who genuinely believes they will get loads of sex from a site filled with women who aren't prostitutes is entitled or delusional.
No. I think the OP has said he hasn’t had many replies. Nothing more.
He’s posed a fair question when lots of businesses (clubs and sites) around the swinging world make an awful lot of money out of stringing single men along.
Green arrow him and read his profile, he's after sex, not replies.
Who’d have thought, on a sex site he was looking for sex?
Neither are great, however nowhere is he saying women should just drop their knickers. I just don’t think he’s acted in an entitled way.
Did you green arrow? "
Yes. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not
Another entitled man moaning because women don't drop their knickers as soon as he messages. You do realise women can choose who they want to meet?
Entitled or just doesn’t realise the mathematics aren’t stacked in his favour.
Anyone who genuinely believes they will get loads of sex from a site filled with women who aren't prostitutes is entitled or delusional.
No. I think the OP has said he hasn’t had many replies. Nothing more.
He’s posed a fair question when lots of businesses (clubs and sites) around the swinging world make an awful lot of money out of stringing single men along.
Green arrow him and read his profile, he's after sex, not replies.
Who’d have thought, on a sex site he was looking for sex?
Neither are great, however nowhere is he saying women should just drop their knickers. I just don’t think he’s acted in an entitled way."
This isn't a sex site.
I think he came here expecting a quick shag and because it hasn't happened he's saying everyone is fake or that he's wasting money, that's how I read it, if you read it differently that's fine.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not
Another entitled man moaning because women don't drop their knickers as soon as he messages. You do realise women can choose who they want to meet?
Entitled or just doesn’t realise the mathematics aren’t stacked in his favour. "
No the maths aren't stacked in his favour. But equally those people that are getting regular meets make sure that they maximise those odds. There's a reason many men get nowhere on here and its nothing to do with the volume of men and nothing to do with luck either for that matter |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You may very well be here for a good time...it isn't anyone's obligation here to provide it for you. They too are looking for a good time...you're not convincing them they'll have one with you... |
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No the maths aren't stacked in his favour. But equally those people that are getting regular meets make sure that they maximise those odds. There's a reason many men get nowhere on here and its nothing to do with the volume of men and nothing to do with luck either for that matter"
Luck has a little to do with it.
Being the right person in right place at right time when someome wants to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No the maths aren't stacked in his favour. But equally those people that are getting regular meets make sure that they maximise those odds. There's a reason many men get nowhere on here and its nothing to do with the volume of men and nothing to do with luck either for that matter
Luck has a little to do with it.
Being the right person in right place at right time when someome wants to meet."
For those getting meets luck plays part in who they meet. But for the vast majority of men who moan that they get nowhere on here its nothing to do with luck |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
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"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not"
There are real people who have a lot of real fun. I suspect you will, alas, be wasting your time and money and will be largely unsuccessful in joining that fun.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not
You'll want to be careful OP. Exchanging money for sex is forbidden on fab. You could find yourself on the naughty step.
This isn't a prostitution service"
Wasting money because he paid site subscription.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not"
You have not asked for profile advice..but it is piss poor.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not
Another entitled man moaning because women don't drop their knickers as soon as he messages. You do realise women can choose who they want to meet?
Entitled or just doesn’t realise the mathematics aren’t stacked in his favour.
Anyone who genuinely believes they will get loads of sex from a site filled with women who aren't prostitutes is entitled or delusional.
No. I think the OP has said he hasn’t had many replies. Nothing more.
He’s posed a fair question when lots of businesses (clubs and sites) around the swinging world make an awful lot of money out of stringing single men along.
Green arrow him and read his profile, he's after sex, not replies.
Who’d have thought, on a sex site he was looking for sex?
Neither are great, however nowhere is he saying women should just drop their knickers. I just don’t think he’s acted in an entitled way."
some people just like banding the word 'entitled' around. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not"
Yes.
Nope;
Probably not.
Hope that helps.  |
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OP, you are unlikely to ever have luck on here with a profile like that,you may have better luck clubbing as you then will rely on personality rather than the art of advertising yourself on a site that has so many better profiles |
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"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not"
Fab is best for keeping in touch with people you meet at clubs. |
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"Guys I wrote to so many girls and not one wrote back, well I think 1 wrote back saying just..No. what I want to know is are there actually any real people on this or is it just people working to make it look busy? Cos I'm waiting money here need to know if it's actually worth it or not"
Am I reading this right? Just because you don't get answers to your messages everyone else on the site is an employee using a fake profile to get £5 a month from you?
Have you not considered that maybe it's your approach?
Maybe it's your largely rural location?
Maybe it could be many things, not just a conspiracy to fleece you of money. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It seems that when some ask why they don't succeed, the simpler or more palatable explanation is a grand nonsensical conspiracy, rather than them failing in some way. "
Bad workmen and tools springs to mind... |
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"It seems that when some ask why they don't succeed, the simpler or more palatable explanation is a grand nonsensical conspiracy, rather than them failing in some way.
Bad workmen and tools springs to mind..."
Quite. But no, it must be everyone else, even though they're the common element. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It seems that when some ask why they don't succeed, the simpler or more palatable explanation is a grand nonsensical conspiracy, rather than them failing in some way.
Bad workmen and tools springs to mind...
Quite. But no, it must be everyone else, even though they're the common element. "
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