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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We have discussed introducing Cuckolding as part of our life.
Are there any benefits??
We are very open minded on the subject & looking for ideas on how to further our interest in it? |
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Cuckolding. Hot wifing. Stag & Vixen.
There’s so many variations and essentially it’s all about how you as a couple want to play if.
I’m a hot wife / contemporary cuckoldress with an alpha cuck (but few people really get that so hot wife is simpler). For us it is NOT about humiliation and I’ll block arrogant so called bulls immediately. It’s about female liberation and we both benefit from it hugely - our personal sex life has never been better and it was pretty awesome anyway! |
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"We are open to all elements he says he likes to watch I love the thought of control of him. He does have a submissive side too"
I should say he’s submissive to me but not to anyone else. And only in the bedroom. It’s a fun dynamic to play with! |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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I would think the benefits are that it appeals to both of you and you both find it a turn on.
As for ideas, different elements appeal to different people from the fairly mild end of the scale where the cuckold gets to watch, through hotwife type scenarios, right up to the full on humiliation and clean up duties angle - it's about finding what appeals and works best for you  |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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It sounds like you both shoukd r you it so..have you had many meets? If not then I would say start slowly, always let one another know if you are comfortable with a certain situation but m9at of all enjoy it...
Maybe start with meeting someone on the basis of just teasing him. See how he likes it, if he want more you have the option to do so and things can progress further.. |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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"Cuckolding. Hot wifing. Stag & Vixen.
There’s so many variations and essentially it’s all about how you as a couple want to play if.
I’m a hot wife / contemporary cuckoldress with an alpha cuck (but few people really get that so hot wife is simpler). For us it is NOT about humiliation and I’ll block arrogant so called bulls immediately. It’s about female liberation and we both benefit from it hugely - our personal sex life has never been better and it was pretty awesome anyway!"
Sounds like you both really have it sused. For me it's all about communicating with a couple and finding out what they both like. It only works if all involved enjoy it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have discussed introducing Cuckolding as part of our life.
Are there any benefits??
We are very open minded on the subject & looking for ideas on how to further our interest in it?"
yes less effort for hubby ,more excitement for the woman and change ..............you know what they say 'change is as good as a rest' |
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A guy visits a couple and plays with the wife whilst the hubby just sits in the corner and watches. After he's creampied the wife, the hubby cleans up.
Some say that is cuckolding but is it though? |
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"A guy visits a couple and plays with the wife whilst the hubby just sits in the corner and watches. After he's creampied the wife, the hubby cleans up.
Some say that is cuckolding but is it though? "
It’s a very very specific scenario. Some people will play like that. Many won’t. We certainly don’t play anything like that.
Least of all because... SAFE SEX ALWAYS. You’ve pretty much just given a brief overview of all cuckolding porn lol. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"A guy visits a couple and plays with the wife whilst the hubby just sits in the corner and watches. After he's creampied the wife, the hubby cleans up.
Some say that is cuckolding but is it though? "
If it's what those involved have defined as cuckolding for them, and it works for them, then yes it is - like many things on here there's no single catch all definition, only the definition individuals apply for themselves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The problem with the word cuckold is that so many guys interpret it as I want to fuck your wife as you watch and think that the husband is submissive
Joe loves to watch me play but I have never met a more dominant masculine man in my life
That is why we don’t have cuckold among our likes
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I think a number of people above have outlined that cuckolding/hotwife scenario are all very different. I think as the potential male you need to speak to the couple & understand what they what from you, to help with their fantasies.
I enjoy meeting couples into hotwife meets particularly. As one fabber above has said, its liberating for her, yet the male benefits from it too. While as a couple it benefits both of them sexually & normally leads to a better & more enjoyable sex life together. As the other male most important thing is respect for the couple & understanding what they want.
If this is done, its a win, win, win scenario for all.  |
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"A guy visits a couple and plays with the wife whilst the hubby just sits in the corner and watches. After he's creampied the wife, the hubby cleans up.
Some say that is cuckolding but is it though?
If it's what those involved have defined as cuckolding for them, and it works for them, then yes it is - like many things on here there's no single catch all definition, only the definition individuals apply for themselves "
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"A guy visits a couple and plays with the wife whilst the hubby just sits in the corner and watches. After he's creampied the wife, the hubby cleans up.
Some say that is cuckolding but is it though?
It’s a very very specific scenario. Some people will play like that. Many won’t. We certainly don’t play anything like that.
Least of all because... SAFE SEX ALWAYS. You’ve pretty much just given a brief overview of all cuckolding porn lol. "
A friend of mine had that scenario happen but wasn't told about the clean up in advance. He wasn't bothered. I said you've tried cuckolding then. And he said no that's something else alluding to humiliation.
For me personally, I've not pursued cuckolding before because I thought that the male invited had to be assertive but judging by the comments on here, that's not always the case. |
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"A guy visits a couple and plays with the wife whilst the hubby just sits in the corner and watches. After he's creampied the wife, the hubby cleans up.
Some say that is cuckolding but is it though?
It’s a very very specific scenario. Some people will play like that. Many won’t. We certainly don’t play anything like that.
