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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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For the third time in a row im blocked after writing a well thought out message to the last person which tbh took me a while to not sound like the typical message she didn't even acknowledge it simply blocked me i was in her preferences perfectly but for some reason i keep getting blocked can some one just spell it out and tell me what am i doing wrong |
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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago
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You’re quite possibly not doing anything ‘wrong’, you’re just not what they were looking for. Think of it as a helpful filter; because once you’re blocked, you won’t accidentally stumble across their profile a second time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You’re quite possibly not doing anything ‘wrong’, you’re just not what they were looking for. Think of it as a helpful filter; because once you’re blocked, you won’t accidentally stumble across their profile a second time. "
I guess that's a positive thing but the third time in a row cant be a coincidence can it lol |
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"You’re quite possibly not doing anything ‘wrong’, you’re just not what they were looking for. Think of it as a helpful filter; because once you’re blocked, you won’t accidentally stumble across their profile a second time. "
This.
Putting it on your status may not be a good look, though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You’re quite possibly not doing anything ‘wrong’, you’re just not what they were looking for. Think of it as a helpful filter; because once you’re blocked, you won’t accidentally stumble across their profile a second time.
This.
Putting it on your status may not be a good look, though. "
Fair point doesn't really paint a good picture i was just frustrated and didn't think ta muchly |
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Frustratingly, you can’t be everything to everyone. The only thing you can know for sure from being blocked is there the person isn’t interested, nothing more specific than that. No need to dwell on it, just move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have a look at this:
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/8538
It's a brilliant guide for single guys, written by Mr O. Have a read, and it might help you getting more from this site. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have a look at this:
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/8538
It's a brilliant guide for single guys, written by Mr O. Have a read, and it might help you getting more from this site. "
Thanks that was rather helpful tbh has made me re think how i behaviour on here in future dont get me wrong i dont usually moan about stuff and im usually in the forums and changing my profile but yeah mr o had some really good solid advice which i shall be heeding |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have a look at this:
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/8538
It's a brilliant guide for single guys, written by Mr O. Have a read, and it might help you getting more from this site.
Thanks that was rather helpful tbh has made me re think how i behaviour on here in future dont get me wrong i dont usually moan about stuff and im usually in the forums and changing my profile but yeah mr o had some really good solid advice which i shall be heeding "
Great  . Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd suggest going out to clubs and making contacts and friends that way. Then you have chance to build a swinging relationship by people getting to know you over time.
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Id love to try a club but need to look in to it more as ive heard good things and bad things hopefully one day soon ill take the leap and go just need someone there i know so i dont go shy |
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Blokes are so happy to go in a pub on their own (whereas often women aren't) and so reluctant to go to a swinging club alone...whereas a lot of women are happy to lol.
Guess it shows up the relative perception of safety? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Blokes are so happy to go in a pub on their own (whereas often women aren't) and so reluctant to go to a swinging club alone...whereas a lot of women are happy to lol.
Guess it shows up the relative perception of safety?"
I dont even go to pubs as i dont drink lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For the third time in a row im blocked after writing a well thought out message to the last person which tbh took me a while to not sound like the typical message she didn't even acknowledge it simply blocked me i was in her preferences perfectly but for some reason i keep getting blocked can some one just spell it out and tell me what am i doing wrong "
it could be anything ,your look ,your beard ,your words just keep plugging away you'll get there
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"For the third time in a row im blocked after writing a well thought out message to the last person which tbh took me a while to not sound like the typical message she didn't even acknowledge it simply blocked me i was in her preferences perfectly but for some reason i keep getting blocked can some one just spell it out and tell me what am i doing wrong it could be anything ,your look ,your beard ,your words just keep plugging away you'll get there "
My beard? What's wrong with my beard lol (im Joking) |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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Don't often enjoy reading guys' profiles, but in my opinion, yours is great!
Don't think I'm allowed to give profile advice but perhaps just one pic on your profile might surfice - we've just fabbed one by the way (wink, wink) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You’re quite possibly not doing anything ‘wrong’, you’re just not what they were looking for. Think of it as a helpful filter; because once you’re blocked, you won’t accidentally stumble across their profile a second time.
I guess that's a positive thing but the third time in a row cant be a coincidence can it lol "
It's happened to me more often than not, seems like people will often block someone if they aren't interested rather than just deleting/not replying. Makes sense, overtime you filter out people you don't want. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't often enjoy reading guys' profiles, but in my opinion, yours is great!
