So, I’ve been lucky enough to stumble across a very pretty young lady, who originally I started seeing out of the scene but the more we’ve got to know about each other, the more interesting it has gotten! So it turns out, in her own words, she used to be a right little “slut” but calmed herself down over the past couple years! Now, fortunately she still has it in her but hasn’t played in this scene before! So my question, how would you recommend I slowly break her in? She likes the sound of a club, which I think could be quite daunting for a first time or do I organise a little private meet where I can vet the people coming? Any advice would be appreciated, don’t wanna go scaring her off |
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"If she likes the sound of a club, give the lady what she wants.  "
Aha yeah fair enough! Don’t ya think that it might be quite daunting? Turning up to a club that can have 100+ people, i remember shitting myself first time I attended a club aha |
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"If she likes the sound of a club, give the lady what she wants.
Aha yeah fair enough! Don’t ya think that it might be quite daunting? Turning up to a club that can have 100+ people, i remember shitting myself first time I attended a club aha "
Ask her! We don't know the woman. |
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"If she likes the sound of a club, give the lady what she wants.
Aha yeah fair enough! Don’t ya think that it might be quite daunting? Turning up to a club that can have 100+ people, i remember shitting myself first time I attended a club aha
Ask her! We don't know the woman. "
Aha I have and she does seem keen to try the clubs out! Just wanted the opinions of experienced ladies |
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"No reason why a club should be daunting, lots of people go to clubs to socialize and make connections rather than play. "
Good point, guess they probably are the better place to start her off! Appreciate it |
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If she's interested in a club take her! It's less daunting because there's no pressure & it's different (easier?) going as a couple compared to walking in as a single. If she doesn't like it you can just leave without feeling like you've let anyone down. Why should you have to "vet people for her"? Surely she's old enough to make her own mind up? (Sarah) |
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"If she likes the sound of a club, give the lady what she wants.
Aha yeah fair enough! Don’t ya think that it might be quite daunting? Turning up to a club that can have 100+ people, i remember shitting myself first time I attended a club aha "
Go to a smaller club |
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If she has expressed that she'd like to go to a club then that would be the best place to start! Don't let it be daunting as she won't have to play, just socialise first time perhaps? Definitely no pressure is best whereas inviting guys around for sex is daunting at first tbh ... |
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"If she's interested in a club take her! It's less daunting because there's no pressure & it's different (easier?) going as a couple compared to walking in as a single. If she doesn't like it you can just leave without feeling like you've let anyone down. Why should you have to "vet people for her"? Surely she's old enough to make her own mind up? (Sarah) "
Ahh don’t get me wrong, I’ve met a fair few sketchy single males and understand how their minds work ahah she has the final call on everything, I just wouldn’t want her meeting the weirdos this site attracts aha but I appreciate everyone’s advice! I think a club is going to be the first step, as like someone stated can at least just be a social thanks everyone |
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"If she has expressed that she'd like to go to a club then that would be the best place to start! Don't let it be daunting as she won't have to play, just socialise first time perhaps? Definitely no pressure is best whereas inviting guys around for sex is daunting at first tbh ... "
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
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Respect her wishes, take her to a club as she clearly feels more comfortable with that scenario. If you won't take her then I'm sure she could post a meet saying which club and when to arrange to meet people there. |
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Swinging as a couple is about two people agreeing what they want not one person saying what they want and the other going off and asking strangers if that's really ok. Talk to the woman! Agree between you and trust that she knows her own mind. |
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"Sounds too me like it's the op bottling it about going to club."
that obviously shows how bad your assumpstion skills are! Been to a couple of clubs as a couple and one club on my own aha is natural to have nerves, especially when on ya Larry lol
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"Sounds too me like it's the op bottling it about going to club. that obviously shows how bad your assumpstion skills are! Been to a couple of clubs as a couple and one club on my own aha is natural to have nerves, especially when on ya Larry lol"
You went with Larry, so you weren't on your own aha were you? |
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"Sounds too me like it's the op bottling it about going to club. that obviously shows how bad your assumpstion skills are! Been to a couple of clubs as a couple and one club on my own aha is natural to have nerves, especially when on ya Larry lol
You went with Larry, so you weren't on your own aha were you? "
Aha well if we’re calling my little guy Larry, guess I wasn’t aha |
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