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Hi. Looking for abit of guidance from you lot. We have no problem attracting guys to our profile, which is great. However, we would like to meet with couples and women also. We get a lot of profile views from women and couples but never any messages.
Is there something we are missing?!
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over a year ago
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We can't see your verifications, nor are you photo verified so we wouldn't take the chance. Also some photographs are quite explicit and we prefer less is more, but that's just us. |
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"We can't see your verifications, nor are you photo verified so we wouldn't take the chance. Also some photographs are quite explicit and we prefer less is more, but that's just us. "
Thanks. Didn't know about making verifications visible, changed that now. Will do a photo verification  |
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Are you actively searching for ladies and couples and sending them messages? If not you may have a long wait if you are expecting them to contact you first. Most single ladies and many couples don't send messages, they just respond to those that they receive. To maximise your chances of success you need to be proactive and make the first move. |
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"Are you actively searching for ladies and couples and sending them messages? If not you may have a long wait if you are expecting them to contact you first. Most single ladies and many couples don't send messages, they just respond to those that they receive. To maximise your chances of success you need to be proactive and make the first move."
Yeah we're looking and messaging. More interested to know why we're getting so many views from couples and women but aren't receiving messages from them. Somebody said that it's because we're intimidating... I really hope that's not the case. I've changed our pictures for more subtle ones. Is that better? |
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"Are you actively searching for ladies and couples and sending them messages? If not you may have a long wait if you are expecting them to contact you first. Most single ladies and many couples don't send messages, they just respond to those that they receive. To maximise your chances of success you need to be proactive and make the first move."
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I personally think many will steer clear due to your age. A lot feel uncomfortable even considering entertaining those who are similar/younger than their own children.
It's fair enough wanting to meet those that are smooth and non-hairy, but do you think it comes across quite rude saying that those that ARE hairy are like bears and belong in the woods? It may sound funny when you write it, and we all make jokes about different things but you sound offensive, and as though you'll be one of the "eeeeeewwwww" types. If hair (something that is totally natural... just not to your taste) can evoke ridicule, then how will you react over other stuff?
Comes across immature IMO
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Asking for face and full body pics before you've even talked will put some people off especially as you have no face pics up as how do they know they'll be attracted to you?
And the way you've listed your criteria is off putting as well. |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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"Hi. Looking for abit of guidance from you lot. We have no problem attracting guys to our profile, which is great. However, we would like to meet with couples and women also. We get a lot of profile views from women and couples but never any messages.
Is there something we are missing?!
TIA x"
The same advice applies to all no matter the gender, your rofile is there to inform, gain interest and hopefully entice the reader ..
Why would a couple or single lady message you over an other ?? What sets you apart? What makes you message another person what draws you in, put those thoughts those ideas on your profile, at the moment I know I'm a single guy and I wouldn't message you as I have no idea about you, chances sre couples and others think similarly.  |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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Your profile does not say what you have to offer to your potential meets. No you are not intimidating, but sound a little demanding. Your age will be an issue with some. You have to make your profile stand out from the thousands of others. Good luck in your search |
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"Are you actively searching for ladies and couples and sending them messages? If not you may have a long wait if you are expecting them to contact you first. Most single ladies and many couples don't send messages, they just respond to those that they receive. To maximise your chances of success you need to be proactive and make the first move.
Yeah we're looking and messaging. More interested to know why we're getting so many views from couples and women but aren't receiving messages from them. Somebody said that it's because we're intimidating... I really hope that's not the case. I've changed our pictures for more subtle ones. Is that better?"
I can’t comment on the pictures, but certainly the text and content is intimidating- would put us off from even considering opening up a conversation I’m afraid.
However - it’s your profile and you build it to appeal to the type of people you want to meet - you can’t appeal to everyone - and maybe your not getting messages because the niche you are trying to appeal to is a very small one? |
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"Thanks for the constructive comments. Profile has been updated.
Can't do anything about our age. But we are looking for younger generation on here anyway so that's not an issue"
Looks great and so much warmer!
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"Thanks for the constructive comments. Profile has been updated.
Can't do anything about our age. But we are looking for younger generation on here anyway so that's not an issue"
You guys are fine, find out where the parties are, go along and show people that you're friendly and welcoming, the veris will show everyone else you're chill.
There are plenty of couples in Swansea who'll reply if you message them, so don't wait for them to come to you, go out and find them!! |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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Don't think there is anything wrong with your profile, with what you've written or your photos.
What may be wrong is your expectation. Fab is hit and miss, you may be lucky or you might not. Our suggestion, if you want to meet couples, (and/or single men or women) in a safe environment, and on equal terms, is to try a club. You'll find more than enough playmates who will lead you to yet more connections - then use Fab to stay in touch with them.
Good luck. |
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"Thanks for the constructive comments. Profile has been updated.
Can't do anything about our age. But we are looking for younger generation on here anyway so that's not an issue"
It does look a lot better tbf, it's always good when a poster seeking advice takes it on board rather than get ultra-defensive and not change a thing which you wouldn't believe how many actually do.
As far as pics go ours are probably a mix of rude ones and nice ones and it's not done us any harm. Just persevere and sure you'll make a success of it!
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