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Help... should I cancel my social meet?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m babysitting my niece today and can’t find someone to watch her for 2 hours...
But I have a strictly coffee meet with a lady from Fab and I don’t want to let her down... I know single men get a bad reputation on here for being time wasters and she has driven 30 minutes to meet me....
So Should I cancel the meeting, or bring my niece along?
This social is going to be in Starbucks...
Please help , time is of the essence... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Any drop in play centres nearby? My local mall has a drop off service for shoppers. No,braking kids on a Fab meet isn't on"
But the woman drove 30 minutes..... I don’t want to be thought of as a time waster....
This woman might name and Shame me....
Besides my niece will be playing with her iPad and not paying attention to us.... |
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"I’m babysitting my niece today and can’t find someone to watch her for 2 hours...
But I have a strictly coffee meet with a lady from Fab and I don’t want to let her down... I know single men get a bad reputation on here for being time wasters and she has driven 30 minutes to meet me....
So Should I cancel the meeting, or bring my niece along?
This social is going to be in Starbucks...
Please help , time is of the essence..."
Cancel. Children come first and there is no place for them at a social |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And next time don't arrange a meet when you have other responsibilities. It's beyond creepy taking a kid to meet a potential sex partner"
What don’t you understand?... it’s a no sex social in a Starbucks....
This 2019 , people do have no sex socials to decide if they want to have sex in the future....
So I should make this woman drive 30 minutes and waste her time? Or just give my niece some chocolate milk and her iPad...
The least I should do is buy this lady a coffee for her traveling to me...
If I don’t meet her , I’ll never get another meet from Fab...
It’s hard being a single guy on here... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m babysitting my niece today and can’t find someone to watch her for 2 hours...
But I have a strictly coffee meet with a lady from Fab and I don’t want to let her down... I know single men get a bad reputation on here for being time wasters and she has driven 30 minutes to meet me....
So Should I cancel the meeting, or bring my niece along?
This social is going to be in Starbucks...
Please help , time is of the essence...
Cancel. Children come first and there is no place for them at a social "
But no sex is involved...... she won’t be paying attention to us... just playing with her iPad... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Quickly msg her and explain the situ, she may appreciate the early notice and she may not be bothered having your niece there. Might work in your favour.
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You think so..... I’ll do that... I hope she is cool about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Firstly what time is said coffee? Because that’s a really early coffee date if at 8am. It’s half hour drive not 3 hours.
Did you not realise you had your niece when you set this meeting up? 
Do not take her or if you do take her because we aren’t gods that can change your mind, let her know in advance so she can make the informed choice.
Get me a danish while you are there 
Danish x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I refer you to the answer you gave a few hours ago in the forum post "how not to do a social"
Sounds like a bullshit look at me thread  "
The penny has dropped. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont think you should tell her about the kid. Just text to say you will be late then rock up 40mins late with the kid in tow. I mean shes going to be fine with that"
then ask her to look after your niece whilst you nip out for a quick fuck with the woman you double booked off here  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I refer you to the answer you gave a few hours ago in the forum post "how not to do a social"
Sounds like a bullshit look at me thread "
You’re a bright one..... do you tell children there is no Santa Claus too....
Jeez some of you need to get a life.....
I created this thread to show the hypocrisy on this site....
Then You come and open your mouth.....
Look I’m not here to get attention for sex... I’m okay... I’m here for laughs only...
Good day
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Haha shame the people who had seen the other thread ruined it.
But its amazing how differnt he responses where when the person in question didnt have a vagina |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I refer you to the answer you gave a few hours ago in the forum post "how not to do a social"
Sounds like a bullshit look at me thread
Woooooooooosh"
The matrix has them..... but I like the advice given on this thread....now we all know it’s perfectly exceptable to bring children to a social meeting on Fab , only if you’re a woman... |
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"I’m babysitting my niece today and can’t find someone to watch her for 2 hours...
But I have a strictly coffee meet with a lady from Fab and I don’t want to let her down... I know single men get a bad reputation on here for being time wasters and she has driven 30 minutes to meet me....
So Should I cancel the meeting, or bring my niece along?
This social is going to be in Starbucks...
Please help , time is of the essence..."
Don't let her drive the 30 miles just tell her somethings come up. Oh and I wouldn't take your niece. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I(Lou) personally took my nephew on a social a couple of times, meet at a kids play area he ran off and played and we chatted it was nice."
What did his parents think of that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I(Lou) personally took my nephew on a social a couple of times, meet at a kids play area he ran off and played and we chatted it was nice."
Did your brother/sister know you were doing this with thier child!?
If my brother did that i dont think id ever speak to him again |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I(Lou) personally took my nephew on a social a couple of times, meet at a kids play area he ran off and played and we chatted it was nice."
So who did you tell your newphew you were meeting?
Did your brother/sister know you were taking your nephew on socials? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I refer you to the answer you gave a few hours ago in the forum post "how not to do a social"
Sounds like a bullshit look at me thread
Woooooooooosh
The matrix has them..... but I like the advice given on this thread....now we all know it’s perfectly exceptable to bring children to a social meeting on Fab , only if you’re a woman..."
