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Now Widowed starting over advice welcome

By *ickyo OP TV/TS over a year ago

Ongar to Harlow

Now trying to get back into playing.

We had a very active time playing both as a couple and as singles.

I am now looking for socials as well as fun, please read my profile to see what I am about and if anyone (male, female and TV) can offer suggestions,or a chat please feel free to drop me a line.

I am not on here every day so miss some emails.

Kindest Regards

Nickyo

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hi Nickyo

If you have a look in the Meets forum section there's often social events listed in there. Some clubs do social events, if clubs are your thing.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wow, this is harder to respond to that I thought it was going to be when I started to type.

I suppose the only advice I can give is to go at your own pace, and be kind to yourself.

Wishing you all the best

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By *ickyo OP TV/TS over a year ago

Ongar to Harlow

Thanks I will have a look, sounds promising

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By *ickyo OP TV/TS over a year ago

Ongar to Harlow

Thanks for your kind words, for me it is still hard but I know she would want me to carry on smiling and having some fun.

Just trying to be truthful with everyone and I am sure new and old friends are out there

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By *usie pTV/TS over a year ago

taunton

Well if you get around to marrying again make sure you get a written contract that states she will shag you at least once daily or you will be able to get rid of her at no cost to yourself.

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By *ickyo OP TV/TS over a year ago

Ongar to Harlow

I would not make that or any demands like that on anyone,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wow, Nicky, so sorry to hear that, hope you’re ok.

As a regular visitor to your profile, I don’t imagine you’ll be short of offers, you’re georgeous and very Sexy. just take it as you see fit and meet who you’d like to when you feel you want to.

K x

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By *ickyo OP TV/TS over a year ago

Ongar to Harlow

Thanks,

If you are ever close by, pop in for a coffee or something

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By *ickyo OP TV/TS over a year ago

Ongar to Harlow

Thanks again for your ideas and emails, some very interesting ones with some fun ideas. Please keep them coming

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By *tephTV67TV/TS over a year ago

Cheshire

Recently divorced, so had to start afresh myself. Always up for a night out if you're in the are

Also have a look at Sparkle, in Manchester I'm going so if you fancy a meet and a decent night out let me know

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By *oodyshere2011Man over a year ago

Midlands

Helllo, well it’s horrible to hear what’s happened. Best thing would be to do things at a nice pace for yourself and only do things when you feel like it.

You can always explain your situation if it starts to get to much to that person and if they respect you they will listen.

Hope you enjoy yourself