Hi ladies,
I'm looking for advice from single ladies who are playing and living alone. When and how do you decide to invite someone into your home?
I had only two hotels meets so far and am about to meet someone for the second time. He cannot accommodate and can only meet during the day; he is very keen on being invited to my place; he had paid for the hotel the first time; I suggested to pay for a hotel this time; but he'd much prefer my place. Since he's married and playing in secret, he keeps his identity secret too. I don't want to be paranoid; he seems to be a nice guy, but I know nothing about him and cannot really trust him yet.
What would you do? hotel or home? (I'm not rich and the hotel does hurt a bit finacially)
any advice apprecaited.
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If he didn't trust me enough to tell me a little about himself, he'd not be coming anywhere near my house.
I don't understand, if you're paying, why he's not happy to return to a hotel? Worried about seeing someone there? Or something else? |
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over a year ago
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Stick to hotels. If he is married last thing you need is his Mrs. Knocking on your door making a scene.
Also for your personal safety when this comes to an end. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi ladies,
I'm looking for advice from single ladies who are playing and living alone. When and how do you decide to invite someone into your home?
I had only two hotels meets so far and am about to meet someone for the second time. He cannot accommodate and can only meet during the day; he is very keen on being invited to my place; he had paid for the hotel the first time; I suggested to pay for a hotel this time; but he'd much prefer my place. Since he's married and playing in secret, he keeps his identity secret too. I don't want to be paranoid; he seems to be a nice guy, but I know nothing about him and cannot really trust him yet.
What would you do? hotel or home? (I'm not rich and the hotel does hurt a bit finacially)
any advice apprecaited.
Thanks"
hotel or nothing....keep your home life private. He does. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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I'm sure he would prefer your place OP. There would be no chance of his wife seeing payment for a hotel bill on a bank account or credit card bill!! That and there's no chance of him being spotted in public with you. I'd refuse another meet with him for your own safety, as others have pointed out you don't want an angry wife on your doorstep or for him to start staking you when it all goes tits up. |
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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago
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"I'm sure he would prefer your place OP. There would be no chance of his wife seeing payment for a hotel bill on a bank account or credit card bill!! That and there's no chance of him being spotted in public with you. I'd refuse another meet with him for your own safety, as others have pointed out you don't want an angry wife on your doorstep or for him to start staking you when it all goes tits up."
IF it all goes boobs up. i had a 12mth affair with a married woman many years ago, they are still married, very happily too |
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Hotel meet is the best way! Inviting someone you don’t know to your home could cause issues later especially with him being married! His wife could follow him, show up, cause you grief. He could cause issues if you ever had a disagreement and god forbid if she threw him out guess where he might make his way to....your home.  |
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By *ilth500Man
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"Hotel meet is the best way! Inviting someone you don’t know to your home could cause issues later especially with him being married! His wife could follow him, show up, cause you grief. He could cause issues if you ever had a disagreement and god forbid if she threw him out guess where he might make his way to....your home. "
hotels are great... |
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