Yeah weirdly though that means its ok to take a kid to meet a strange man off thw internet but not to meet a strange woman off the internet.
Really not the result youd expect |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I refer you to the answer you gave a few hours ago in the forum post "how not to do a social"
Sounds like a bullshit look at me thread
Woooooooooosh
The matrix has them..... but I like the advice given on this thread....now we all know it’s perfectly exceptable to bring children to a social meeting on Fab , only if you’re a woman...
Yeah weirdly though that means its ok to take a kid to meet a strange man off thw internet but not to meet a strange woman off the internet.
Really not the result youd expect"
Yes ..... these swinging people are very odd....
I guess anything a woman does is right , and anything a man does is wrong....
It might be a subconscious thing with swingers and they don’t know it.... God speed my friend, God speed.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I refer you to the answer you gave a few hours ago in the forum post "how not to do a social"
Sounds like a bullshit look at me thread
Woooooooooosh
The matrix has them..... but I like the advice given on this thread....now we all know it’s perfectly exceptable to bring children to a social meeting on Fab , only if you’re a woman...
Yeah weirdly though that means its ok to take a kid to meet a strange man off thw internet but not to meet a strange woman off the internet.
Really not the result youd expect
Yes ..... these swinging people are very odd....
I guess anything a woman does is right , and anything a man does is wrong....
It might be a subconscious thing with swingers and they don’t know it.... God speed my friend, God speed.."
I eagerly await the dateline special |
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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago
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"I(Lou) personally took my nephew on a social a couple of times, meet at a kids play area he ran off and played and we chatted it was nice.
What did his parents think of that?"
They new I was meeting a friend for coffee because that’s what it was.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I(Lou) personally took my nephew on a social a couple of times, meet at a kids play area he ran off and played and we chatted it was nice.
What did his parents think of that?
They new I was meeting a friend for coffee because that’s what it was.."
A friend implies a certain level of knowledge of a person. Not a random stranger off the internet |
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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago
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"I(Lou) personally took my nephew on a social a couple of times, meet at a kids play area he ran off and played and we chatted it was nice.
Did your brother/sister know you were doing this with thier child!?
If my brother did that i dont think id ever speak to him again"
Wow really...ok I’d best stop taking him to soft play then lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I(Lou) personally took my nephew on a social a couple of times, meet at a kids play area he ran off and played and we chatted it was nice.
Did your brother/sister know you were doing this with thier child!?
If my brother did that i dont think id ever speak to him again
Wow really...ok I’d best stop taking him to soft play then lol. "
Yep, if any family member ever took my child to meet a stranger they found on an internet site theyd be gone from my life for good |
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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago
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"I(Lou) personally took my nephew on a social a couple of times, meet at a kids play area he ran off and played and we chatted it was nice.
What did his parents think of that?
They new I was meeting a friend for coffee because that’s what it was..
A friend implies a certain level of knowledge of a person. Not a random stranger off the internet"
Personally I’d consider my regular play of 2 years a friend...but that’s just me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I(Lou) personally took my nephew on a social a couple of times, meet at a kids play area he ran off and played and we chatted it was nice.
What did his parents think of that?
They new I was meeting a friend for coffee because that’s what it was..
A friend implies a certain level of knowledge of a person. Not a random stranger off the internet
Personally I’d consider my regular play of 2 years a friend...but that’s just me"
Meeting someone you have known for 2 years is a different kettle of fish....
That is a little different than meeting someone for the first time....
Context is everything.... |
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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago
Norfolk |
"I(Lou) personally took my nephew on a social a couple of times, meet at a kids play area he ran off and played and we chatted it was nice.
What did his parents think of that?
They new I was meeting a friend for coffee because that’s what it was..
A friend implies a certain level of knowledge of a person. Not a random stranger off the internet
Personally I’d consider my regular play of 2 years a friend...but that’s just me
Meeting someone you have known for 2 years is a different kettle of fish....
That is a little different than meeting someone for the first time....
Context is everything...."
Exactly! And people just assumed it was the 1st time we meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I(Lou) personally took my nephew on a social a couple of times, meet at a kids play area he ran off and played and we chatted it was nice.
What did his parents think of that?
They new I was meeting a friend for coffee because that’s what it was..
A friend implies a certain level of knowledge of a person. Not a random stranger off the internet
Personally I’d consider my regular play of 2 years a friend...but that’s just me
Meeting someone you have known for 2 years is a different kettle of fish....
That is a little different than meeting someone for the first time....
Context is everything....
Exactly! And people just assumed it was the 1st time we meet. "
So they knew you were fucking the guy too? |
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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago
Norfolk |
"I(Lou) personally took my nephew on a social a couple of times, meet at a kids play area he ran off and played and we chatted it was nice.
What did his parents think of that?
They new I was meeting a friend for coffee because that’s what it was..