Least of all because... SAFE SEX ALWAYS. You’ve pretty much just given a brief overview of all cuckolding porn lol.
A friend of mine had that scenario happen but wasn't told about the clean up in advance. He wasn't bothered. I said you've tried cuckolding then. And he said no that's something else alluding to humiliation.
For me personally, I've not pursued cuckolding before because I thought that the male invited had to be assertive but judging by the comments on here, that's not always the case. "
For most people - those so called Bulls that go in and act like arrogant fools aren’t going to get anywhere.
For us, we are looking for respectful guys who are chilled out and easy to get along with.
You are right though - the hardcore cuckolding that delves into the humiliation side of things is a very specific activity and although it’s widely depicted in porn you won’t find anywhere near as many couples practicing it in reality. |
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"A guy visits a couple and plays with the wife whilst the hubby just sits in the corner and watches. After he's creampied the wife, the hubby cleans up.
Some say that is cuckolding but is it though?
It’s a very very specific scenario. Some people will play like that. Many won’t. We certainly don’t play anything like that.
Least of all because... SAFE SEX ALWAYS. You’ve pretty much just given a brief overview of all cuckolding porn lol.
A friend of mine had that scenario happen but wasn't told about the clean up in advance. He wasn't bothered. I said you've tried cuckolding then. And he said no that's something else alluding to humiliation.
For me personally, I've not pursued cuckolding before because I thought that the male invited had to be assertive but judging by the comments on here, that's not always the case.
For most people - those so called Bulls that go in and act like arrogant fools aren’t going to get anywhere.
For us, we are looking for respectful guys who are chilled out and easy to get along with.
You are right though - the hardcore cuckolding that delves into the humiliation side of things is a very specific activity and although it’s widely depicted in porn you won’t find anywhere near as many couples practicing it in reality."
Thank you Twinkle. So there is hope for me yet then lol. I'm very respectful and super chilled.
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"We have discussed introducing Cuckolding as part of our life.
Are there any benefits??
We are very open minded on the subject & looking for ideas on how to further our interest in it?"
A sexually satisfied wife.... for once! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would suggest you are more looking i itially for the hotwife scenario. You both get pleasure with a controlled anmount of sharing. I had such a relationship with a couple some years ago. Whilst he was submissive, it was within a loving and accepting relationship. I was the extra spice in an already good relationship. Play safe and have fun.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think a number of people above have outlined that cuckolding/hotwife scenario are all very different. I think as the potential male you need to speak to the couple & understand what they what from you, to help with their fantasies.
I enjoy meeting couples into hotwife meets particularly. As one fabber above has said, its liberating for her, yet the male benefits from it too. While as a couple it benefits both of them sexually & normally leads to a better & more enjoyable sex life together. As the other male most important thing is respect for the couple & understanding what they want.
If this is done, its a win, win, win scenario for all. "
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"We have discussed introducing Cuckolding as part of our life.
Are there any benefits??
We are very open minded on the subject & looking for ideas on how to further our interest in it?
A sexually satisfied wife.... for once! "
Completely and utterly wrong |
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"We have discussed introducing Cuckolding as part of our life.
Are there any benefits??
We are very open minded on the subject & looking for ideas on how to further our interest in it?
A sexually satisfied wife.... for once!
Completely and utterly wrong "
Am assuming he's using his own experiences to draw that conclusion. |
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"We have discussed introducing Cuckolding as part of our life.
Are there any benefits??
We are very open minded on the subject & looking for ideas on how to further our interest in it?
A sexually satisfied wife.... for once!
Completely and utterly wrong
Am assuming he's using his own experiences to draw that conclusion."
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"We have discussed introducing Cuckolding as part of our life.
Are there any benefits??
We are very open minded on the subject & looking for ideas on how to further our interest in it?
A sexually satisfied wife.... for once!
How so???
Completely and utterly wrong "
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"We have discussed introducing Cuckolding as part of our life.
Are there any benefits??
We are very open minded on the subject & looking for ideas on how to further our interest in it?
A sexually satisfied wife.... for once!
How so???
Completely and utterly wrong "
Because my husband is more than capable of satisfying me - I don’t need another man to satisfy me.
What we do is an enjoyable addition to a sex life that was already pretty god damn awesome as it was. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My take is that it is about the bond between the couple. Sharing a forbidden secret, being proud of your wife, trust and love. An unbreakable bond, that is beyond conventions. Life partner/soul mate. Not sure about benefits, but to reach it must be amazing.
Good luck OP
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"We have discussed introducing Cuckolding as part of our life.
Are there any benefits??
We are very open minded on the subject & looking for ideas on how to further our interest in it?"
I think it "keeps the flame alive", something primal about the whole idea maybe? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's a long subject of benefits...Cuckolding for us is a huge turn on for both we are into it more than a year and still finding our feet every time is different but generally speaking we get closer together and become more open and honest with eachother. |
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"We have discussed introducing Cuckolding as part of our life.
Are there any benefits??
We are very open minded on the subject & looking for ideas on how to further our interest in it?
A sexually satisfied wife.... for once!
How so???