Don't think I'm allowed to give profile advice but perhaps just one pic on your profile might surfice - we've just fabbed one by the way (wink, wink)"
Why thank you its taken awhile but im happy with how my bio reads maybe a tweak here and there and also noted on the pics im not very photogenic so to speak lol but massive thanks for your advice and your fab has made my day |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For the third time in a row im blocked after writing a well thought out message to the last person which tbh took me a while to not sound like the typical message she didn't even acknowledge it simply blocked me i was in her preferences perfectly but for some reason i keep getting blocked can some one just spell it out and tell me what am i doing wrong it could be anything ,your look ,your beard ,your words just keep plugging away you'll get there
My beard? What's wrong with my beard lol (im Joking) "
I know you're joking but as you well know many women don't like em so that could be a factor |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"For the third time in a row im blocked after writing a well thought out message to the last person which tbh took me a while to not sound like the typical message she didn't even acknowledge it simply blocked me i was in her preferences perfectly but for some reason i keep getting blocked can some one just spell it out and tell me what am i doing wrong it could be anything ,your look ,your beard ,your words just keep plugging away you'll get there
My beard? What's wrong with my beard lol (im Joking) I know you're joking but as you well know many women don't like em so that could be a factor "
True my beard could be the thing letting me down maybe it is time to shave and show fab my chin |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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You should present yourself how you want to, some women will love your beard and some women won't. You should be whatever you are. If she blocked you she saved your time a lot of people do that to simply end the conversation because they know for sure they are not interested. You felt that you were with in a her preferences she must have not have agreed with that. Good luck and I hope you enjoy the site. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You should present yourself how you want to, some women will love your beard and some women won't. You should be whatever you are. If she blocked you she saved your time a lot of people do that to simply end the conversation because they know for sure they are not interested. You felt that you were with in a her preferences she must have not have agreed with that. Good luck and I hope you enjoy the site."
That is very true i should be myself and not do things just because others want that thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a part of of fab... You'll never know their reasons why.
I used to take it personally... But I'm less of a snowflake nowadays...
I treat it as a giggle. Sometimes I'm sick of the same people posting the same status updates.. I shake it up a bit and usually get blocked...
What's the worst that can happen? I get blocked and I don't see them on my feed anymore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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nothing worse than the message from guys saying hey i tick all the same boxes as you lets meet .... meeting is more than ticking the same boxes let not forget the psychical and mental attraction and then weather one says the right thing or not  |
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"The beard
The lack of smile
The fact you can't accommodate
Or 1001 other reasons people do have the choice though who they reply to. "
Smoking.
Your cap.
Wanting friendship not just sex.
People all have different preferences. |
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"For the third time in a row im blocked after writing a well thought out message to the last person which tbh took me a while to not sound like the typical message she didn't even acknowledge it simply blocked me i was in her preferences perfectly but for some reason i keep getting blocked can some one just spell it out and tell me what am i doing wrong "
I'll spell it out for you
They don't want to fuck you!
Really is as simple as that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP... Grow a layer of thick skin and get used to it and don't take it personally.
Nothing wrong with your approach but your message is not reaching the right people yet. Good luck  |
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The reality is if people don't reply they are probably not interested in you. You need to think fair enough and move on. Oh and don't take notice of the angry munters shouting at you some people just lack class so ignore them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just been blocked for not giving someone my kik lol apparently in not a genuine person the bloke didn't give me chance to even reply lol x"
has happened to me too blocked before i could give my reasons for not being able to accommodate kinda hurts tbh but hay it happens all we can do is forget and carry on
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A lot of women block people who aren’t for them. Don’t take it personally.
I get 100’s of messages a week but some people get 1000’s a week so you have to understand that if you’re not someone’s type then you’re not their type.
I know it’s disappointing but maybe check who they have met up with on their verifications and think “am I like these guys” and message knowing that if you’re not then you run the risk that you’re not their type. Not always the case but it’s a good indicator. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A lot of women block people who aren’t for them. Don’t take it personally.
I get 100’s of messages a week but some people get 1000’s a week so you have to understand that if you’re not someone’s type then you’re not their type.
I know it’s disappointing but maybe check who they have met up with on their verifications and think “am I like these guys” and message knowing that if you’re not then you run the risk that you’re not their type. Not always the case but it’s a good indicator."
Thanks Nancy appreciate it i dont usually moan like this was just needing to vent lol |
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