A friend implies a certain level of knowledge of a person. Not a random stranger off the internet
Personally I’d consider my regular play of 2 years a friend...but that’s just me
Meeting someone you have known for 2 years is a different kettle of fish....
That is a little different than meeting someone for the first time....
Context is everything....
Exactly! And people just assumed it was the 1st time we meet.
So they knew you were fucking the guy too?"
Does it matter? I could be shagging the women I’m sat having coffee with who knows. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I refer you to the answer you gave a few hours ago in the forum post "how not to do a social"
Sounds like a bullshit look at me thread
Woooooooooosh
The matrix has them..... but I like the advice given on this thread....now we all know it’s perfectly exceptable to bring children to a social meeting on Fab , only if you’re a woman..."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seems like the OP wants people’s opinion but has already made their mind up. Every post that says “no, cancel” has a response that says “but it’s only a coffee”
Personally I’d prefer to be cancelled on in this situation. But each to their own |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Seems like the OP wants people’s opinion but has already made their mind up. Every post that says “no, cancel” has a response that says “but it’s only a coffee”
Personally I’d prefer to be cancelled on in this situation. But each to their own "
So you don’t mind driving 30 minutes then being cancelled on?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You don’t think it’s safe?
I’m meeting a woman in public for coffee...
What could go wrong?"
No it's not that it will be unsafe or that it will go wrong, I just think it is weird. I would feel very uncomfortable. It's tacky. Man or woman in thid scenario I would say rearrange. |
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"This shouldn't even be a question. Cancel without hesitation
What is the danger? She is a woman.....
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So were Rose West. Myra Hindley and Beverley Allitt. Cancel the meet......tho I know this is a piss take |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
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"I’m babysitting my niece today and can’t find someone to watch her for 2 hours...
But I have a strictly coffee meet with a lady from Fab and I don’t want to let her down... I know single men get a bad reputation on here for being time wasters and she has driven 30 minutes to meet me....
So Should I cancel the meeting, or bring my niece along?
This social is going to be in Starbucks...
Please help , time is of the essence..."
. Definitely cancel it’s just not right bringing a child along.By the way there is another thread call How not to do a social.On that thread the lady turns up to the social with a child. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m babysitting my niece today and can’t find someone to watch her for 2 hours...
But I have a strictly coffee meet with a lady from Fab and I don’t want to let her down... I know single men get a bad reputation on here for being time wasters and she has driven 30 minutes to meet me....
So Should I cancel the meeting, or bring my niece along?
This social is going to be in Starbucks...
Please help , time is of the essence.... Definitely cancel it’s just not right bringing a child along.By the way there is another thread call How not to do a social.On that thread the lady turns up to the social with a child."
You don’t say.... what a coincidence? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You don’t think it’s safe?
I’m meeting a woman in public for coffee...
What could go wrong?
No it's not that it will be unsafe or that it will go wrong, I just think it is weird. I would feel very uncomfortable. It's tacky. Man or woman in thid scenario I would say rearrange. "
Why would you feel uncomfortable?
She will not be paying attention to us and we were not going to have sex anyway.., |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well played OP , well played 
Just when you think this place can’t get anymore crazy and ‘swing’ in a women’s favour a thread like this comes along. Folk have lost their minds Kx |
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"You don’t think it’s safe?
I’m meeting a woman in public for coffee...
What could go wrong?
No it's not that it will be unsafe or that it will go wrong, I just think it is weird. I would feel very uncomfortable. It's tacky. Man or woman in thid scenario I would say rearrange.
Why would you feel uncomfortable?
She will not be paying attention to us and we were not going to have sex anyway..,"
By your responses you've made up your mind to go so why are you asking? Personally family comes first and if you are looking after your niece maybe she would appreciate your attention. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I refer you to the answer you gave a few hours ago in the forum post "how not to do a social"
Sounds like a bullshit look at me thread
Woooooooooosh
The matrix has them..... but I like the advice given on this thread....now we all know it’s perfectly exceptable to bring children to a social meeting on Fab , only if you’re a woman..."
I love what you did with this post... clicked onto it straight away and was giggling
No it’s not acceptable to bring children to any Fab socials or first dates ever... regardless if you’re a single mum or dad x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"love it op "
I must admit I do know of a few ladies who have taken a youngster on a social meet.
Question... It's clearly a social. It's not like ladies do not meet other people in town for coffee while shopping... 
Obviously people don't see a social as a social. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I refer you to the answer you gave a few hours ago in the forum post "how not to do a social"
Sounds like a bullshit look at me thread
Woooooooooosh
The matrix has them..... but I like the advice given on this thread....now we all know it’s perfectly exceptable to bring children to a social meeting on Fab , only if you’re a woman...
I love what you did with this post... clicked onto it straight away and was giggling
No it’s not acceptable to bring children to any Fab socials or first dates ever... regardless if you’re a single mum or dad x "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"love it op
I must admit I do know of a few ladies who have taken a youngster on a social meet.