Completely and utterly wrong
Because my husband is more than capable of satisfying me - I don’t need another man to satisfy me.
What we do is an enjoyable addition to a sex life that was already pretty god damn awesome as it was."
And who said it was all about you??? |
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"We have discussed introducing Cuckolding as part of our life.
Are there any benefits??
We are very open minded on the subject & looking for ideas on how to further our interest in it?
A sexually satisfied wife.... for once!
How so???
Completely and utterly wrong
Because my husband is more than capable of satisfying me - I don’t need another man to satisfy me.
What we do is an enjoyable addition to a sex life that was already pretty god damn awesome as it was.
And who said it was all about you???"
Because when you talk about things in general, you’ll find you offend people. Sorry perhaps you were talking about your own relationship and forgot to make that distinction? |
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"We have discussed introducing Cuckolding as part of our life.
Are there any benefits??
We are very open minded on the subject & looking for ideas on how to further our interest in it?
A sexually satisfied wife.... for once!
How so???
Completely and utterly wrong
Because my husband is more than capable of satisfying me - I don’t need another man to satisfy me.
What we do is an enjoyable addition to a sex life that was already pretty god damn awesome as it was.
And who said it was all about you???
Because when you talk about things in general, you’ll find you offend people. Sorry perhaps you were talking about your own relationship and forgot to make that distinction? "
I didn’t forget thanks .... was answering the OPs question. Similarly “completely and utterly wrong” that’s quite direct a response to my post ... try “completely and utterly wrong in our case”? |
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"We have discussed introducing Cuckolding as part of our life.
Are there any benefits??
We are very open minded on the subject & looking for ideas on how to further our interest in it?
A sexually satisfied wife.... for once!
How so???
Completely and utterly wrong
Because my husband is more than capable of satisfying me - I don’t need another man to satisfy me.
What we do is an enjoyable addition to a sex life that was already pretty god damn awesome as it was.
And who said it was all about you???
Because when you talk about things in general, you’ll find you offend people. Sorry perhaps you were talking about your own relationship and forgot to make that distinction?
I didn’t forget thanks .... was answering the OPs question. Similarly “completely and utterly wrong” that’s quite direct a response to my post ... try “completely and utterly wrong in our case”?"
Perhaps then you should try “in our case we found that it was a sexually satisfied wife... for once” |
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"We have discussed introducing Cuckolding as part of our life.
Are there any benefits??
We are very open minded on the subject & looking for ideas on how to further our interest in it?
A sexually satisfied wife.... for once!
How so???
Completely and utterly wrong
Because my husband is more than capable of satisfying me - I don’t need another man to satisfy me.
What we do is an enjoyable addition to a sex life that was already pretty god damn awesome as it was.
And who said it was all about you???
Because when you talk about things in general, you’ll find you offend people. Sorry perhaps you were talking about your own relationship and forgot to make that distinction?
I didn’t forget thanks .... was answering the OPs question. Similarly “completely and utterly wrong” that’s quite direct a response to my post ... try “completely and utterly wrong in our case”?
Perhaps then you should try “in our case we found that it was a sexually satisfied wife... for once”"
Thought that was clear personally .... I wouldn’t be speaking for you now would I? |
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"We have discussed introducing Cuckolding as part of our life.
Are there any benefits??
We are very open minded on the subject & looking for ideas on how to further our interest in it?
A sexually satisfied wife.... for once!
How so???
Completely and utterly wrong
Because my husband is more than capable of satisfying me - I don’t need another man to satisfy me.
What we do is an enjoyable addition to a sex life that was already pretty god damn awesome as it was.
And who said it was all about you???
Because when you talk about things in general, you’ll find you offend people. Sorry perhaps you were talking about your own relationship and forgot to make that distinction?
I didn’t forget thanks .... was answering the OPs question. Similarly “completely and utterly wrong” that’s quite direct a response to my post ... try “completely and utterly wrong in our case”?
Perhaps then you should try “in our case we found that it was a sexually satisfied wife... for once”
Thought that was clear personally .... I wouldn’t be speaking for you now would I? "
Actually your original statement had no pronouns and as such was completely ambiguous... but I’m glad we cleared that up! |
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"We have discussed introducing Cuckolding as part of our life.
Are there any benefits??
We are very open minded on the subject & looking for ideas on how to further our interest in it?
A sexually satisfied wife.... for once!
How so???
Completely and utterly wrong
Because my husband is more than capable of satisfying me - I don’t need another man to satisfy me.
What we do is an enjoyable addition to a sex life that was already pretty god damn awesome as it was.
And who said it was all about you???
Because when you talk about things in general, you’ll find you offend people. Sorry perhaps you were talking about your own relationship and forgot to make that distinction?
I didn’t forget thanks .... was answering the OPs question. Similarly “completely and utterly wrong” that’s quite direct a response to my post ... try “completely and utterly wrong in our case”?
Perhaps then you should try “in our case we found that it was a sexually satisfied wife... for once”
Thought that was clear personally .... I wouldn’t be speaking for you now would I?
Actually your original statement had no pronouns and as such was completely ambiguous... but I’m glad we cleared that up!"
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