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long time no meets im to ugly
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hi all ive been on here a while now not had any meets think its because im to old or ugly what do you think"
You're hardly too old mate, there are plenty older that are filling their boots in droves....
Mind your profile doesn't say much about you to be fair. Ladies tend to like a bit of imagination. And apart from the one shot taken in your local you can't really make much out on your pics. You get out what you put in.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be positive!!!!! Use forums and chatrooms more and get to some socials! Your the only one who can help yourself! Less of the old n ugly people find statements like that very unatractive! Stop feeling sorry for yourself and enjoy like xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"thankyou all will try and find someone to take new pics for me. "
To be fair, I wouldn't bother with having to wait around for someone to volunteer their services in this department as you'll be in for a long wait to be honest. I wouldn't bother wasting time messaging around to find someone to take them either. You don't even need to wait to find someone else to take them as there's no sense in creating yet another stumbling block for you to have to clamber over before you have any success is there?
Just take them yourself! I did with all of mine, save one in my private gallery, and I don't find it a problem at all getting meets because of this. |
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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago
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Just take them yourself! I did with all of mine, save one in my private gallery, and I don't find it a problem at all getting meets because of this. "
I used to - plenty of dashing back and forth with the self timer and propping the camera up on boxes or furniture... lol
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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago
harrow |
"Chin up and battle on iv only had the odd meet after 4 months lol  
erm u hada meet last night "
He seems to have a meet every bloomin' night! One pic on his profile.
What's going on there in Wales?
To the OP: This is not normal.
It takes a lot of time to get noticed. Well, at least for most of us. Get to socials advertised in Meets & Events |
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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago
harrow |
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Just take them yourself! I did with all of mine, save one in my private gallery, and I don't find it a problem at all getting meets because of this.
I used to - plenty of dashing back and forth with the self timer and propping the camera up on boxes or furniture... lol
Wolf"
I read that as propping the camera on BONES and furniture |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hi all ive been on here a while now not had any meets think its because im to old or ugly what do you think
You're hardly too old mate, there are plenty older that are filling their boots in droves....
Mind your profile doesn't say much about you to be fair. Ladies tend to like a bit of imagination. And apart from the one shot taken in your local you can't really make much out on your pics. You get out what you put in...."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hi all ive been on here a while now not had any meets think its because im to old or ugly what do you think"
We think its your profile, using 'bubbly' and such words are not masculine, more likened to describing female personality.....our opinion!
Better quality photos and a more original profile, sell yourself.....its a 'buyers market' and.with single guys flooding the market, you need to stand out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hi all ive been on here a while now not had any meets think its because im to old or ugly what do you think"
So if you have not had any meets how did you get verified ?  |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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"hi all ive been on here a while now not had any meets think its because im to old or ugly what do you think
So if you have not had any meets how did you get verified ? "
phone or webcam? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hi all ive been on here a while now not had any meets think its because im to old or ugly what do you think
So if you have not had any meets how did you get verified ?
phone or webcam?"
Didnt think single guys could get verified that way |
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Im going to be honest, i dont think your ugly but i think you could do with a bit of a revamp, maybe trendy yourself up abit, you dont have to go mad. The photos dont do you justice, maybe have a look at other peoples pictures and get an idea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have you tried meeting the people on your friends list? They must think you're ok.
Why not join your local club, either Secrets at Totnes, where single guys can go on Wednesdays, if it is still as it used to be, or Unit 18 at Plymouth.
Try to get to a social event. OK you'll probably have to travel and perhaps stay over at a hotel, but if you make the effort you'll reap the rewards.
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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago
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"Have you tried meeting the people on your friends list? They must think you're ok.
Why not join your local club, either Secrets at Totnes, where single guys can go on Wednesdays, if it is still as it used to be, or Unit 18 at Plymouth.
Try to get to a social event. OK you'll probably have to travel and perhaps stay over at a hotel, but if you make the effort you'll reap the rewards.
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By *esmond70 OP Man
over a year ago
tavistock |
thankyou all again for the advice i will get new pics sorted as soon as i get a new camera as for the verified it was from a lady i know well and met. a few times from a different place thankyou all again for your honesty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yeah your pics are tiny, and you need pics that show you at your best, id also probs set your cock pics to friends list or private only and add people to list or send privatley when they ask or if a meets looking likley you can politley ask if thye want to see your ruder pics if they are interested and in my experience if they want to see they will add or say send them |
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