Question... It's clearly a social. It's not like ladies do not meet other people in town for coffee while shopping...
Obviously people don't see a social as a social. "
Yes , some people have a social just to gauge compatibility and if the other person is crazy or not......
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If the child's parents are cool with you meeting someone from the net for a coffee then it's all good "
Correct, you should profit on this idea...
For a small fee you can play with the children at the coffee socials....while the adults enjoy their coffee and adult chat...
Please remember to charge higher fees , if the parents on the socials are playing without consent...... you wouldn’t want the other half to think you are a mistress and playing with their children.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"love it op
I must admit I do know of a few ladies who have taken a youngster on a social meet.
Question... It's clearly a social. It's not like ladies do not meet other people in town for coffee while shopping...
Obviously people don't see a social as a social.
Yes , some people have a social just to gauge compatibility and if the other person is crazy or not......
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It was sarcasm... Thought the emoji may have help.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If the child's parents are cool with you meeting someone from the net for a coffee then it's all good
Correct, you should profit on this idea...
For a small fee you can play with the children at the coffee socials....while the adults enjoy their coffee and adult chat...
Please remember to charge higher fees , if the parents on the socials are playing without consent...... you wouldn’t want the other half to think you are a mistress and playing with their children...."
That just sounded all so wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Contact the lady I'm question and explain your situation as your more likely to get a better response then if you just decide to cancel with out any explanation.
If you don't know the woman i.e first meet I'd probably avoid taking the child as just as you would going to see a man you want to see what type vibes you get and i know a lot of parents would be very unhappy to hear their child went to see a stranger regardless of the location time etc |
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"I’m babysitting my niece today and can’t find someone to watch her for 2 hours...
But I have a strictly coffee meet with a lady from Fab and I don’t want to let her down... I know single men get a bad reputation on here for being time wasters and she has driven 30 minutes to meet me....
So Should I cancel the meeting, or bring my niece along?
This social is going to be in Starbucks...
Please help , time is of the essence..."
Let her know the circumstances if she isn't sympathetic and understanding you are best rid. |
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"If this is a reference to another recent thread then use the advice and look at the opinions given on that one instead of having a dig at other people OP. "
I dont see him having a dig just getting the perspective from the guys side. Thank god for this thread as i was beginning to think everyone had lost the plot. So thankyou for this thread op
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m babysitting my niece today and can’t find someone to watch her for 2 hours...
But I have a strictly coffee meet with a lady from Fab and I don’t want to let her down... I know single men get a bad reputation on here for being time wasters and she has driven 30 minutes to meet me....
So Should I cancel the meeting, or bring my niece along?
This social is going to be in Starbucks...
Please help , time is of the essence..."
Looking forward to hearing how it goes OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m babysitting my niece today and can’t find someone to watch her for 2 hours...
But I have a strictly coffee meet with a lady from Fab and I don’t want to let her down... I know single men get a bad reputation on here for being time wasters and she has driven 30 minutes to meet me....
So Should I cancel the meeting, or bring my niece along?
This social is going to be in Starbucks...
Please help , time is of the essence...
Looking forward to hearing how it goes OP "
You and me both |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And next time don't arrange a meet when you have other responsibilities. It's beyond creepy taking a kid to meet a potential sex partner
What don’t you understand?... it’s a no sex social in a Starbucks....
This 2019 , people do have no sex socials to decide if they want to have sex in the future....
So I should make this woman drive 30 minutes and waste her time? Or just give my niece some chocolate milk and her iPad...
The least I should do is buy this lady a coffee for her traveling to me...
If I don’t meet her , I’ll never get another meet from Fab...
It’s hard being a single guy on here..."
lol you asked ,did you expect everyone to say yes take her ,it's not just how you perceive it to be it's about woman you're meeting and your nieces education |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sure your nieces parents would be fuming that your babysitting duties steer you to her meeting with strangers 
Definitely this "
I’d be livid if my kid was taken along especially without me knowing the “truth” |
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"And next time don't arrange a meet when you have other responsibilities. It's beyond creepy taking a kid to meet a potential sex partner
What don’t you understand?... it’s a no sex social in a Starbucks....
This 2019 , people do have no sex socials to decide if they want to have sex in the future....
So I should make this woman drive 30 minutes and waste her time? Or just give my niece some chocolate milk and her iPad...
The least I should do is buy this lady a coffee for her traveling to me...
If I don’t meet her , I’ll never get another meet from Fab...
It’s hard being a single guy on here...lol you asked ,did you expect everyone to say yes take her ,it's not just how you perceive it to be it's about woman you're meeting and your nieces education "
I expected everyone to say it was ok and even justicy his actions judging by the other thread on the same subject |
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"And next time don't arrange a meet when you have other responsibilities. It's beyond creepy taking a kid to meet a potential sex partner
What don’t you understand?... it’s a no sex social in a Starbucks....
This 2019 , people do have no sex socials to decide if they want to have sex in the future....
So I should make this woman drive 30 minutes and waste her time? Or just give my niece some chocolate milk and her iPad...
The least I should do is buy this lady a coffee for her traveling to me...
If I don’t meet her , I’ll never get another meet from Fab...
It’s hard being a single guy on here...lol you asked ,did you expect everyone to say yes take her ,it's not just how you perceive it to be it's about woman you're meeting and your nieces education I expected everyone to say it was ok and even justicy his actions judging by the other thread on the same subject"
I think children and this site this lifestyle should not be mixed not because life makes it inappropriate because in life the penis avatar of the op has a niece and he's looking after his niece that's not the problem because that relationship is nothing to do with this life but because children and the world of the written forum forumite don't mix the mere mention of them ignites alarm bells and passion. |
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"Seems like the OP wants people’s opinion but has already made their mind up. Every post that says “no, cancel” has a response that says “but it’s only a coffee”
Personally I’d prefer to be cancelled on in this situation. But each to their own
So you don’t mind driving 30 minutes then being cancelled on?
Instead of being on here asking for advice on something then ignoring it, I’d have messaged the lady in question and told her before setting off...saving the 30 minute drive. But that’s just me. Again, every answer that has been to the tune of “just cancel” you’ve come back with “but this but that” almost defensively, like you already decided to meet anyway and you just want people to back up your decision..if that’s the case, then why ask people’s opinions ?
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Cannot for the life of me see why ppl are not intelligent enough to fooking realise for themselves what the obvious answer is!!! And this is the second thread mentioning kids getting dragged to meets I don't care if its ONLY social.....wtf is going on!!! |
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Please don't take your niece. It's not the correct atmosphere to take a child.
Also, you may get on with that lady via fab or off here but there's still a chance she may not be who she says. Or she may not look like her pics.
Anything could happen. You wouldn't want to put your niece into a potentially awful/awkward situation. |
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"And next time don't arrange a meet when you have other responsibilities. It's beyond creepy taking a kid to meet a potential sex partner
What don’t you understand?... it’s a no sex social in a Starbucks....
This 2019 , people do have no sex socials to decide if they want to have sex in the future....
So I should make this woman drive 30 minutes and waste her time? Or just give my niece some chocolate milk and her iPad...
The least I should do is buy this lady a coffee for her traveling to me...
If I don’t meet her , I’ll never get another meet from Fab...
It’s hard being a single guy on here..."
this is a joke right? |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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Weather this is really just a spin-off for another thread or not, I personally don't believe that children should be connected with any kind of fab meet whether that means meeting for coffee, somebody off fab approaching you when you're out and about with a child (or without), or children in the house even if they are very young when you have intimate friends over. Just my view of course. |
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"And next time don't arrange a meet when you have other responsibilities. It's beyond creepy taking a kid to meet a potential sex partner
What don’t you understand?... it’s a no sex social in a Starbucks....
This 2019 , people do have no sex socials to decide if they want to have sex in the future....
So I should make this woman drive 30 minutes and waste her time? Or just give my niece some chocolate milk and her iPad...
The least I should do is buy this lady a coffee for her traveling to me...
If I don’t meet her , I’ll never get another meet from Fab...
It’s hard being a single guy on here...lol you asked ,did you expect everyone to say yes take her ,it's not just how you perceive it to be it's about woman you're meeting and your nieces education I expected everyone to say it was ok and even justicy his actions judging by the other thread on the same subject"
But this is Fab... Sexual equality and open-minded people embracing all equally, liberated and progressive. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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And if in the extremely unlikely chance that this is possibly real...
Why anybody would arrange a meet when they have committed to babysitting their niece, is beyond me in the first instance.
Priorities much? |
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"Cancel, be honest with the reason. If she drops you because of it so be it. "
Exactly!! Desperation should not make you cast aside morals
Let's hope the lady you are meeting is not on here reading this, as if it were me I would be dropping you like a hot stone for a) even considering taking child along and b) having to ask on here for other people's opinions...it is a no brained to be honest |
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"Cancel, be honest with the reason. If she drops you because of it so be it.
Exactly!! Desperation should not make you cast aside morals
Let's hope the lady you are meeting is not on here reading this, as if it were me I would be dropping you like a hot stone for a) even considering taking child along and b) having to ask on here for other people's opinions...it is a no brained to be honest"
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
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"I’m babysitting my niece today and can’t find someone to watch her for 2 hours...
But I have a strictly coffee meet with a lady from Fab and I don’t want to let her down... I know single men get a bad reputation on here for being time wasters and she has driven 30 minutes to meet me....
So Should I cancel the meeting, or bring my niece along?
This social is going to be in Starbucks...
Please help , time is of the essence..."
Did you A agree to babysit first before the date ....that your problem and selfish of you.
B trying to find a way out of babysitting because you want to get laid ....is selfish of you.
C tell the lady the truth and if she calls you a time waster and blocks you ....you won't get sympathy from me.
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"Please don't take your niece. It's not the correct atmosphere to take a child.
Also, you may get on with that lady via fab or off here but there's still a chance she may not be who she says. Or she may not look like her pics.
Anything could happen. You wouldn't want to put your niece into a potentially awful/awkward situation. "
God everything happens in Costa I wonder if they know you lot use it and advertise it ? |
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"Please don't take your niece. It's not the correct atmosphere to take a child.
Also, you may get on with that lady via fab or off here but there's still a chance she may not be who she says. Or she may not look like her pics.
Anything could happen. You wouldn't want to put your niece into a potentially awful/awkward situation. God everything happens in Costa I wonder if they know you lot use it and advertise it ?"
Maybe that's why he thought Starbucks would be more discreet  |
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over a year ago
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"Please don't take your niece. It's not the correct atmosphere to take a child.
Also, you may get on with that lady via fab or off here but there's still a chance she may not be who she says. Or she may not look like her pics.
Anything could happen. You wouldn't want to put your niece into a potentially awful/awkward situation. God everything happens in Costa I wonder if they know you lot use it and advertise it ?
Maybe that's why he thought Starbucks would be more discreet "
more expensive more like |
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"Please don't take your niece. It's not the correct atmosphere to take a child.
Also, you may get on with that lady via fab or off here but there's still a chance she may not be who she says. Or she may not look like her pics.
Anything could happen. You wouldn't want to put your niece into a potentially awful/awkward situation. God everything happens in Costa I wonder if they know you lot use it and advertise it ?
Maybe that's why he thought Starbucks would be more discreet more expensive more like"
Flask & park bench cheaper option |
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"Please don't take your niece. It's not the correct atmosphere to take a child.
Also, you may get on with that lady via fab or off here but there's still a chance she may not be who she says. Or she may not look like her pics.
Anything could happen. You wouldn't want to put your niece into a potentially awful/awkward situation. God everything happens in Costa I wonder if they know you lot use it and advertise it ?
Maybe that's why he thought Starbucks would be more discreet more expensive more like
Flask & park bench cheaper option "
naaaa can't drink good coffee out of a flask |
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"Please don't take your niece. It's not the correct atmosphere to take a child.
Also, you may get on with that lady via fab or off here but there's still a chance she may not be who she says. Or she may not look like her pics.
Anything could happen. You wouldn't want to put your niece into a potentially awful/awkward situation. God everything happens in Costa I wonder if they know you lot use it and advertise it ?
Maybe that's why he thought Starbucks would be more discreet more expensive more like
Flask & park bench cheaper option naaaa can't drink good coffee out of a flask "
caffettiera in a thick sock, go on your classy lol x
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"Please don't take your niece. It's not the correct atmosphere to take a child.
Also, you may get on with that lady via fab or off here but there's still a chance she may not be who she says. Or she may not look like her pics.
Anything could happen. You wouldn't want to put your niece into a potentially awful/awkward situation. God everything happens in Costa I wonder if they know you lot use it and advertise it ?
Maybe that's why he thought Starbucks would be more discreet more expensive more like
Flask & park bench cheaper option naaaa can't drink good coffee out of a flask
caffettiera in a thick sock, go on your classy lol x
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omg a sock I'm all of a sudden feeling ill |
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"Please don't take your niece. It's not the correct atmosphere to take a child.
Also, you may get on with that lady via fab or off here but there's still a chance she may not be who she says. Or she may not look like her pics.
Anything could happen. You wouldn't want to put your niece into a potentially awful/awkward situation. God everything happens in Costa I wonder if they know you lot use it and advertise it ?
Maybe that's why he thought Starbucks would be more discreet more expensive more like
Flask & park bench cheaper option naaaa can't drink good coffee out of a flask
caffettiera in a thick sock, go on your classy lol x
omg a sock I'm all of a sudden feeling ill "
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"Please don't take your niece. It's not the correct atmosphere to take a child.
Also, you may get on with that lady via fab or off here but there's still a chance she may not be who she says. Or she may not look like her pics.
Anything could happen. You wouldn't want to put your niece into a potentially awful/awkward situation. God everything happens in Costa I wonder if they know you lot use it and advertise it ?
Maybe that's why he thought Starbucks would be more discreet more expensive more like
Flask & park bench cheaper option naaaa can't drink good coffee out of a flask
caffettiera in a thick sock, go on your classy lol x
omg a sock I'm all of a sudden feeling ill
lol"
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"Please don't take your niece. It's not the correct atmosphere to take a child.
Also, you may get on with that lady via fab or off here but there's still a chance she may not be who she says. Or she may not look like her pics.
Anything could happen. You wouldn't want to put your niece into a potentially awful/awkward situation. God everything happens in Costa I wonder if they know you lot use it and advertise it ?
Maybe that's why he thought Starbucks would be more discreet more expensive more like
Flask & park bench cheaper option naaaa can't drink good coffee out of a flask
caffettiera in a thick sock, go on your classy lol x
omg a sock I'm all of a sudden feeling ill
lolwere you suggesting a used sock for extra flavour? "
No to keep it warm like a teacosy |
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"Please don't take your niece. It's not the correct atmosphere to take a child.
Also, you may get on with that lady via fab or off here but there's still a chance she may not be who she says. Or she may not look like her pics.
Anything could happen. You wouldn't want to put your niece into a potentially awful/awkward situation. God everything happens in Costa I wonder if they know you lot use it and advertise it ?
Maybe that's why he thought Starbucks would be more discreet more expensive more like
Flask & park bench cheaper option naaaa can't drink good coffee out of a flask
caffettiera in a thick sock, go on your classy lol x
omg a sock I'm all of a sudden feeling ill
lolwere you suggesting a used sock for extra flavour?
No to keep it warm like a teacosy"
omg but actually Starbucks should take it on cheesy coffee mmmmm |
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"Cannot for the life of me see why ppl are not intelligent enough to fooking realise for themselves what the obvious answer is!!! And this is the second thread mentioning kids getting dragged to meets I don't care if its ONLY social.....wtf is going on!!! "
Ironic post is ironic |
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"Cannot for the life of me see why ppl are not intelligent enough to fooking realise for themselves what the obvious answer is!!! And this is the second thread mentioning kids getting dragged to meets I don't care if its ONLY social.....wtf is going on!!!
Ironic post is ironic"
Favourite word of the week for you eh.... |
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"Its kinda amazing how few people acrually bother to read a thread before posting
I read the thread ergo my post.... "
If you read the thread why did you say its the second thread about kids when its ist the first thread reposted to see if responses are differnt for a male and female doing this |
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"Its kinda amazing how few people acrually bother to read a thread before posting
I read the thread ergo my post....
If you read the thread why did you say its the second thread about kids when its ist the first thread reposted to see if responses are differnt for a male and female doing this"
Because Einstein it isnt...the first thread was a woman who actually brought a little un to a meet this obviously is a man.... |
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Hey guys it was to prove the disparity that many have. In the other thread it was argued that it was ok to bring a child to a coffee social, a few said no, many said she can do what she likes as if there were no issues surrounding it. Here because its a guy people jump down his throa* inferring abduction, sexuality abuse, scaring of the child's vulnerable mind (I guess those people don't allow their childeen to play video games). Paranoid comes to mind with some responses. His post served well what it was intended to reflect. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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It seems to me that regardless of anything to do with gender of people meeting, people did not think it was a wise move to have a child with them even on the most social of meets in a public place, on both of the threads.
I certainly do not care what gender the adults are, same sex difference, male travelling to meet female with child, or female travelling to meet male with child, whatever, I don't think many people did agree on either thread that it was ok to involve a child, at all in your potential sex life.
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"Hey guys it was to prove the disparity that many have. In the other thread it was argued that it was ok to bring a child to a coffee social, a few said no, many said she can do what she likes as if there were no issues surrounding it. Here because its a guy people jump down his throa* inferring abduction, sexuality abuse, scaring of the child's vulnerable mind (I guess those people don't allow their childeen to play video games). Paranoid comes to mind with some responses. His post served well what it was intended to reflect."
it was a good thread. served its purpose
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"Hey guys it was to prove the disparity that many have. In the other thread it was argued that it was ok to bring a child to a coffee social, a few said no, many said she can do what she likes as if there were no issues surrounding it. Here because its a guy people jump down his throa* inferring abduction, sexuality abuse, scaring of the child's vulnerable mind (I guess those people don't allow their childeen to play video games). Paranoid comes to mind with some responses. His post served well what it was intended to reflect.it was a good thread. served its purpose"
People need to step back instead on slinging pepershot accusations at others. |
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"Hey guys it was to prove the disparity that many have. In the other thread it was argued that it was ok to bring a child to a coffee social, a few said no, many said she can do what she likes as if there were no issues surrounding it. Here because its a guy people jump down his throa* inferring abduction, sexuality abuse, scaring of the child's vulnerable mind (I guess those people don't allow their childeen to play video games). Paranoid comes to mind with some responses. His post served well what it was intended to reflect.it was a good thread. served its purpose"
My opinion is that it was unnecessary shit stirring but we can’t all hold the same opinion can we |
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"Highly amused at the difference of opinion between the 2 threads. A by the way... not all sex offenders/dangerous people are men "
Please leave common sense out of this thread,
It’s not valuable when having a forum discussion.... |
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"Hey guys it was to prove the disparity that many have. In the other thread it was argued that it was ok to bring a child to a coffee social, a few said no, many said she can do what she likes as if there were no issues surrounding it. Here because its a guy people jump down his throa* inferring abduction, sexuality abuse, scaring of the child's vulnerable mind (I guess those people don't allow their childeen to play video games). Paranoid comes to mind with some responses. His post served well what it was intended to reflect.it was a good thread. served its purpose
My opinion is that it was unnecessary shit stirring but we can’t all hold the same opinion can we"
Touché, there is a big difference between right and wrong.. I value different opinions, because I can learn something...
Choosing to bring a child to meet a stranger from the internet is wrong...
What a person decides to do with their body is perfectly acceptable.. but choosing to put a child in potential danger is beyond the beyond...
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"Hey guys it was to prove the disparity that many have. In the other thread it was argued that it was ok to bring a child to a coffee social, a few said no, many said she can do what she likes as if there were no issues surrounding it. Here because its a guy people jump down his throa* inferring abduction, sexuality abuse, scaring of the child's vulnerable mind (I guess those people don't allow their childeen to play video games). Paranoid comes to mind with some responses. His post served well what it was intended to reflect.it was a good thread. served its purpose
My opinion is that it was unnecessary shit stirring but we can’t all hold the same opinion can we
Touché, there is a big difference between right and wrong.. I value different opinions, because I can learn something...
Choosing to bring a child to meet a stranger from the internet is wrong...
What a person decides to do with their body is perfectly acceptable.. but choosing to put a child in potential danger is beyond the beyond...
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This happened to us once, we arranged a social with a couple and they turned up with their nephew, I found it so weird. If I found out my brother or sister took my kid to meet a randomer they’d never met to a sex interview because let’s face it, there will be flirting and talk of a potential second meet,, so that’s what it is, id go mental. Male or female, this world isn’t for bringing kids along |
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"The woman who did this for real is being described as "almost a daint" in the other thread while male version is a sex offender "
Everyone is a saint compared to the devil |
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"The woman who did this for real is being described as "almost a daint" in the other thread while male version is a sex offender "
Well you never know she might agterall read it and offer her Knight I’m shining white armour a blow job |
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"I’m babysitting my niece today and can’t find someone to watch her for 2 hours...
But I have a strictly coffee meet with a lady from Fab and I don’t want to let her down... I know single men get a bad reputation on here for being time wasters and she has driven 30 minutes to meet me....
So Should I cancel the meeting, or bring my niece along?
This social is going to be in Starbucks...
Please help , time is of the essence..."
did you cancel it and has she spoken to you since? |
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"I’m babysitting my niece today and can’t find someone to watch her for 2 hours...
But I have a strictly coffee meet with a lady from Fab and I don’t want to let her down... I know single men get a bad reputation on here for being time wasters and she has driven 30 minutes to meet me....
So Should I cancel the meeting, or bring my niece along?
This social is going to be in Starbucks...
Please help , time is of the essence...did you cancel it and has she spoken to you since?"
Pretty sure the thread was a social experiment. |
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"This happened to us once, we arranged a social with a couple and they turned up with their nephew, I found it so weird. If I found out my brother or sister took my kid to meet a randomer they’d never met to a sex interview because let’s face it, there will be flirting and talk of a potential second meet,, so that’s what it is, id go mental. Male or female, this world isn’t for bringing kids along "
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If my sister brought my child to a meet even at a coffee shop with a complete stranger she met online then she wouldn't be having my child ever again. It doesn't matter that it's a female. It doesn't matter that it's just coffee. That is your niece. |
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This thread is hilarious. Asks for advice and then argues the toss if he doesn't like the advice. I wouldn't be happy if I turned up to find a child had been brought along. Would probably turn around and go home. With warning I might be more amenable to still meeting for coffee. |
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"This thread is hilarious. Asks for advice and then argues the toss if he doesn't like the advice. I wouldn't be happy if I turned up to find a child had been brought along. Would probably turn around and go home. With warning I might be more amenable to still meeting for coffee."
That's because it's not real, he's proving a point, and did it very well in my opinion, nicely done OP, I'm sure Shapiro and Crowder would be proud haha |
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"I dont see a problem to be honest
So you agree exposing children to strangers from a sex site is ok? Really??"
90% of adults watch and are signed up to porn and sex sites. So you implying that we lock our kids away from others. Devil'ss advocate)
The biggest danger to our children in relation to abuse and grooming is not from real strangers but from those closest. Proven fact. This seems to be the concern from those consuming it. However there are a few on here who condemned this scenario (and that's all it was) and yet supported the lady in the other post (real scenario)
The OP did well to demonstrate many issues of inconsistency between mindset and the sexes on this site.
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"I dont see a problem to be honest
So you agree exposing children to strangers from a sex site is ok? Really??
90% of adults watch and are signed up to porn and sex sites. So you implying that we lock our kids away from others. Devil'ss advocate)
The biggest danger to our children in relation to abuse and grooming is not from real strangers but from those closest. Proven fact. This seems to be the concern from those consuming it. However there are a few on here who condemned this scenario (and that's all it was) and yet supported the lady in the other post (real scenario)
The OP did well to demonstrate many issues of inconsistency between mindset and the sexes on this site.
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"I’m babysitting my niece today and can’t find someone to watch her for 2 hours...
But I have a strictly coffee meet with a lady from Fab and I don’t want to let her down... I know single men get a bad reputation on here for being time wasters and she has driven 30 minutes to meet me....
So Should I cancel the meeting, or bring my niece along?
This social is going to be in Starbucks...
Please help , time is of the essence..."
You are a fucking legend |
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